why are ladies so desperate for marriage these days ???? (Page 4)

Date: 11-05-2011 10:14 am (12 years ago) | Author: lynn
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- simele at 12-05-2011 01:32 PM (12 years ago)
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not all of them those that are in the stage of 30 31 32 33 are doing such
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- thowbee at 12-05-2011 01:41 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: trolling on 12-05-2011 01:18 PM
With all this mindset from these women,I cant bet you most of you are going to end up being hoochie and sugar mama's.
I've seen alot of women who had this mentality of what's the big deal about marriage, but u know what they are the ones that end up in the club every other night sleeping wth different dogs, when they dont have a man in their life, then they resort to gossiping with girlfriends like them on the phone and  around themselves,they gossip about one of their frends married life, snatch people's husbands and the likes, so keep up wth that mentality you will be single and miserable in your old age.


so one will be miserable in ones old age coz she refused to allow one guy that thinks he is God to rule her life and tell her what/whatnot to do?? mehn....u really do need a change of mentality....and how is having a man in ur life going to stop u from joining the party scene and living an indecent life??..
Posted: at 12-05-2011 01:41 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 12-05-2011 01:43 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: diplomatik on 11-05-2011 11:01 AM
i'm looking for a husband  Tongue Cheesy..Dk refuses to put a ring on it  Grin Grin Grin

then tie him down with pregnancy Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 12-05-2011 01:43 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- trolling at 12-05-2011 01:47 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: thowbee on 12-05-2011 01:41 PM
Quote from: trolling on 12-05-2011 01:18 PM
With all this mindset from these women,I cant bet you most of you are going to end up being hoochie and sugar mama's.
I've seen alot of women who had this mentality of what's the big deal about marriage, but u know what they are the ones that end up in the club every other night sleeping wth different dogs, when they dont have a man in their life, then they resort to gossiping with girlfriends like them on the phone and  around themselves,they gossip about one of their frends married life, snatch people's husbands and the likes, so keep up wth that mentality you will be single and miserable in your old age.


so one will be miserable in ones old age coz she refused to allow one guy that thinks he is God to rule her life and tell her what/whatnot to do?? mehn....u really do need a change of mentality....and how is having a man in ur life going to stop u from joining the party scene and living an indecent life??..
well if at 40 u are not married whats your use then, I said 40 just to give u time to mess around and to come up wth excuses for not having a man at 30.
Posted: at 12-05-2011 01:47 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 12-05-2011 01:49 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: thowbee on 12-05-2011 01:41 PM
Quote from: trolling on 12-05-2011 01:18 PM
With all this mindset from these women,I cant bet you most of you are going to end up being hoochie and sugar mama's.
I've seen alot of women who had this mentality of what's the big deal about marriage, but u know what they are the ones that end up in the club every other night sleeping wth different dogs, when they dont have a man in their life, then they resort to gossiping with girlfriends like them on the phone and  around themselves,they gossip about one of their frends married life, snatch people's husbands and the likes, so keep up wth that mentality you will be single and miserable in your old age.



so one will be miserable in ones old age coz she refused to allow one guy that thinks he is God to rule her life and tell her what/whatnot to do?? mehn....u really do need a change of mentality....and how is having a man in ur life going to stop u from joining the party scene and living an indecent life??..



My dear,don't mind him because he has serious issues!
Some men climbed themselves on some pedestals,where because the air it's too strong for their system,
make them hallucinate big time!
And another issue I find really ridiculous and annoying in d same time, is that damn mentality that a woman
can't stay without sleeping with a guy!This is total madness and who thinks that way, should wake up!


<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qBsEF7Qx09o" target="_blank" class="aeva_link bbc_link new_win" rel="nofollow">The honeypotcat Dolls - I Don&#39;t Need A Man</a>

Posted: at 12-05-2011 01:49 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- thowbee at 12-05-2011 01:51 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: trolling on 12-05-2011 01:47 PM
Quote from: thowbee on 12-05-2011 01:41 PM
Quote from: trolling on 12-05-2011 01:18 PM
With all this mindset from these women,I cant bet you most of you are going to end up being hoochie and sugar mama's.
I've seen alot of women who had this mentality of what's the big deal about marriage, but u know what they are the ones that end up in the club every other night sleeping wth different dogs, when they dont have a man in their life, then they resort to gossiping with girlfriends like them on the phone and  around themselves,they gossip about one of their frends married life, snatch people's husbands and the likes, so keep up wth that mentality you will be single and miserable in your old age.


so one will be miserable in ones old age coz she refused to allow one guy that thinks he is God to rule her life and tell her what/whatnot to do?? mehn....u really do need a change of mentality....and how is having a man in ur life going to stop u from joining the party scene and living an indecent life??..
well if at 40 u are not married whats your use then, I said 40 just to give u time to mess around and to come up wth excuses for not having a man at 30.




so i need to be married at 40 to be useful?? and who do i need to explain to or rather give excuses to??....ever heard of 'its ur life'??
Posted: at 12-05-2011 01:51 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- trolling at 12-05-2011 01:59 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: thowbee on 12-05-2011 01:51 PM
Quote from: trolling on 12-05-2011 01:47 PM
Quote from: thowbee on 12-05-2011 01:41 PM
Quote from: trolling on 12-05-2011 01:18 PM
With all this mindset from these women,I cant bet you most of you are going to end up being hoochie and sugar mama's.
I've seen alot of women who had this mentality of what's the big deal about marriage, but u know what they are the ones that end up in the club every other night sleeping wth different dogs, when they dont have a man in their life, then they resort to gossiping with girlfriends like them on the phone and  around themselves,they gossip about one of their frends married life, snatch people's husbands and the likes, so keep up wth that mentality you will be single and miserable in your old age.


so one will be miserable in ones old age coz she refused to allow one guy that thinks he is God to rule her life and tell her what/whatnot to do?? mehn....u really do need a change of mentality....and how is having a man in ur life going to stop u from joining the party scene and living an indecent life??..
well if at 40 u are not married whats your use then, I said 40 just to give u time to mess around and to come up wth excuses for not having a man at 30.
so i need to be married at 40 to be useful?? and who do i need to explain to or rather give excuses to??....ever heard of 'its ur life'??
shittin' me u dont run yr life,ur life is on auto-pilot.
Posted: at 12-05-2011 01:59 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- lynnclassic at 12-05-2011 02:00 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: thowbee on 12-05-2011 01:31 PM
Quote from: lynnclassic on 12-05-2011 12:47 PM
Quote from: thowbee on 12-05-2011 12:31 PM
r we really that desperate??...coz am not....nd y is everyone generalizing this notion to all women??..........as for desperation, I can't understand why a woman in the 21st century will value Marriage so much to the point of desperation......just doesn't make any sense at all....
what do u mean by 21st century,that is even the more reason why ladies of these days don't give a fu*ck!!!!!!

I dont know bout the world that u live in, buh the one i live in has to do with 'independence without a man'...I dont think I need a man for anything basically except 'maybe' so that there will be a 'mrs' prefixed to my name....What dyu need a man essentially for?...kids, protection, survival??? all these can be achieved even better as a single lady...kids(adoption), protection(security guards), survival(wats the point of going to school and getting a job if u dont plan on taking care urself)....................if anyone is more particular bout protection, remember that if ur gonna get duped/robbed, it will still happen with a man in ur life...........................hell, if ur worried bout sex...get a guy somewhere...........Marriage is even more of a nuisance than it used to be.......more heartbreaks, no happiness, divorces.......why the fcuk will i wanna subject myself to that kinda life when I can be a happily single lady..............................mehn clearly u live in a different world................................................Remember every lady says 'I wanna support My husband and family', for u to say that means u can equally support urself....
pls u need 2 change ur mind set!!!!!!!!!!who told u that getting married means life imprisonment?u think having kids outside marriage is the best?what made 2 reason this way cos am amazed! so any time u need sex u will look 4 a guy that will give it 2 u? going to school n getting a job does not mean that is free ticket to happiness,nobody is against a woman that personally wants to b single but mind u a time will come in ur life that u will prefer having ur man at ur call than looking 4 a sex partner!
Posted: at 12-05-2011 02:00 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- thowbee at 12-05-2011 02:04 PM (12 years ago)
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so ur life is on auto-pilot?? think i get y uv been making these points..nice!
Posted: at 12-05-2011 02:04 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- trolling at 12-05-2011 02:07 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: thowbee on 12-05-2011 02:04 PM
so ur life is on auto-pilot?? think i get y uv been making these points..nice!
now we are on the same page, so u can go ahead and sex as many men as u want,"it's your life"
Posted: at 12-05-2011 02:07 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- thowbee at 12-05-2011 02:11 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: lynnclassic on 12-05-2011 02:00 PM
Quote from: thowbee on 12-05-2011 01:31 PM
Quote from: lynnclassic on 12-05-2011 12:47 PM
Quote from: thowbee on 12-05-2011 12:31 PM
r we really that desperate??...coz am not....nd y is everyone generalizing this notion to all women??..........as for desperation, I can't understand why a woman in the 21st century will value Marriage so much to the point of desperation......just doesn't make any sense at all....
what do u mean by 21st century,that is even the more reason why ladies of these days don't give a fu*ck!!!!!!

I dont know bout the world that u live in, buh the one i live in has to do with 'independence without a man'...I dont think I need a man for anything basically except 'maybe' so that there will be a 'mrs' prefixed to my name....What dyu need a man essentially for?...kids, protection, survival??? all these can be achieved even better as a single lady...kids(adoption), protection(security guards), survival(wats the point of going to school and getting a job if u dont plan on taking care urself)....................if anyone is more particular bout protection, remember that if ur gonna get duped/robbed, it will still happen with a man in ur life...........................hell, if ur worried bout sex...get a guy somewhere...........Marriage is even more of a nuisance than it used to be.......more heartbreaks, no happiness, divorces.......why the fcuk will i wanna subject myself to that kinda life when I can be a happily single lady..............................mehn clearly u live in a different world................................................Remember every lady says 'I wanna support My husband and family', for u to say that means u can equally support urself....
pls u need 2 change ur mind set!!!!!!!!!!who told u that getting married means life imprisonment?u think having kids outside marriage is the best?what made 2 reason this way cos am amazed! so any time u need sex u will look 4 a guy that will give it 2 u? going to school n getting a job does not mean that is free ticket to happiness,nobody is against a woman that personally wants to b single but mind u a time will come in ur life that u will prefer having ur man at ur call than looking 4 a sex partner!


listen, I never said getting married is life imprisonment, I only said that you dont need to get married for the wrong reasons....coz it is for a life time...and whats the point of having children in wedlock and the guy eventually leaves u compared to out of wedlock and ur still not with the guy?? why go thru all that?? so u goin to skul and getting a job has not made u happy?? am sure u knw that among other things ur husband is, he is also ur sex partner.........so i really dont see ur point..
Posted: at 12-05-2011 02:11 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- thowbee at 12-05-2011 02:13 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: trolling on 12-05-2011 02:07 PM
Quote from: thowbee on 12-05-2011 02:04 PM
so ur life is on auto-pilot?? think i get y uv been making these points..nice!
now we are on the same page, so u can go ahead and sex as many men as u want,"it's your life"


oh no we r not on the same page and YES I can sex as many as I want....
Posted: at 12-05-2011 02:13 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- lynnclassic at 12-05-2011 02:54 PM (12 years ago)
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@thowbee u don't know me n i don't know u but am a woman like u mayb ur senior or junior can't say,u have 2 understd me 4rom my point of view.
my going 2 school n getting a job does not mean i have arrived.women will say i don't need a man or i can pay my bills fine but with time all that changes cos as u get older there r things u will desire as a woman cos u can't b young 4ever.then u will look 4 young guy to satisfy ur needs while u pay his bills n he spends it on younger girls n u find ur self having heartbreak, mind u that make alot of ladies 2 start looking 4 a more matured man with experience n understanding b4 u realize it u r distroying another womans home.
Posted: at 12-05-2011 02:54 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- trolling at 12-05-2011 02:57 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: thowbee on 12-05-2011 02:13 PM
Quote from: trolling on 12-05-2011 02:07 PM
Quote from: thowbee on 12-05-2011 02:04 PM
so ur life is on auto-pilot?? think i get y uv been making these points..nice!
now we are on the same page, so u can go ahead and sex as many men as u want,"it's your life"


oh no we r not on the same page and YES I can sex as many as I want....
the thing no get meter now carry go
Posted: at 12-05-2011 02:57 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 12-05-2011 03:01 PM (12 years ago)
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ok i need a man now..by force

Posted: at 12-05-2011 03:01 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- thowbee at 12-05-2011 03:02 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: trolling on 12-05-2011 02:57 PM
Quote from: thowbee on 12-05-2011 02:13 PM
Quote from: trolling on 12-05-2011 02:07 PM
Quote from: thowbee on 12-05-2011 02:04 PM
so ur life is on auto-pilot?? think i get y uv been making these points..nice!
now we are on the same page, so u can go ahead and sex as many men as u want,"it's your life"


oh no we r not on the same page and YES I can sex as many as I want....
the thing no get meter now carry go

u ryt..
Posted: at 12-05-2011 03:02 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- trolling at 12-05-2011 03:03 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 12-05-2011 03:01 PM
ok i need a man now..by force
the thing dey scratch you. Cool Cool
Posted: at 12-05-2011 03:03 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 12-05-2011 03:05 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: trolling on 12-05-2011 03:03 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on 12-05-2011 03:01 PM
ok i need a man now..by force
the thing dey scratch you. Cool Cool
wht thing?

Posted: at 12-05-2011 03:05 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- thowbee at 12-05-2011 03:12 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: lynnclassic on 12-05-2011 02:54 PM
@thowbee u don't know me n i don't know u but am a woman like u mayb ur senior or junior can't say,u have 2 understd me 4rom my point of view.
my going 2 school n getting a job does not mean i have arrived.women will say i don't need a man or i can pay my bills fine but with time all that changes cos as u get older there r things u will desire as a woman cos u can't b young 4ever.then u will look 4 young guy to satisfy ur needs while u pay his bills n he spends it on younger girls n u find ur self having heartbreak, mind u that make alot of ladies 2 start looking 4 a more matured man with experience n understanding b4 u realize it u r distroying another womans home.


think we can agree to disagree...if ur thinking bout giving money to a guy and he spending it on other girls..then it shows ur not ready to live a single life and ur not confident of urself...coz why r u concerned bout what another guy does especially wen all u hv with the so-called guy is an arrangement...... I am not saying I encourage this, I say this becoz of ladies that myt consider the segxwal part of living single............
Posted: at 12-05-2011 03:12 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ben712003 at 12-05-2011 04:17 PM (12 years ago)
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r we really that desperate??...coz am not....nd y is everyone generalizing this notion to all women??..........as for desperation, I can't understand why a woman in the 21st century will value Marriage so much to the point of desperation......just doesn't make any sense at all....
[/quote]what do u mean by 21st century,that is even the more reason why ladies of these days don't give a fu*ck!!!!!!
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I dont know bout the world that u live in, buh the one i live in has to do with 'independence without a man'...I dont think I need a man for anything basically except 'maybe' so that there will be a 'mrs' prefixed to my name....What dyu need a man essentially for?...kids, protection, survival??? all these can be achieved even better as a single lady...kids(adoption), protection(security guards), survival(wats the point of going to school and getting a job if u dont plan on taking care urself)....................if anyone is more particular bout protection, remember that if ur gonna get duped/robbed, it will still happen with a man in ur life...........................hell, if ur worried bout sex...get a guy somewhere...........Marriage is even more of a nuisance than it used to be.......more heartbreaks, no happiness, divorces.......why the fcuk will i wanna subject myself to that kinda life when I can be a happily single lady..............................mehn clearly u live in a different world................................................Remember every lady says 'I wanna support My husband and family', for u to say that means u can equally support urself....
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@thowbee I don't know the country you live, but I know is married couple that adopt kids...........better change the way u reason
before is too late.
Posted: at 12-05-2011 04:17 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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