![-]( "kenolis") kenolis at 13-05-2011 01:31 AM (13 years ago)  (m) Look around the world and tell me between Africans and other continent in the world who makes a better couple
Long Lasting Couple
Happy Family
love Till Death Comes
i think the Africans, coz whites don't care  Kenolisssss wetin whites again...i don see u holding hands with white lady oooo any nationality had relationships that last long...........but for real all those christian countries most of them really shared lives til death...
you came very late....am out | Posted: at 13-05-2011 01:31 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "kenolis") kenolis at 13-05-2011 01:34 AM (13 years ago) (m) the white's are still the best case close
why should case close now? who give you the oder to say so while am the final say here.
take your time ooooooo  this man you nor dey sleep  watch man can not sleep na!!! or do you want to send your gang to come and steal? | Posted: at 13-05-2011 01:34 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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cuz they believe in divorce...we cheat..
lol | Posted: at 13-05-2011 05:17 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "moniconyez") moniconyez at 13-05-2011 05:44 AM (13 years ago) (m) hmmmmmmm | Posted: at 13-05-2011 05:44 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "skyleo") skyleo at 13-05-2011 09:45 AM (13 years ago) (m) How did you arrive at your conclusion, i mean how and where did you carry out your research? | Posted: at 13-05-2011 09:45 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "sexyib") sexyib at 13-05-2011 10:58 AM (13 years ago) (f) i think African relationship last more than any other continent. | Posted: at 13-05-2011 10:58 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "pitav") pitav at 13-05-2011 12:52 PM (13 years ago) (m) I need to air my own opinion here cos it depends on the individual to marry till death do them apart but here in Italy,the italian women dont even like to marry and when mistakely get married,the women always divorce their husband to get all the money and properties and some of the woman like it ''INDENPENT AND SINGLE LADY'S LIFE'' andthe Italian men are scared to marry as well because the women always divorce because the want all the man's sweat and for German,the German ladies can divorce to go for the bigger ''D..k and CORK.its true ''WHITES''dont care.
African are still the best cos their have the fear of God and also respect traditions of tribes and religious and this makes them to stay longer with their husband or wife but now fricans are also copying the western world of life..''DIVORCE''.take it or live it.
My brother, if your view is really correct, which i think it is, i wonder if these westerners really have regard and sanctity for the institution of marriage that God in His Wisdom ordained. I wonder how some one will just wake up and decide to call it quit with his partner all because of flimsy excuses which could have been worked out together. Marraige is the comming together of 2 different people entirely, so there must be differences. Love, tolerance, patience etc. is needed to make it stand. The failure in the home is bringing about a decadence in the society. God knows that 2 people have differneces but He had made provisions for them to be compatitble. Divorce is being legalised without regard to God's word any more. Even after so many years of courtship which is meant for them to have studied each other very well before concluding to be bound forever with such a fellow, divorce is still rampat. Does it mean they were hypocritical in courtship and only unveils their real self after marraige or they suddenly imbibe negative characters which the other party doesn't like? Even Homosegxwality, Lesbianism, Gay marraige is even been legalised with such impunity to the Bible all in the name of civilisation and freedom of .............. whatsoever they call it. They beleive to know God better but their act of civilisation had disdained the Word of God. Once upon a time, a Presidential Candidate of one of the western nations practices Homosegxwalism but thank God for the Christians of that nation that voted against him. Such a culture where parents could be send to jail for disciplining their children in-line with the Bible that says "Foolishness is born in the heart of a child but the rod of correction will drive it far away" " Spare the rod and spoil the child". All these are signs of the endtime. What is needful of all is to amend our ways before an angry Judge while His mercy still exist. | Posted: at 13-05-2011 12:52 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 13-05-2011 03:19 PM (13 years ago) (m) the western has the best way of marriage they don't go for do or die if condition is not favourable the will solo but african is do or die and is not helping
Correct! don't say correct cuz i could prove you wrong beyond every reasonable doubt..but i'll choose to remain mute on this one.
If I would have to choose from living alone and living with a dude who has behavioral issues, who abuses me and my kids,
verbally and even physically, I must be out of mind to remain in that relationship! And the kids will definitely be affected in bad,too,so who says that they remain in a tormenting relationship for the children, they should think twice!
A longeval couple DOES NOT mean a happy couple!
BUT,if u can affirm from the bottom of your heart that u're referring at couples where the love and respect is mutual,
where there is no trace of adultery, and no room for any type of abuse ,I bow for those couples!
But...I doubt that we can say that in this world exist a certain area where those kind of couples abound! I chose not to comment on this topic for couple of reasons.people would easily misinterpret your statements do to how controversial it's. i always prefer commenting on broad issues that affects individuals irrespective of group,race,color or nationalities...now as you wish to know,i'm basing my view on the real definition of "better and lasting couples" which includes happiness,love,mutual respect,tolerance and patients.yes! there are certain area and continent where the percentage of a better and lasting couples are higher than the rest of of the world.and that place is africa follow by south america,while the western world are on the bottom of the list. i've seen and still witnessing couples celebrating their 50-60 years in marriage.what's the secret? simple they respect,compromise and tolerate each other,and the man playing his role as the head and the wife her own role as well, by submitting to her husband,which is very very rare in western countries. you can imagine couples in western world filling for divorce for some kind of ridiculous stuff such as....he's no longer active in bed or one of them loses his/her job.in some cases a lady will have a peaceful dinner with his man and kids,then later in the morning, her greeting will be "honey my feelings for you is dead i have already file for divorce,i think i have to move out with our kids..just imagine that.so the bottom line is that, westerners don't value much the institution of marriage.that's the fact. | Posted: at 13-05-2011 03:19 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "harold634") harold634 at 13-05-2011 03:27 PM (13 years ago) (m) the western has the best way of marriage they don't go for do or die if condition is not favourable the will solo but african is do or die and is not helping
Correct! don't say correct cuz i could prove you wrong beyond every reasonable doubt..but i'll choose to remain mute on this one.
If I would have to choose from living alone and living with a dude who has behavioral issues, who abuses me and my kids,
verbally and even physically, I must be out of mind to remain in that relationship! And the kids will definitely be affected in bad,too,so who says that they remain in a tormenting relationship for the children, they should think twice!
A longeval couple DOES NOT mean a happy couple!
BUT,if u can affirm from the bottom of your heart that u're referring at couples where the love and respect is mutual,
where there is no trace of adultery, and no room for any type of abuse ,I bow for those couples!
But...I doubt that we can say that in this world exist a certain area where those kind of couples abound! I chose not to comment on this topic for couple of reasons.people would easily misinterpret your statements do to how controversial it's. i always prefer commenting on broad issues that affects individuals irrespective of group,race,color or nationalities...now as you wish to know,i'm basing my view on the real definition of "better and lasting couples" which includes happiness,love,mutual respect,tolerance and patients.yes! there are certain area and continent where the percentage of a better and lasting couples are higher than the rest of of the world.and that place is africa follow by south america,while the western world are on the bottom of the list. i've seen and still witnessing couples celebrating their 50-60 years in marriage.what's the secret? simple they respect,compromise and tolerate each other,and the man playing his role as the head and the wife her own role as well, by submitting to her husband,which is very very rare in western countries. you can imagine couples in western world filling for divorce for some kind of ridiculous stuff such as....he's no longer active in bed or one of them loses his/her job.in some cases a lady will have a peaceful dinner with his man and kids,then later in the morning, her greeting will be "honey my feelings for you is dead i have already file for divorce,i think i have to move out with our kids..just imagine that.so the bottom line is that, westerners don't value much the institution of marriage.that's the fact. You have said the reality word about western marriage especially the red words. the truth is very difficult to accept. hailings 4 this analysis. | Posted: at 13-05-2011 03:27 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 13-05-2011 03:31 PM (13 years ago) (m) the western has the best way of marriage they don't go for do or die if condition is not favourable the will solo but african is do or die and is not helping
Correct! don't say correct cuz i could prove you wrong beyond every reasonable doubt..but i'll choose to remain mute on this one.
If I would have to choose from living alone and living with a dude who has behavioral issues, who abuses me and my kids,
verbally and even physically, I must be out of mind to remain in that relationship! And the kids will definitely be affected in bad,too,so who says that they remain in a tormenting relationship for the children, they should think twice!
A longeval couple DOES NOT mean a happy couple!
BUT,if u can affirm from the bottom of your heart that u're referring at couples where the love and respect is mutual,
where there is no trace of adultery, and no room for any type of abuse ,I bow for those couples!
But...I doubt that we can say that in this world exist a certain area where those kind of couples abound! I chose not to comment on this topic for couple of reasons.people would easily misinterpret your statements do to how controversial it's. i always prefer commenting on broad issues that affects individuals irrespective of group,race,color or nationalities...now as you wish to know,i'm basing my view on the real definition of "better and lasting couples" which includes happiness,love,mutual respect,tolerance and patients.yes! there are certain area and continent where the percentage of a better and lasting couples are higher than the rest of of the world.and that place is africa follow by south america,while the western world are on the bottom of the list. i've seen and still witnessing couples celebrating their 50-60 years in marriage.what's the secret? simple they respect,compromise and tolerate each other,and the man playing his role as the head and the wife her own role as well, by submitting to her husband,which is very very rare in western countries. you can imagine couples in western world filling for divorce for some kind of ridiculous stuff such as....he's no longer active in bed or one of them loses his/her job.in some cases a lady will have a peaceful dinner with his man and kids,then later in the morning, her greeting will be "honey my feelings for you is dead i have already file for divorce,i think i have to move out with our kids..just imagine that.so the bottom line is that, westerners don't value much the institution of marriage.that's the fact. You have said the reality word about western marriage especially the red words. the truth is very difficult to accept. hailings 4 this analysis. thaks harold.  | Posted: at 13-05-2011 03:31 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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the western has the best way of marriage they don't go for do or die if condition is not favourable the will solo but african is do or die and is not helping
Correct! don't say correct cuz i could prove you wrong beyond every reasonable doubt..but i'll choose to remain mute on this one.
If I would have to choose from living alone and living with a dude who has behavioral issues, who abuses me and my kids,
verbally and even physically, I must be out of mind to remain in that relationship! And the kids will definitely be affected in bad,too,so who says that they remain in a tormenting relationship for the children, they should think twice!
A longeval couple DOES NOT mean a happy couple!
BUT,if u can affirm from the bottom of your heart that u're referring at couples where the love and respect is mutual,
where there is no trace of adultery, and no room for any type of abuse ,I bow for those couples!
But...I doubt that we can say that in this world exist a certain area where those kind of couples abound! I chose not to comment on this topic for couple of reasons.people would easily misinterpret your statements do to how controversial it's. i always prefer commenting on broad issues that affects individuals irrespective of group,race,color or nationalities...now as you wish to know,i'm basing my view on the real definition of "better and lasting couples" which includes happiness,love,mutual respect,tolerance and patients.yes! there are certain area and continent where the percentage of a better and lasting couples are higher than the rest of of the world.and that place is africa follow by south america,while the western world are on the bottom of the list. i've seen and still witnessing couples celebrating their 50-60 years in marriage.what's the secret? simple they respect,compromise and tolerate each other,and the man playing his role as the head and the wife her own role as well, by submitting to her husband,which is very very rare in western countries. you can imagine couples in western world filling for divorce for some kind of ridiculous stuff such as....he's no longer active in bed or one of them loses his/her job.in some cases a lady will have a peaceful dinner with his man and kids,then later in the morning, her greeting will be "honey my feelings for you is dead i have already file for divorce,i think i have to move out with our kids..just imagine that.so the bottom line is that, westerners don't value much the institution of marriage.that's the fact.
I'll tell u only this and I'm out of here:I have a very big family, and there's absolutely no case of divorce!
And there r couples who are married for more than 50 years!
Those reasons u enumerated there r really pathetic! I don't say I wouldn't take d divorce in consideration!
I would definitely would if I would be abused or cheated on!I don't see any pride in remaining in a tormenting relationship!
This life is to damn short to take such sh*t!
I rest my case!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 13-05-2011 03:42 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 13-05-2011 03:51 PM (13 years ago) (m) the western has the best way of marriage they don't go for do or die if condition is not favourable the will solo but african is do or die and is not helping
Correct! don't say correct cuz i could prove you wrong beyond every reasonable doubt..but i'll choose to remain mute on this one.
If I would have to choose from living alone and living with a dude who has behavioral issues, who abuses me and my kids,
verbally and even physically, I must be out of mind to remain in that relationship! And the kids will definitely be affected in bad,too,so who says that they remain in a tormenting relationship for the children, they should think twice!
A longeval couple DOES NOT mean a happy couple!
BUT,if u can affirm from the bottom of your heart that u're referring at couples where the love and respect is mutual,
where there is no trace of adultery, and no room for any type of abuse ,I bow for those couples!
But...I doubt that we can say that in this world exist a certain area where those kind of couples abound! I chose not to comment on this topic for couple of reasons.people would easily misinterpret your statements do to how controversial it's. i always prefer commenting on broad issues that affects individuals irrespective of group,race,color or nationalities...now as you wish to know,i'm basing my view on the real definition of "better and lasting couples" which includes happiness,love,mutual respect,tolerance and patients.yes! there are certain area and continent where the percentage of a better and lasting couples are higher than the rest of of the world.and that place is africa follow by south america,while the western world are on the bottom of the list. i've seen and still witnessing couples celebrating their 50-60 years in marriage.what's the secret? simple they respect,compromise and tolerate each other,and the man playing his role as the head and the wife her own role as well, by submitting to her husband,which is very very rare in western countries. you can imagine couples in western world filling for divorce for some kind of ridiculous stuff such as....he's no longer active in bed or one of them loses his/her job.in some cases a lady will have a peaceful dinner with his man and kids,then later in the morning, her greeting will be "honey my feelings for you is dead i have already file for divorce,i think i have to move out with our kids..just imagine that.so the bottom line is that, westerners don't value much the institution of marriage.that's the fact.
I'll tell u only this and I'm out of here:I have a very big family, and there's absolutely no case of divorce!
And there r couples who are married for more than 50 years!
those reasons u enumerated there r Those reasons u enumerated there r really pathetic!  I don't say I wouldn't take d divorce in consideration!
I would definitely would if I would be abused or cheated on!I don't see any pride in remaining in a tormenting relationship!
This life is to damn short to take such sh*t!
I rest my case!well no qualms,i accepts the indirect insult...now i can see u r upset.. and i warn/told you guys i don't want to comment on sensitive and controversial topic.. that's not my style..i race my case as well | Posted: at 13-05-2011 03:51 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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No,no,no,Sobeit!There u got me wrong! I didn't say they r pathetic bcz u've enumerated them,
but pathetic for those who use them as excuses for a divorce!I didn't say they don't exist!
That's why I also enumerated the reasons I personally think they r totally understandable for doing such a step!
That's all!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 13-05-2011 04:09 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "frayobkk") frayobkk at 13-05-2011 04:33 PM (13 years ago) (m) i think African relationship last more than any other continent.
my sister that is how it is wheather anyone believe it or not Africa is the best
Jesus replied, "What is impossible with men is possible with God." Luke 18:27 | Posted: at 13-05-2011 04:33 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Deffney") Deffney at 13-05-2011 04:55 PM (13 years ago) (f) i don hear
Hope my smiles will touch my pals heart | Posted: at 13-05-2011 04:55 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 13-05-2011 06:06 PM (13 years ago) (f) ofcourse this is an african site and they must say africa is the even if we all know its not true | Posted: at 13-05-2011 06:06 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "moniconyez") moniconyez at 13-05-2011 06:20 PM (13 years ago) (m) WE ARE THE BEST IN LONG TIME MARRIAGE | Posted: at 13-05-2011 06:20 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "HOPEA23") HOPEA23 at 13-05-2011 06:22 PM (13 years ago) (f) na african na..westnerworld don't know othing about marriage
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE. | Posted: at 13-05-2011 06:22 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "kenolis") kenolis at 14-05-2011 01:13 AM (13 years ago) (m) i don hear
he wasn't talking to you, so hear nothing | Posted: at 14-05-2011 01:13 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "kenolis") kenolis at 14-05-2011 01:15 AM (13 years ago) (m) na african na..westnerworld don't know othing about marriage
are you married? | Posted: at 14-05-2011 01:15 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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