You're missing the point Brother !! You don't have to twist it so much... Take it in a straight way, that she insist and requested your permission to hang out with her friends, old good time Friends indeed always remain best of friends. This is where trust, respect to her view plays little role. If you The Man, that said, swtheart, i will be having a dinner meeting with my colleagues after work, I might be coming back little late tonight, she will obediently say ok swtheart, No problem. But now, she's sincere, honest and tell you straight, what she wants, who she's going to be with and where... Why can't you agree with her once you know where she will be hanging out with friend and what time she will be coming back... you should even go and drive her home, in case if she drink.
I think we ( Men) should be considerable atimes with the way we see our partners, we shouldn't forget they've been there before we met them, marry them, if she will not be the one, nothing will make her be the one.
Well, the difference here is that the man is having a dinner meeting with his colleagues at work, NOT hanging out with his home bois at the bar drinking or clubbing. It is not about the PERSON, it is about the ENVIRONMENT in which the person is putting their-selves in. I do not have a problem if my wife asks for permission to hang out with her friends at a restaurant for dinner, which by the way she has several times and all these women but 1 of them are married and I know them personally. But I would have a problem if she mentions night club cos she knows it will not be granted. And besides since 2 and a half years of marriage, she has never even requested to do such thing. If she wants to club, she always want me to go with her. Men do it and the women never complain about it ? Men hangout with old bois, friends, old mate that came in town and so on and so forth.. The wife will never complain because we know how to paint it better. Mind you the kind of club to hang out with her friends and gossip is not going to be all that hip hop and noisy type, if it is, I doubt they will even had any conversation.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! | Posted: at 22-05-2011 12:31 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 22-05-2011 12:32 AM (12 years ago)  (f) You're missing the point Brother !! You don't have to twist it so much... Take it in a straight way, that she insist and requested your permission to hang out with her friends, old good time Friends indeed always remain best of friends. This is where trust, respect to her view plays little role. If you The Man, that said, swtheart, i will be having a dinner meeting with my colleagues after work, I might be coming back little late tonight, she will obediently say ok swtheart, No problem. But now, she's sincere, honest and tell you straight, what she wants, who she's going to be with and where... Why can't you agree with her once you know where she will be hanging out with friend and what time she will be coming back... you should even go and drive her home, in case if she drink.
I think we ( Men) should be considerable atimes with the way we see our partners, we shouldn't forget they've been there before we met them, marry them, if she will not be the one, nothing will make her be the one.
u took the words right out of my mouth true talk, if u even pick her up is love and u know she is coming home with u,it is also romantic monitoring , DK u will b a very good father to ur teenage kids cos they will feel free to tell u everything  Thank u so much, You're a darling  .. I will love to make that my top priority, show them love and teach them how treat people with Love and respect. I believe if the wife and kids are been shower with love and care, They will never hide anything from you, You will always be their shoulder to lean on anytime, Number one person to know when they're in difficulty, listen to them and help them sort it out. highlighted word exactly and not to thier friends dat might mislead them, like my husband he knows he is the first person i tell everything, soo one day i told my mum something before telling him so he asked why didnt u tell me , cos that never happened before , and i said cos u werent listening anymore and dont want to understand ,and he changed, so people need trust and listening ears ofcourse a little bit of boundary when it is going too far | Posted: at 22-05-2011 12:32 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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@Dirtykid u r making a lot of sense about trust and freedom of expression @TYPICAL u r making a lot of sense that people should b careful and not sentimental , u both make sense but as dirtykid said once in a while is really no big deal and going to club doesnt mean u r going to b irresponsible, infact it is only when u dont give ur wife the attetion she needs and she is sex starved dat will make her start admiring other guys, i used to hangout with friends in the club when we were bored to dance drink and go back home , soo dat u go to club has nothing to do with being irresponsible or doing something bad as dirtykid said irresponsibility is in the person and not in the going to the club so if u know ur wife not to b irresponsible , if she wanted to be irresponsible then she wouldnt tell u atall, she doesnt need to go to club to be irresponsible
Honey, going to the club in itself is Irresponsible. it isnt honestly believe me , it depends on what u go there to do that is what is irresponsible not going to the club or the person going to the club, thats the mistake some people make they judge u maybe by your dress n say he is poor rich or irresponsible,, ofcourse u can tell me that there r irresponsible people that go to club ,but these same people go to church mosque offices , so does that make them different no they remain thier irresponsible self , but does not mean everybody in the club is irreponsible or in the church or offices are responsible , its a personality and not in the club she is going to Ugh ugh Hun! Clubbing is an irresponsible behavior. Your Bible tells you this. Civilization has caused people to be able to chose what they think is wrong and what they think is right. Forgive me if i sound old-fashioned but Clubbing is an irresponsible act. Tell me a single meaningful act that goes on in the club.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! | Posted: at 22-05-2011 12:36 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 22-05-2011 12:40 AM (12 years ago) (m) @Typical.......... Don't worry bro !! We can never be compatible on this, I just made my points clear about this......... Like i said, we Men knows how to paint our own hangout and polish it very well with names of the places as you mentioned above, but once our lady mention one, is a serious offense, is high time we start reasoning well and see them as our missing rib... Drop jealous, distrust and suspicious minds. allow them to express themselves and be happy to do things freely like is suppose to be. I rest my case about this, All man to his choices, remember is a free style thing !! 
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 22-05-2011 12:40 AM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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@Typical.......... Don't worry bro !! We can never be compatible on this, I just made my points clear about this......... Like i said, we Men knows how to paint our own hangout and polish it very well with names of the places as you mentioned above, but once our lady mention one, is a serious offense, is high time we start reasoning well and see them as our missing rib... Drop jealous, distrust and suspicious minds. allow them to express themselves and be happy to do things freely like is suppose to be. I rest my case about this, All man to his choices, remember is a free style thing !! Thank You for your intelligent opinion BUT that is your Opinion, nevertheless, i strongly stand behind Mine.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! | Posted: at 22-05-2011 12:44 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 22-05-2011 12:44 AM (12 years ago) (f) @Dirtykid u r making a lot of sense about trust and freedom of expression @TYPICAL u r making a lot of sense that people should b careful and not sentimental , u both make sense but as dirtykid said once in a while is really no big deal and going to club doesnt mean u r going to b irresponsible, infact it is only when u dont give ur wife the attetion she needs and she is sex starved dat will make her start admiring other guys, i used to hangout with friends in the club when we were bored to dance drink and go back home , soo dat u go to club has nothing to do with being irresponsible or doing something bad as dirtykid said irresponsibility is in the person and not in the going to the club so if u know ur wife not to b irresponsible , if she wanted to be irresponsible then she wouldnt tell u atall, she doesnt need to go to club to be irresponsible
Honey, going to the club in itself is Irresponsible. it isnt honestly believe me , it depends on what u go there to do that is what is irresponsible not going to the club or the person going to the club, thats the mistake some people make they judge u maybe by your dress n say he is poor rich or irresponsible,, ofcourse u can tell me that there r irresponsible people that go to club ,but these same people go to church mosque offices , so does that make them different no they remain thier irresponsible self , but does not mean everybody in the club is irreponsible or in the church or offices are responsible , its a personality and not in the club she is going to Ugh ugh Hun! Clubbing is an irresponsible behavior. Your Bible tells you this. Civilization has caused people to be able to chose what they think is wrong and what they think is right. Forgive me if i sound old-fashioned but Clubbing is an irresponsible act. Tell me a single meaningful act that goes on in the club. it makes u happy , u get to rock and forget ur boredom maybe u do taking care of kids working schooling reading and so many things at a point routine gets boring, so that u dont get depressed u do something new and interesting , thats what is in the club , clubbing is not irresponsible in totality some people go there to do irresponsible things it depends on what u have on ur mind when u r going to club , if u r talking about GOD then u can say clubbing is a sin then that will b another topic , and a depressed person is an unhappy person an unhappy person is an angry person and an angry person can do a whole lot of things to be happy again like she starts seeing problems with the marriage ,then u will b getting unwanted problems just cos she is depressed | Posted: at 22-05-2011 12:44 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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@Dirtykid u r making a lot of sense about trust and freedom of expression @TYPICAL u r making a lot of sense that people should b careful and not sentimental , u both make sense but as dirtykid said once in a while is really no big deal and going to club doesnt mean u r going to b irresponsible, infact it is only when u dont give ur wife the attetion she needs and she is sex starved dat will make her start admiring other guys, i used to hangout with friends in the club when we were bored to dance drink and go back home , soo dat u go to club has nothing to do with being irresponsible or doing something bad as dirtykid said irresponsibility is in the person and not in the going to the club so if u know ur wife not to b irresponsible , if she wanted to be irresponsible then she wouldnt tell u atall, she doesnt need to go to club to be irresponsible
Honey, going to the club in itself is Irresponsible. it isnt honestly believe me , it depends on what u go there to do that is what is irresponsible not going to the club or the person going to the club, thats the mistake some people make they judge u maybe by your dress n say he is poor rich or irresponsible,, ofcourse u can tell me that there r irresponsible people that go to club ,but these same people go to church mosque offices , so does that make them different no they remain thier irresponsible self , but does not mean everybody in the club is irreponsible or in the church or offices are responsible , its a personality and not in the club she is going to Ugh ugh Hun! Clubbing is an irresponsible behavior. Your Bible tells you this. Civilization has caused people to be able to chose what they think is wrong and what they think is right. Forgive me if i sound old-fashioned but Clubbing is an irresponsible act. Tell me a single meaningful act that goes on in the club. it makes u happy , u get to rock and forget ur boredom maybe u do taking care of kids working schooling reading and so many things at a point routine gets boring, so that u dont get depressed u do something new and interesting , thats what is in the club , clubbing is not irresponsible in totality some people go there to do irresponsible things it depends on what u have on ur mind when u r going to club , i f u r talking about GOD then u can say clubbing is a sin then that will b another topic , and a depressed person is an unhappy person an unhappy person is an angry person and an angry person can do a whole lot of things to be happy again like she starts seeing problems with the marriage ,then u will b getting unwanted problems just cos she is depressed What exactly have we been talking about all these while? I repeatedly said it is not about the PERSON... it is about the ENVIRONMENT. If you want to be happy and get your mind off of alot of things, there are too many places you can go to have fun without subjecting yourself to SIN... Like going out to the park, going to see a movie, go to a recreational center etc. A sin is a SIN, whether we involve God in it or not.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! | Posted: at 22-05-2011 12:50 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 22-05-2011 12:54 AM (12 years ago) (m) You're missing the point Brother !! You don't have to twist it so much... Take it in a straight way, that she insist and requested your permission to hang out with her friends, old good time Friends indeed always remain best of friends. This is where trust, respect to her view plays little role. If you The Man, that said, swtheart, i will be having a dinner meeting with my colleagues after work, I might be coming back little late tonight, she will obediently say ok swtheart, No problem. But now, she's sincere, honest and tell you straight, what she wants, who she's going to be with and where... Why can't you agree with her once you know where she will be hanging out with friend and what time she will be coming back... you should even go and drive her home, in case if she drink.
I think we ( Men) should be considerable atimes with the way we see our partners, we shouldn't forget they've been there before we met them, marry them, if she will not be the one, nothing will make her be the one.
u took the words right out of my mouth true talk, if u even pick her up is love and u know she is coming home with u,it is also romantic monitoring , DK u will b a very good father to ur teenage kids cos they will feel free to tell u everything Thank u so much, You're a darling .. I will love to make that my top priority, show them love and teach them how treat people with Love and respect. I believe if the wife and kids are been shower with love and care, They will never hide anything from you, You will always be their shoulder to lean on anytime, Number one person to know when they're in difficulty, listen to them and help them sort it out. highlighted word exactly and not to thier friends dat might mislead them, like my husband he knows he is the first person i tell everything, soo one day i told my mum something before telling him so he asked why didnt u tell me , cos that never happened before , and i said cos u werent listening anymore and dont want to understand ,and he changed, so people need trust and listening ears ofcourse a little bit of boundary when it is going too farYou''re absolutely right about the highlighted words. 
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 22-05-2011 12:54 AM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 22-05-2011 01:02 AM (12 years ago) (f) @Dirtykid u r making a lot of sense about trust and freedom of expression @TYPICAL u r making a lot of sense that people should b careful and not sentimental , u both make sense but as dirtykid said once in a while is really no big deal and going to club doesnt mean u r going to b irresponsible, infact it is only when u dont give ur wife the attetion she needs and she is sex starved dat will make her start admiring other guys, i used to hangout with friends in the club when we were bored to dance drink and go back home , soo dat u go to club has nothing to do with being irresponsible or doing something bad as dirtykid said irresponsibility is in the person and not in the going to the club so if u know ur wife not to b irresponsible , if she wanted to be irresponsible then she wouldnt tell u atall, she doesnt need to go to club to be irresponsible
Honey, going to the club in itself is Irresponsible. it isnt honestly believe me , it depends on what u go there to do that is what is irresponsible not going to the club or the person going to the club, thats the mistake some people make they judge u maybe by your dress n say he is poor rich or irresponsible,, ofcourse u can tell me that there r irresponsible people that go to club ,but these same people go to church mosque offices , so does that make them different no they remain thier irresponsible self , but does not mean everybody in the club is irreponsible or in the church or offices are responsible , its a personality and not in the club she is going to Ugh ugh Hun! Clubbing is an irresponsible behavior. Your Bible tells you this. Civilization has caused people to be able to chose what they think is wrong and what they think is right. Forgive me if i sound old-fashioned but Clubbing is an irresponsible act. Tell me a single meaningful act that goes on in the club. it makes u happy , u get to rock and forget ur boredom maybe u do taking care of kids working schooling reading and so many things at a point routine gets boring, so that u dont get depressed u do something new and interesting , thats what is in the club , clubbing is not irresponsible in totality some people go there to do irresponsible things it depends on what u have on ur mind when u r going to club , i f u r talking about GOD then u can say clubbing is a sin then that will b another topic , and a depressed person is an unhappy person an unhappy person is an angry person and an angry person can do a whole lot of things to be happy again like she starts seeing problems with the marriage ,then u will b getting unwanted problems just cos she is depressed What exactly have we been talking about all these while? I repeatedly said it is not about the PERSON... it is about the ENVIRONMENT. If you want to be happy and get your mind off of alot of things, there are too many places you can go to have fun without subjecting yourself to SIN... Like going out to the park, going to see a movie, go to a recreational center etc. A sin is a SIN, whether we involve God in it or not. but we aint talking of sin here ,if we talk of sin then thats another subject matter cos we all commit sin one way or the other so thats really out of the question, ok i for one wont go to club now cos i think it is a sin cos there is nothing GODLY going on in the club , i got things that makes me happy , but once in a while when u have tried all u know then trying somethingelse wont b a bad idea for u to be happy but doesnt make you irresponsible or clubbing irresponsible | Posted: at 22-05-2011 01:02 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 22-05-2011 01:03 AM (12 years ago) (m) @Typical.......... Don't worry bro !! We can never be compatible on this, I just made my points clear about this......... Like i said, we Men knows how to paint our own hangout and polish it very well with names of the places as you mentioned above, but once our lady mention one, is a serious offense, is high time we start reasoning well and see them as our missing rib... Drop jealous, distrust and suspicious minds. allow them to express themselves and be happy to do things freely like is suppose to be. I rest my case about this, All man to his choices, remember is a free style thing !! Thank You for your intelligent opinion BUT that is your Opinion, nevertheless, i strongly stand behind Mine. You're most welcome Broda !! also thnx for yr own contribution, i pick couple of points from your view..... I will not forget prevention is better than cure You rock like a Rock star
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 22-05-2011 01:03 AM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 22-05-2011 01:03 AM (12 years ago) (f) You're missing the point Brother !! You don't have to twist it so much... Take it in a straight way, that she insist and requested your permission to hang out with her friends, old good time Friends indeed always remain best of friends. This is where trust, respect to her view plays little role. If you The Man, that said, swtheart, i will be having a dinner meeting with my colleagues after work, I might be coming back little late tonight, she will obediently say ok swtheart, No problem. But now, she's sincere, honest and tell you straight, what she wants, who she's going to be with and where... Why can't you agree with her once you know where she will be hanging out with friend and what time she will be coming back... you should even go and drive her home, in case if she drink.
I think we ( Men) should be considerable atimes with the way we see our partners, we shouldn't forget they've been there before we met them, marry them, if she will not be the one, nothing will make her be the one.
u took the words right out of my mouth true talk, if u even pick her up is love and u know she is coming home with u,it is also romantic monitoring , DK u will b a very good father to ur teenage kids cos they will feel free to tell u everything Thank u so much, You're a darling .. I will love to make that my top priority, show them love and teach them how treat people with Love and respect. I believe if the wife and kids are been shower with love and care, They will never hide anything from you, You will always be their shoulder to lean on anytime, Number one person to know when they're in difficulty, listen to them and help them sort it out. highlighted word exactly and not to thier friends dat might mislead them, like my husband he knows he is the first person i tell everything, soo one day i told my mum something before telling him so he asked why didnt u tell me , cos that never happened before , and i said cos u werent listening anymore and dont want to understand ,and he changed, so people need trust and listening ears ofcourse a little bit of boundary when it is going too farYou''re absolutely right about the highlighted words. | Posted: at 22-05-2011 01:03 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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@Dirtykid u r making a lot of sense about trust and freedom of expression @TYPICAL u r making a lot of sense that people should b careful and not sentimental , u both make sense but as dirtykid said once in a while is really no big deal and going to club doesnt mean u r going to b irresponsible, infact it is only when u dont give ur wife the attetion she needs and she is sex starved dat will make her start admiring other guys, i used to hangout with friends in the club when we were bored to dance drink and go back home , soo dat u go to club has nothing to do with being irresponsible or doing something bad as dirtykid said irresponsibility is in the person and not in the going to the club so if u know ur wife not to b irresponsible , if she wanted to be irresponsible then she wouldnt tell u atall, she doesnt need to go to club to be irresponsible
Honey, going to the club in itself is Irresponsible. it isnt honestly believe me , it depends on what u go there to do that is what is irresponsible not going to the club or the person going to the club, thats the mistake some people make they judge u maybe by your dress n say he is poor rich or irresponsible,, ofcourse u can tell me that there r irresponsible people that go to club ,but these same people go to church mosque offices , so does that make them different no they remain thier irresponsible self , but does not mean everybody in the club is irreponsible or in the church or offices are responsible , its a personality and not in the club she is going to Ugh ugh Hun! Clubbing is an irresponsible behavior. Your Bible tells you this. Civilization has caused people to be able to chose what they think is wrong and what they think is right. Forgive me if i sound old-fashioned but Clubbing is an irresponsible act. Tell me a single meaningful act that goes on in the club. it makes u happy , u get to rock and forget ur boredom maybe u do taking care of kids working schooling reading and so many things at a point routine gets boring, so that u dont get depressed u do something new and interesting , thats what is in the club , clubbing is not irresponsible in totality some people go there to do irresponsible things it depends on what u have on ur mind when u r going to club , i f u r talking about GOD then u can say clubbing is a sin then that will b another topic , and a depressed person is an unhappy person an unhappy person is an angry person and an angry person can do a whole lot of things to be happy again like she starts seeing problems with the marriage ,then u will b getting unwanted problems just cos she is depressed What exactly have we been talking about all these while? I repeatedly said it is not about the PERSON... it is about the ENVIRONMENT. If you want to be happy and get your mind off of alot of things, there are too many places you can go to have fun without subjecting yourself to SIN... Like going out to the park, going to see a movie, go to a recreational center etc. A sin is a SIN, whether we involve God in it or not. but we aint talking of sin here ,if we talk of sin then thats another subject matter cos we all commit sin one way or the other so thats really out of the question, ok i for one wont go to club now cos i think it is a sin cos there is nothing GODLY going on in the club , i got things that makes me happy , but once in a while when u have tried all u know then trying somethingelse wont b a bad idea for u to be happy but doesnt make you irresponsible or clubbing irresponsible Hahaha baby girl... You just shot yourself in the foot. Clubbing is a SIN period. And any SIN committed is as a result of irresponsibility on the Sinners part.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! | Posted: at 22-05-2011 01:09 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 22-05-2011 01:32 AM (12 years ago) (f) so then that means u shouldnt commit any sin atall cos all sins r equal before GOD and is topic is not about sin is about clubbing being irresponsible or not so thats going off the topic, if u r true to urself how many sins did u commit yesterday | Posted: at 22-05-2011 01:32 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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so then that means u shouldnt commit any sin atall cos all sins r equal before GOD and is topic is not about sin is about clubbing being irresponsible or not so thats going off the topic, if u r true to urself how many sins did u commit yesterday
hahaha. Honey, I just know that I didn't go clubbing.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! | Posted: at 22-05-2011 01:34 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 22-05-2011 01:37 AM (12 years ago) (f) so then that means u shouldnt commit any sin atall cos all sins r equal before GOD and is topic is not about sin is about clubbing being irresponsible or not so thats going off the topic, if u r true to urself how many sins did u commit yesterday
hahaha. Honey, I just know that I didn't go clubbing. LOL u r funny | Posted: at 22-05-2011 01:37 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Who Jah Blessed, No Man Cursed...... | Posted: at 22-05-2011 01:41 AM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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so then that means u shouldnt commit any sin atall cos all sins r equal before GOD and is topic is not about sin is about clubbing being irresponsible or not so thats going off the topic, if u r true to urself how many sins did u commit yesterday
hahaha. Honey, I just know that I didn't go clubbing. LOL u r funny Hehe.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! | Posted: at 22-05-2011 01:41 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 22-05-2011 01:46 AM (12 years ago) (f) its 3 am here i have got to catch some nap , take care have a lovely week | Posted: at 22-05-2011 01:46 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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