its 3 am here i have got to catch some nap , take care have a lovely week 
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! | Posted: at 22-05-2011 01:55 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 22-05-2011 01:56 AM (13 years ago)  (f) its 3 am here i have got to catch some nap , take care have a lovely week You too Sweety. | Posted: at 22-05-2011 01:56 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "oohio2007") oohio2007 at 22-05-2011 08:10 AM (13 years ago) (m) I strongly believe there is every thing wrong for a married woman to have a girls night out.Reason is, she is no longer a girl but a woman.there is a great difference.Is she going to leave her husband and children at home at night and follow her friends to the club?It is a common knowledge that 90% of girls that regular themselves in night clubs can hardly be decent.Even if flirting is not involved,it is not a good place for a married woman to be except she has something sinister up her sleeves. Yes.Really. Hope how are you today? 
''NO MAN KNOWETH THE HOUR'' | Posted: at 22-05-2011 08:10 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "oohio2007") oohio2007 at 22-05-2011 08:13 AM (13 years ago) (m) I strongly believe there is every thing wrong for a married woman to have a girls night out.Reason is, she is no longer a girl but a woman.there is a great difference.Is she going to leave her husband and children at home at night and follow her friends to the club?It is a common knowledge that 90% of girls that regular themselves in night clubs can hardly be decent.Even if flirting is not involved,it is not a good place for a married woman to be except she has something sinister up her sleeves. Nice comment Thanks brother Harold.
''NO MAN KNOWETH THE HOUR'' | Posted: at 22-05-2011 08:13 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 22-05-2011 09:52 AM (13 years ago) (m) @Dirtykid u r making a lot of sense about trust and freedom of expression @TYPICAL u r making a lot of sense that people should b careful and not sentimental , u both make sense but as dirtykid said once in a while is really no big deal and going to club doesnt mean u r going to b irresponsible, infact it is only when u dont give ur wife the attetion she needs and she is sex starved dat will make her start admiring other guys, i used to hangout with friends in the club when we were bored to dance drink and go back home , soo dat u go to club has nothing to do with being irresponsible or doing something bad as dirtykid said irresponsibility is in the person and not in the going to the club so if u know ur wife not to b irresponsible , if she wanted to be irresponsible then she wouldnt tell u atall, she doesnt need to go to club to be irresponsible
Can't yu go and Have Fun at Places where yu'll avoid Temptation? Must it be a Night Club?
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 22-05-2011 09:52 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 22-05-2011 09:56 AM (13 years ago) (m) @Dirtykid u r making a lot of sense about trust and freedom of expression @TYPICAL u r making a lot of sense that people should b careful and not sentimental , u both make sense but as dirtykid said once in a while is really no big deal and going to club doesnt mean u r going to b irresponsible, infact it is only when u dont give ur wife the attetion she needs and she is sex starved dat will make her start admiring other guys, i used to hangout with friends in the club when we were bored to dance drink and go back home , soo dat u go to club has nothing to do with being irresponsible or doing something bad as dirtykid said irresponsibility is in the person and not in the going to the club so if u know ur wife not to b irresponsible , if she wanted to be irresponsible then she wouldnt tell u atall, she doesnt need to go to club to be irresponsible
Honey, going to the club in itself is Irresponsible. EXACTLY!! Cos the Things that Happen there are not Morally Accurate
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 22-05-2011 09:56 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 22-05-2011 09:58 AM (13 years ago) (m) You're missing the point Brother !! You don't have to twist it so much... Take it in a straight way, that she insist and requested your permission to hang out with her friends, old good time Friends indeed always remain best of friends. This is where trust, respect to her view plays little role. If you The Man, that said, swtheart, i will be having a dinner meeting with my colleagues after work, I might be coming back little late tonight, she will obediently say ok swtheart, No problem. But now, she's sincere, honest and tell you straight, what she wants, who she's going to be with and where... Why can't you agree with her once you know where she will be hanging out with friend and what time she will be coming back... you should even go and drive her home, in case if she drink.
I think we ( Men) should be considerable atimes with the way we see our partners, we shouldn't forget they've been there before we met them, marry them, if she will not be the one, nothing will make her be the one.
If the Dinner is not an Official One (Business Discussion) why won't yu Carry yur Wife Along??
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 22-05-2011 09:58 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 22-05-2011 10:01 AM (13 years ago) (m) There's nothing wrong about that. hence both of you have the trust on yourselves. Another thing is knowing the kind of club or pub she's hanging out with friends and what time she should return home. People should be free and do things normal, once in a while, as long as is not a daily issue. Give her a chance to develop yr trust more on her... practically !!
hmm DK...well dat na 4 u...to sm men its a no-go area...cos men kw wat they do in pubs n clubs...so they wudnt want their women to be seen there... I kw civilization has turned everyth around...Tell me why a married woman shud be seen in clubs...hmm maybe am sounding old-school, but hmm its not 100% right 4 her. Any man that think otherwise of such request from the wife, Seems to be guilty of something... if both of them understand and know each other very well without any skeleton in their closet.. i don't see the reason why if a wife ask the hubby for at least once in while to hangout with her friends, he will refuse that... Civilization is even what makes it better.. Let me ask, does it mean if yr married, yr man will not be taking u to a pub or club to just hangout sometimes ?? Does it mean been married is automatic Certificate of not doing some certain things again ?? like some Men will not even allow their wife to even go to fitness center but before they got married she was always going there keep fit and staying in shape... Over protective that mean nothing. Dirty, I am going to disagree with you on this. You and I could agree that CIVILIZATION is breaking homes these days. I am not against a married woman hanging out with her friends but if she must, those her friends should be responsible married women. I can be very comfortable with that. But if these friends are single and probably do not have boifriends or just outright irresponsible, then the problem comes in cos all they will be discussing while at the club is how this guy is sexy and how this other guy makes her wet her pants. But waitoooo, if she really want to hang out with her friends, why not do it during LUNCH period. They could all meet up at a restaurant to have lunch and chit chat. Hanging out at the night clubs should be with HER HUSBAND and no other person. That is very adviceable. You know what they say...'Prevention is better than Cure' Not everything about civilization is breaking homes/relationship... Most have enlighten us and make us see some wrongs done in the past, One thing is sure, everything thing that has advantages also has disadvantages. As long as this post is concern, i don't see anything wrong about a wife asking for at least once in a while to hangout with her friends. Why saying irresponsible friends? They've been friends before you marry her, she's been with them probably before you met her, if they're irresponsible that means the wife is also among... because birds of same feathers flock together, and whatever they're discussing shouldn't be bothering you, as long as you trust yr wife and both of you understand yourself.. of which any normal and good wife will share whatever they discuss in that meeting with the man at home, she will always see anything the single friends are talking as childish thing, because she's above them at that particular time, she's upgraded !! She should be the one to advice them if any will start going off topic.. thats sign of a good wife. After all we ''Men'' Married or not Married discuss about hot and sexy looking girls, how many times will a married man tell the wife of his discussions with other male friends, whether married or not married ones.. Not in our diary of course.. but we do discuss that often and size the girls yansh from behind.... Prevention is better than cure for sure... but that doesn't mean you will not give yr wife freedom and show her practically that you trust her and will always believe her. Why do we preach Love when we really don't see the vital things to do in order to promote Love, trust and tolerance ?? Trust is good BUT NAIVETY is Worse. If she has upgraded, she should be able to turn down their request to hang out at the night club. Night clubs are known as a place for people to misbehave. If she is the kind that has truly upgraded I would think she wouldn't hang out at the night club. A good woman will tell her husband she'll rather stay at home with him and the kids even if the husband gives her the permission to. You and I know that we men are smart when it comes to stuff like that. A man might tell a woman to do something he really doesn't want her to do JUST to see what her reactions would be. About the irresponsible friends, they might not be irresponsible per say BUT their lifestyle is not same as the married woman's. Besides what would a responsible woman be doing at a night club wasting her life and getting tipsy... That is irresponsibility in the highest order. @ typicalman, true talk. With marriage old things have passed away and everything has become new. If she continues with her old life of partying and clubbing she will make a poor wife and the marriage will not last. What thrill does a married woman seek in a night club without her husband? She can accept to be either married with moral restictions or she can choose to remain single and enjoy life in a club house till thy kingdom come, its her cup of tea.
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 22-05-2011 10:01 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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You're missing the point Brother !! You don't have to twist it so much... Take it in a straight way, that she insist and requested your permission to hang out with her friends, old good time Friends indeed always remain best of friends. This is where trust, respect to her view plays little role. If you The Man, that said, swtheart, i will be having a dinner meeting with my colleagues after work, I might be coming back little late tonight, she will obediently say ok swtheart, No problem. But now, she's sincere, honest and tell you straight, what she wants, who she's going to be with and where... Why can't you agree with her once you know where she will be hanging out with friend and what time she will be coming back... you should even go and drive her home, in case if she drink.
I think we ( Men) should be considerable atimes with the way we see our partners, we shouldn't forget they've been there before we met them, marry them, if she will not be the one, nothing will make her be the one.
If the Dinner is not an Official One (Business Discussion) why won't yu Carry yur Wife Along?? Thank You.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! | Posted: at 23-05-2011 09:30 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 23-05-2011 09:46 PM (13 years ago) (f) wasnt me!
my name is kebella ........yu already no that  ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 23-05-2011 09:46 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "onyin") onyin at 23-05-2011 09:58 PM (13 years ago) (f) clubbing?.hmmm maybe dinner with friends ,but not too sure about clubbing.i mean wat will you do when those single guys come grab your ass?.go clubbing with your husband. | Posted: at 23-05-2011 09:58 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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