Naijapals wld better if...... (Page 16)

lol..u no see where it reach 

and whr will dat be ma'am?

its already there

whrv u been and hw u doin??..

doing so good my dear
 i missed you too so much, but ---

u still beatin about the bush just say it

Which one of these in these questionable list shld a thread breach to be deleted? cuz .......

u knw...I see alot and I mean alot of things in 'Naijapals'......and I can't help buh wonder how it wld be like if we all did all these...


.... Accept our differences.......something we all forget is dat in a forum we don’t have visual cues and can't hear de other person's tones of voice...how bout respecting opinions and try to use moderate language that can’t easily be taken the wrong way...also try to include an emoticon such as a smiley face to show the spirit of your intention.....(no name calling )  this makes sense

...Keeping it positive.......ringing patience, tolerance and a supportive, helpful attitude as you enter the forum...since we're all here for a common goal so keep that in mind.........(hmmm) this makes sense but as much as I hate to admit it, if everyone was sweet and in agreement this site wont be what it is. if you have ten people in a room you get ten different behaviors not to talk of thousands here on NP

......Warming and encouraging everyone.....Giving and receiving tips helps form a strong community...hw bout thanking others for offering ideas and suggestions that you’ve found useful....(very few do this here.....and the only community formed here r the easterners) I love this

......Do no Stray on the topic........always try not to wander too often into issues that are not relevant to the topic...and stay on topic(quite a few do this) sometimes straying makes light of a heavy situation in more ways than one, and we are all to some extent guilty of this one

.......Your privacy...........pple rob houses based on some pples facebook status...hw bout making this place a safer place, it's still wise to be prudent when it comes to privacy. If you want to exchange more personal details with a member, do so via a private message...(and we don't mean the general writing "check ur inbox") well said

.......Standing up for your community........These forums are our forums so if you see something that’s not in the spirit of things, say something or contact the moderator.(the ignore button is used frequently in this case).... ok noted and well put

......Don’t be naaaasty......No verbal abuse, bullying or put-downs...the infamous inter-country word-throwing...whoever makes the forum an unpleasant place..the person should be utterly removed...(this is another daily routine here tho) well I can understand where you are coming from here but then we will all be remove lol, non of us are all guilty of this because what might seem pleasant to one might be unpleasant to another

......Swearing/Cursing Galore.......foul language and swearing in your posts are not matured. Since the moderator/everyone only reads English, please do not post in another language.(thowbee...how dyu even start to say this) well if something is written in a language I can not read nor understand its simply not for me....speech is free so everyone is entitled to express themselves in whatever language they are the most comfortable, after all this is Naijapals and there are over 200 languages spoken in NIGERIA and for the outsiders who may not understand what is being said I do understand how that might feel but if I want to write in my native tongue because I can express my self better then I should be able to do so after all we are not in school here

......No advertising......Using this forum to post ads or push products to everyone here shld be dealt away with....like barring them since the adverts r not taken seriously and are often regarded as scam...they should potentially be barred from the community.(this is happens alot here and has no boundary) no comment on this cause its annoying but i can choose to ignore what i dont like, and use my discretion to reply to what is off my choosing

..........Being offensive.......Seeking personal information and offering racist, culturally intolerant, gender-biased, ageist negative, segxwally harassing or discriminatory comments.(not cool) agreed NOT COOL

........ No personal attacks......Agreeing to Disagreeing..you can disagree with another person's view without personally attacking them. If you are so tough why not divert ur strength to arguing the difference in opinion, rather than attacking the person's character. (this is lyk infamously famous) AGREED

.........Use of short-hand....use easily understood short-hand..as someone might want to return a comment but myt not understand......

In addition ...the infamous 'Passing'....why not actually pass instead or writing 'Passing'....   lol