Am Confused> Two Suitors After me.

Date: 06-07-2011 1:00 pm (12 years ago) | Author: uduak Sophia Monday
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- at 6-07-2011 01:00 PM (12 years ago)
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I Was Recommended to two men without my notice by my mum's friend's. Came back from work last weekend and met one of them already waiting for me at home,he told me that he's heard all bout me, likes my person,told me his intentions and wants to take me into his life as his wife. i sat quietly listened to him,but never gave him an answer. Was shocked thou, cos nobody, not even my mum told me anything concerning these men.
After work yesterday,i left for the house met another man that i was been recommended to,waiting to see me. told me lots that he's heard and also his intentions towards me as a wife. I sat quietly listened to him,cos i never wanted to embarrass him nor my mum.. never gave him an answer also.
I HAVE NEVER IN MY LIFE AND WILL NEVER WILL: HIDDEN ANYTHING CONCERNING THE REAL ME,WHO I AM,WHAT I AM, AND MY EXPERIENCES IN LIFE EVEN AS A YOUNG LADY: I am a single parent and I am proud to have a child at my age,not minding my past experience. (the Suitors have been told) I LOVE MY DAUGHTER so much that am working hard to make sure she studies in LONDON (Harvard) cos that's what she requested of me..and i don't want any man of any sort to be a stumbling block to this. I really have not made up my mind on having another relationship.

I don't want to Accept their request cos i am not desperate,and also don't want to see it as (I.e) i already have a child..Men wont come after me,or marry me..NO....she's my priceless Jewel. I see nothing else but her.
I dont even want to start praying to God to show me the right one amongst them, cos am not interested.
Right now i feel terible cos i fell MuM is thinking this is the only oppurtunity i have..and i've made up my mind on Moving to my own Apartment..i'd already contacted  an Agent to get me one.. so that i can be.

Pals> Am i Making the Right Decision?



Posted: at 6-07-2011 01:00 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- kebella at 6-07-2011 01:05 PM (12 years ago)
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hope ur not waiting for my huzzy to marry yu Sad Sad Sad

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- 50scent at 6-07-2011 01:09 PM (12 years ago)
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honeypot soap and holy water in action

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- divineproject at 6-07-2011 01:12 PM (12 years ago)
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Sophie send one my way..............dat way you will be left with one......thanks for ur generosity Grin Grin

Posted: at 6-07-2011 01:12 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 6-07-2011 01:15 PM (12 years ago)
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sophiebaby what abt d guy yu saw 100.000 in his pocket ......have he jilted yu Huh? Huh? mi i no dey understand ur stories again..........if yu ve a bf that work offshore why thinking of having another r/ship  Undecided woman make haste while the sun shine...........to avoid had i known'' .....yu can still fulfill ur daughters dreams in ur huzzy's houx.........besides dont let that child come b/w yu n' ur r/ship..........we all love our child/children buh everthing got limit.......ok? if yu give all ur love.......attention.................care to her i wonder what wil become of the man yu wil marry morrow........i no yu want to make her happy buh what happen to ur own happiness  Undecided Undecided Undecided yu need a man in ur life to help yu build ur dreams........ Kiss

Posted: at 6-07-2011 01:15 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 6-07-2011 01:16 PM (12 years ago)
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On a serious note Sophie, i dont think moving out of ur mum's home is the best......no matter what happens, mothers will always be mothers........your mum is looking out for you just as u are looking out for this ur jewel.........I agree she should have told you first to avoid embarrassment, but remember that one day this jewel of urs would start a home of her own and you would be left on your own......you need companion, if not now but when u are elderly.....think about it........

Posted: at 6-07-2011 01:16 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- cyril4christ at 6-07-2011 01:20 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  6-07-2011 01:00 PM
I Was Recommended to two men without my notice by my mum's friend's. Came back from work last weekend and met one of them already waiting for me at home,he told me that he's heard all bout me, likes my person,told me his intentions and wants to take me into his life as his wife. i sat quietly listened to him,but never gave him an answer. Was shocked thou, cos nobody, not even my mum told me anything concerning these men.
After work yesterday,i left for the house met another man that i was been recommended to,waiting to see me. told me lots that he's heard and also his intentions towards me as a wife. I sat quietly listened to him,cos i never wanted to embarrass him nor my mum.. never gave him an answer also.
I HAVE NEVER IN MY LIFE AND WILL NEVER WILL: HIDDEN ANYTHING CONCERNING THE REAL ME,WHO I AM,WHAT I AM, AND MY EXPERIENCES IN LIFE EVEN AS A YOUNG LADY: I am a single parent and I am proud to have a child at my age,not minding my past experience. (the Suitors have been told) I LOVE MY DAUGHTER so much that am working hard to make sure she studies in LONDON (Harvard) cos that's what she requested of me..and i don't want any man of any sort to be a stumbling block to this. I really have not made up my mind on having another relationship.

I don't want to Accept their request cos i am not desperate,and also don't want to see it as (I.e) i already have a child..Men wont come after me,or marry me..NO....she's my priceless Jewel. I see nothing else but her.
I dont even want to start praying to God to show me the right one amongst them, cos am not interested.
Right now i feel terible cos i fell MuM is thinking this is the only oppurtunity i have..and i've made up my mind on Moving to my own Apartment..i'd already contacted  an Agent to get me one.. so that i can be.

Pals> Am i Making the Right Decision?




hmmmm Sophie Sophie, what of me na?
Posted: at 6-07-2011 01:20 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chiglamour4u at 6-07-2011 01:23 PM (12 years ago)
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lol Dp
Posted: at 6-07-2011 01:23 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- cyril4christ at 6-07-2011 01:23 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on  6-07-2011 01:15 PM
sophiebaby what abt d guy yu saw 100.000 in his pocket ......have he jilted yu Huh? Huh? mi i no dey understand ur stories again..........if yu ve a bf that work offshore why thinking of having another r/ship  Undecided woman make haste while the sun shine...........to avoid had i known'' .....yu can still fulfill ur daughters dreams in ur huzzy's houx.........besides dont let that child come b/w yu n' ur r/ship..........we all love our child/children buh everthing got limit.......ok? if yu give all ur love.......attention.................care to her i wonder what wil become of the man yu wil marry morrow........i no yu want to make her happy buh what happen to ur own happiness  Undecided Undecided Undecided yu need a man in ur life to help yu build ur dreams........ Kiss



make i laugh small hahahahahahaha, yah tell her that she need a man like me  Grin
Posted: at 6-07-2011 01:23 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 6-07-2011 01:24 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on  6-07-2011 01:16 PM
On a serious note Sophie, i dont think moving out of ur mum's home is the best......no matter what happens, mothers will always be mothers........your mum is looking out for you just as u are looking out for this ur jewel.........I agree she should have told you first to avoid embarrassment, but remember that one day this jewel of urs would start a home of her own and you would be left on your own......you need companion, if not now but when u are elderly.....think about it........

exactly my point...........never rob peter to pay paul.............we all deserve to be happy child or without child..........bliv me my kids wil not come b/w the love i ve for my huzzy........besides moving out of her family houx to her own apartment is not a gud idea.......i lived in PH i no how things work there.......men will take her as irresponsible gurl .........sophie i think a word is enuf 4 d wise!!!

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- chiglamour4u at 6-07-2011 01:25 PM (12 years ago)
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make i wee wee first
Posted: at 6-07-2011 01:25 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 6-07-2011 01:26 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: cyril4christ on  6-07-2011 01:23 PM
Quote from: kebella on  6-07-2011 01:15 PM
sophiebaby what abt d guy yu saw 100.000 in his pocket ......have he jilted yu Huh? Huh? mi i no dey understand ur stories again..........if yu ve a bf that work offshore why thinking of having another r/ship  Undecided woman make haste while the sun shine...........to avoid had i known'' .....yu can still fulfill ur daughters dreams in ur huzzy's houx.........besides dont let that child come b/w yu n' ur r/ship..........we all love our child/children buh everthing got limit.......ok? if yu give all ur love.......attention.................care to her i wonder what wil become of the man yu wil marry morrow........i no yu want to make her happy buh what happen to ur own happiness  Undecided Undecided Undecided yu need a man in ur life to help yu build ur dreams........ Kiss



make i laugh small hahahahahahaha, yah tell her that she need a man like me  Grin

who re yu  Huh? can yu pay her daughter sch fee to ''Harvard''  Grin Grin Grin Grin poor man carry ur leaking pocket waka  Cheesy Cheesy

Posted: at 6-07-2011 01:26 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- chiglamour4u at 6-07-2011 01:28 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on  6-07-2011 01:15 PM
sophiebaby what abt d guy yu saw 100.000 in his pocket ......have he jilted yu Huh? Huh? mi i no dey understand ur stories again..........if yu ve a bf that work offshore why thinking of having another r/ship  Undecided woman make haste while the sun shine...........to avoid had i known'' .....yu can still fulfill ur daughters dreams in ur huzzy's houx.........besides dont let that child come b/w yu n' ur r/ship..........we all love our child/children buh everthing got limit.......ok? if yu give all ur love.......attention.................care to her i wonder what wil become of the man yu wil marry morrow........i no yu want to make her happy buh what happen to ur own happiness  Undecided Undecided Undecided yu need a man in ur life to help yu build ur dreams........ Kiss


that one na cooked story who knows watin dis one be maybe na boiled story  Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 6-07-2011 01:28 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 6-07-2011 01:30 PM (12 years ago)
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or even roast story  Grin Grin Grin Grin

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- kebella at 6-07-2011 01:30 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: chiglamour4u on  6-07-2011 01:25 PM
make i wee wee first
yu sabi wee wee abi yu carry  Lips Sealed

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- 123Sonia at 6-07-2011 01:32 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on  6-07-2011 01:16 PM
On a serious note Sophie, i dont think moving out of ur mum's home is the best......no matter what happens, mothers will always be mothers........your mum is looking out for you just as u are looking out for this ur jewel.........I agree she should have told you first to avoid embarrassment, but remember that one day this jewel of urs would start a home of her own and you would be left on your own......you need companion, if not now but when u are elderly.....think about it........


DP u are right, u've said it all.

Sophie morrow ur baby won't be there for u cos she'll be making her home and life happy then, who will u be with? Hmmm i love my child just as u love urs, am even ready to lay my life for her if it get to that but your own happiness is another thing entirely. Your mum loves u just as u love ur baby.

Be cool with MUM she just want the best for u, but then shine ur eyes my dear make sure whoever u'll settle with either now or later must be ready to love ur child like his.
Posted: at 6-07-2011 01:32 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- divineproject at 6-07-2011 01:34 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: chiglamour4u on  6-07-2011 01:23 PM
lol Dp

wetin dey funny for wetin I write now?

Posted: at 6-07-2011 01:34 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- 123Sonia at 6-07-2011 01:34 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on  6-07-2011 01:26 PM
Quote from: cyril4christ on  6-07-2011 01:23 PM
Quote from: kebella on  6-07-2011 01:15 PM
sophiebaby what abt d guy yu saw 100.000 in his pocket ......have he jilted yu Huh? Huh? mi i no dey understand ur stories again..........if yu ve a bf that work offshore why thinking of having another r/ship  Undecided woman make haste while the sun shine...........to avoid had i known'' .....yu can still fulfill ur daughters dreams in ur huzzy's houx.........besides dont let that child come b/w yu n' ur r/ship..........we all love our child/children buh everthing got limit.......ok? if yu give all ur love.......attention.................care to her i wonder what wil become of the man yu wil marry morrow........i no yu want to make her happy buh what happen to ur own happiness  Undecided Undecided Undecided yu need a man in ur life to help yu build ur dreams........ Kiss



make i laugh small hahahahahahaha, yah tell her that she need a man like me  Grin

who re yu  Huh? can yu pay her daughter sch fee to ''Harvard''  Grin Grin Grin Grin poor man carry ur leaking pocket waka  Cheesy Cheesy




 Huh? Huh? Huh? Shocked Shocked
Posted: at 6-07-2011 01:34 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 6-07-2011 01:36 PM (12 years ago)
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na lie  Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy

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- cyril4christ at 6-07-2011 01:36 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: chiglamour4u on  6-07-2011 01:28 PM
Quote from: kebella on  6-07-2011 01:15 PM
sophiebaby what abt d guy yu saw 100.000 in his pocket ......have he jilted yu Huh? Huh? mi i no dey understand ur stories again..........if yu ve a bf that work offshore why thinking of having another r/ship  Undecided woman make haste while the sun shine...........to avoid had i known'' .....yu can still fulfill ur daughters dreams in ur huzzy's houx.........besides dont let that child come b/w yu n' ur r/ship..........we all love our child/children buh everthing got limit.......ok? if yu give all ur love.......attention.................care to her i wonder what wil become of the man yu wil marry morrow........i no yu want to make her happy buh what happen to ur own happiness  Undecided Undecided Undecided yu need a man in ur life to help yu build ur dreams........ Kiss


that one na cooked story who knows watin dis one be maybe na boiled story  Grin Grin Grin


 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin chaii una no go kill me with laff here
Posted: at 6-07-2011 01:36 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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