I Was Recommended to two men without my notice by my mum's friend's. Came back from work last weekend and met one of them already waiting for me at home,he told me that he's heard all bout me, likes my person,told me his intentions and wants to take me into his life as his wife. i sat quietly listened to him,but never gave him an answer. Was shocked thou, cos nobody, not even my mum told me anything concerning these men. After work yesterday,i left for the house met another man that i was been recommended to,waiting to see me. told me lots that he's heard and also his intentions towards me as a wife. I sat quietly listened to him,cos i never wanted to embarrass him nor my mum.. never gave him an answer also. I HAVE NEVER IN MY LIFE AND WILL NEVER WILL: HIDDEN ANYTHING CONCERNING THE REAL ME,WHO I AM,WHAT I AM, AND MY EXPERIENCES IN LIFE EVEN AS A YOUNG LADY: I am a single parent and I am proud to have a child at my age,not minding my past experience. (the Suitors have been told) I LOVE MY DAUGHTER so much that am working hard to make sure she studies in LONDON (Harvard) cos that's what she requested of me..and i don't want any man of any sort to be a stumbling block to this. I really have not made up my mind on having another relationship.
I don't want to Accept their request cos i am not desperate,and also don't want to see it as (I.e) i already have a child..Men wont come after me,or marry me..NO....she's my priceless Jewel. I see nothing else but her. I dont even want to start praying to God to show me the right one amongst them, cos am not interested. Right now i feel terible cos i fell MuM is thinking this is the only oppurtunity i have..and i've made up my mind on Moving to my own Apartment..i'd already contacted an Agent to get me one.. so that i can be.
Pals> Am i Making the Right Decision?
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 6-07-2011 01:00 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
sophiebaby what abt d guy yu saw 100.000 in his pocket ......have he jilted yu mi i no dey understand ur stories again..........if yu ve a bf that work offshore why thinking of having another r/ship woman make haste while the sun shine...........to avoid had i known'' .....yu can still fulfill ur daughters dreams in ur huzzy's houx.........besides dont let that child come b/w yu n' ur r/ship..........we all love our child/children buh everthing got limit.......ok? if yu give all ur love.......attention.................care to her i wonder what wil become of the man yu wil marry morrow........i no yu want to make her happy buh what happen to ur own happiness yu need a man in ur life to help yu build ur dreams........
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!!
Posted: at 6-07-2011 01:15 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
divineproject at 6-07-2011 01:16 PM (13 years ago) (f)
On a serious note Sophie, i dont think moving out of ur mum's home is the best......no matter what happens, mothers will always be mothers........your mum is looking out for you just as u are looking out for this ur jewel.........I agree she should have told you first to avoid embarrassment, but remember that one day this jewel of urs would start a home of her own and you would be left on your own......you need companion, if not now but when u are elderly.....think about it........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 6-07-2011 01:16 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
cyril4christ at 6-07-2011 01:20 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: sophiebaby on 6-07-2011 01:00 PM
I Was Recommended to two men without my notice by my mum's friend's. Came back from work last weekend and met one of them already waiting for me at home,he told me that he's heard all bout me, likes my person,told me his intentions and wants to take me into his life as his wife. i sat quietly listened to him,but never gave him an answer. Was shocked thou, cos nobody, not even my mum told me anything concerning these men. After work yesterday,i left for the house met another man that i was been recommended to,waiting to see me. told me lots that he's heard and also his intentions towards me as a wife. I sat quietly listened to him,cos i never wanted to embarrass him nor my mum.. never gave him an answer also. I HAVE NEVER IN MY LIFE AND WILL NEVER WILL: HIDDEN ANYTHING CONCERNING THE REAL ME,WHO I AM,WHAT I AM, AND MY EXPERIENCES IN LIFE EVEN AS A YOUNG LADY: I am a single parent and I am proud to have a child at my age,not minding my past experience. (the Suitors have been told) I LOVE MY DAUGHTER so much that am working hard to make sure she studies in LONDON (Harvard) cos that's what she requested of me..and i don't want any man of any sort to be a stumbling block to this. I really have not made up my mind on having another relationship.
I don't want to Accept their request cos i am not desperate,and also don't want to see it as (I.e) i already have a child..Men wont come after me,or marry me..NO....she's my priceless Jewel. I see nothing else but her. I dont even want to start praying to God to show me the right one amongst them, cos am not interested. Right now i feel terible cos i fell MuM is thinking this is the only oppurtunity i have..and i've made up my mind on Moving to my own Apartment..i'd already contacted an Agent to get me one.. so that i can be.
Pals> Am i Making the Right Decision?
hmmmm Sophie Sophie, what of me na?
Posted: at 6-07-2011 01:20 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
cyril4christ at 6-07-2011 01:23 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: kebella on 6-07-2011 01:15 PM
sophiebaby what abt d guy yu saw 100.000 in his pocket ......have he jilted yu mi i no dey understand ur stories again..........if yu ve a bf that work offshore why thinking of having another r/ship woman make haste while the sun shine...........to avoid had i known'' .....yu can still fulfill ur daughters dreams in ur huzzy's houx.........besides dont let that child come b/w yu n' ur r/ship..........we all love our child/children buh everthing got limit.......ok? if yu give all ur love.......attention.................care to her i wonder what wil become of the man yu wil marry morrow........i no yu want to make her happy buh what happen to ur own happiness yu need a man in ur life to help yu build ur dreams........
make i laugh small hahahahahahaha, yah tell her that she need a man like me
Posted: at 6-07-2011 01:23 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
On a serious note Sophie, i dont think moving out of ur mum's home is the best......no matter what happens, mothers will always be mothers........your mum is looking out for you just as u are looking out for this ur jewel.........I agree she should have told you first to avoid embarrassment, but remember that one day this jewel of urs would start a home of her own and you would be left on your own......you need companion, if not now but when u are elderly.....think about it........
exactly my point...........never rob peter to pay paul.............we all deserve to be happy child or without child..........bliv me my kids wil not come b/w the love i ve for my huzzy........besides moving out of her family houx to her own apartment is not a gud idea.......i lived in PH i no how things work there.......men will take her as irresponsible gurl .........sophie i think a word is enuf 4 d wise!!!
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!!
Posted: at 6-07-2011 01:24 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
sophiebaby what abt d guy yu saw 100.000 in his pocket ......have he jilted yu mi i no dey understand ur stories again..........if yu ve a bf that work offshore why thinking of having another r/ship woman make haste while the sun shine...........to avoid had i known'' .....yu can still fulfill ur daughters dreams in ur huzzy's houx.........besides dont let that child come b/w yu n' ur r/ship..........we all love our child/children buh everthing got limit.......ok? if yu give all ur love.......attention.................care to her i wonder what wil become of the man yu wil marry morrow........i no yu want to make her happy buh what happen to ur own happiness yu need a man in ur life to help yu build ur dreams........
make i laugh small hahahahahahaha, yah tell her that she need a man like me
who re yu can yu pay her daughter sch fee to ''Harvard'' poor man carry ur leaking pocket waka
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!!
Posted: at 6-07-2011 01:26 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
chiglamour4u at 6-07-2011 01:28 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: kebella on 6-07-2011 01:15 PM
sophiebaby what abt d guy yu saw 100.000 in his pocket ......have he jilted yu mi i no dey understand ur stories again..........if yu ve a bf that work offshore why thinking of having another r/ship woman make haste while the sun shine...........to avoid had i known'' .....yu can still fulfill ur daughters dreams in ur huzzy's houx.........besides dont let that child come b/w yu n' ur r/ship..........we all love our child/children buh everthing got limit.......ok? if yu give all ur love.......attention.................care to her i wonder what wil become of the man yu wil marry morrow........i no yu want to make her happy buh what happen to ur own happiness yu need a man in ur life to help yu build ur dreams........
that one na cooked story who knows watin dis one be maybe na boiled story
Posted: at 6-07-2011 01:28 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
On a serious note Sophie, i dont think moving out of ur mum's home is the best......no matter what happens, mothers will always be mothers........your mum is looking out for you just as u are looking out for this ur jewel.........I agree she should have told you first to avoid embarrassment, but remember that one day this jewel of urs would start a home of her own and you would be left on your own......you need companion, if not now but when u are elderly.....think about it........
DP u are right, u've said it all.
Sophie morrow ur baby won't be there for u cos she'll be making her home and life happy then, who will u be with? Hmmm i love my child just as u love urs, am even ready to lay my life for her if it get to that but your own happiness is another thing entirely. Your mum loves u just as u love ur baby.
Be cool with MUM she just want the best for u, but then shine ur eyes my dear make sure whoever u'll settle with either now or later must be ready to love ur child like his.
Posted: at 6-07-2011 01:32 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
sophiebaby what abt d guy yu saw 100.000 in his pocket ......have he jilted yu mi i no dey understand ur stories again..........if yu ve a bf that work offshore why thinking of having another r/ship woman make haste while the sun shine...........to avoid had i known'' .....yu can still fulfill ur daughters dreams in ur huzzy's houx.........besides dont let that child come b/w yu n' ur r/ship..........we all love our child/children buh everthing got limit.......ok? if yu give all ur love.......attention.................care to her i wonder what wil become of the man yu wil marry morrow........i no yu want to make her happy buh what happen to ur own happiness yu need a man in ur life to help yu build ur dreams........
make i laugh small hahahahahahaha, yah tell her that she need a man like me
who re yu can yu pay her daughter sch fee to ''Harvard'' poor man carry ur leaking pocket waka
Posted: at 6-07-2011 01:34 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
cyril4christ at 6-07-2011 01:36 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: chiglamour4u on 6-07-2011 01:28 PM
Quote from: kebella on 6-07-2011 01:15 PM
sophiebaby what abt d guy yu saw 100.000 in his pocket ......have he jilted yu mi i no dey understand ur stories again..........if yu ve a bf that work offshore why thinking of having another r/ship woman make haste while the sun shine...........to avoid had i known'' .....yu can still fulfill ur daughters dreams in ur huzzy's houx.........besides dont let that child come b/w yu n' ur r/ship..........we all love our child/children buh everthing got limit.......ok? if yu give all ur love.......attention.................care to her i wonder what wil become of the man yu wil marry morrow........i no yu want to make her happy buh what happen to ur own happiness yu need a man in ur life to help yu build ur dreams........
that one na cooked story who knows watin dis one be maybe na boiled story
chaii una no go kill me with laff here
Posted: at 6-07-2011 01:36 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac