![-]( "Jecon") Jecon at 7-07-2011 01:18 AM (13 years ago)  (m) the Guy is yours!, to have given you that info means he loves you (some men in Naija hav a wife in each state on the federation, including FCT). if he had wanted to play games, he will conceal it and until he gets the milk & honey. i believe if you had asked him d very 1st day, he would have told you. But be careful! | Posted: at 7-07-2011 01:18 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "diplomatik") diplomatik at 7-07-2011 02:19 AM (13 years ago) (f) He lives in US, Los Angeles to be precise. we've been communicating 4 over a year now though we havent seen each other and he's talking about marriage. i didnt really put my heart into it coz of d stories i hv heard about abroad guys but i played along coz i felt he may be different, and he was beginning to tk "us" serious and has even suggested that i come 4 vacation (ofcourse he wud sponsor it).He's really a nice person. yesterday, i decided to ask him if he's been married and has a kid(s) (i dont know y it never occured to me to ask him all these while till now). initially, he kept dilly-dallying, didnt give me a straight answer, kept saying that he had an ill-fated r/s... i probed further, he then accepted that he's been married (divorced)and has a son. i now asked him y didnt he tell me from the start, he said he planned to tell me one-on-one when he comes back (this December). he has been apologizing ever since and still wants "us" to continue.
i felt bad and feel so deceived, i dont know if i can be able to trust him again. if he cud withold such vital info abt himself 4rm me, i wonder wat mor he may b hiding.
What do u tink peeps???
i don't believe he deceived u in any way ...there's a time for everything..the guy was not ready to tell u yet....i'm sure if he really did care for u and loved u when the time is right he most def. would of told u....sometimes we women get to pushy at times..everything does not always have to go our way..i know ladies won't agree with me on this..but thats how i do my things i don't wanna treat anybody the way i would not like to be treated..for his dilly-dallying when u're put on the spot thats what eventually happens ...just my 2 pennies 
u've seen me right?  i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either  , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool  | Posted: at 7-07-2011 02:19 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "LaQueen") LaQueen at 7-07-2011 05:08 AM (13 years ago) (f) Not just abroad guys. I had an igbo guy lie to me for almost 5years just so he can get is paper to stay here in UK. I feel sick and disgusted that I gave all my love and attention to him and he was like my number one focus....for nothing!!! Now he tells me that he needs to get a woman pregnant asap!!!! | Posted: at 7-07-2011 05:08 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "deguzman") deguzman at 7-07-2011 06:46 AM (13 years ago) (m) mayb he wanted 2 tel u in person... | Posted: at 7-07-2011 06:46 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 7-07-2011 08:35 AM (13 years ago) (f) Maka y? No mind dem u hear?
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 7-07-2011 08:35 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "sexweezy") sexweezy at 7-07-2011 08:54 AM (13 years ago) (m) Well it lies with you poster | Posted: at 7-07-2011 08:54 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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the Guy is yours!, to have given you that info means he loves you (some men in Naija hav a wife in each state on the federation, including FCT). if he had wanted to play games, he will conceal it and until he gets the milk & honey. i believe if you had asked him d very 1st day, he would have told you. But be careful!
 He lives in US, Los Angeles to be precise. we've been communicating 4 over a year now though we havent seen each other and he's talking about marriage. i didnt really put my heart into it coz of d stories i hv heard about abroad guys but i played along coz i felt he may be different, and he was beginning to tk "us" serious and has even suggested that i come 4 vacation (ofcourse he wud sponsor it).He's really a nice person. yesterday, i decided to ask him if he's been married and has a kid(s) (i dont know y it never occured to me to ask him all these while till now). initially, he kept dilly-dallying, didnt give me a straight answer, kept saying that he had an ill-fated r/s... i probed further, he then accepted that he's been married (divorced)and has a son. i now asked him y didnt he tell me from the start, he said he planned to tell me one-on-one when he comes back (this December). he has been apologizing ever since and still wants "us" to continue.
i felt bad and feel so deceived, i dont know if i can be able to trust him again. if he cud withold such vital info abt himself 4rm me, i wonder wat mor he may b hiding.
What do u tink peeps???
i don't believe he deceived u in any way ...there's a time for everything..the guy was not ready to tell u yet....i'm sure if he really did care for u and loved u when the time is right he most def. would of told u....sometimes we women get to pushy at times..everything does not always have to go our way..i know ladies won't agree with me on this..but thats how i do my things i don't wanna treat anybody the way i would not like to be treated..for his dilly-dallying when u're put on the spot thats what eventually happens ...just my 2 pennies he wasnt ready after over a year, haba! if i am pushy, i wud asked him a long time ago...exactly coz am a very open person and i wud hv told him how it is regardless of how scared i am or like d guy. tanks and u wud surely get ur two pennies  Not just abroad guys. I had an igbo guy lie to me for almost 5years just so he can get is paper to stay here in UK. I feel sick and disgusted that I gave all my love and attention to him and he was like my number one focus....for nothing!!! Now he tells me that he needs to get a woman pregnant asap!!!!
so sorry  mayb he wanted 2 tel u in person...
in person oh, 2ru fone/email, it doesnt matter | Posted: at 7-07-2011 09:08 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 7-07-2011 09:09 AM (13 years ago) (f) Maka Y? no mind dem
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 7-07-2011 09:09 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 7-07-2011 09:14 AM (13 years ago) (f) Am Gud..Hope u are too?
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 7-07-2011 09:14 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Pepesy") Pepesy at 7-07-2011 09:25 AM (13 years ago) (f) Now that u've found out the truth finally (only God knws whether there is more to tell),,, the decision is urs whether to go on wif him or not My advise,,,,, play along and use ur brain very well till u see him eye to eye | Posted: at 7-07-2011 09:25 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Pepesy") Pepesy at 7-07-2011 09:33 AM (13 years ago) (f) And where on earth can u find good man? | Posted: at 7-07-2011 09:33 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "50scent") 50scent at 7-07-2011 09:43 AM (13 years ago) (m) Pepesy I'm the NICE GUY She has answered your Question Simply 50cent
RELATIONSHIP & ROMANCE FORUM; MINISTER FOR WOMEN AFFAIRS WELCOMES YOU | Posted: at 7-07-2011 09:43 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "50scent") 50scent at 7-07-2011 09:45 AM (13 years ago) (m) Reply |
![-]( "Pepesy") Pepesy at 7-07-2011 09:47 AM (13 years ago) (f) Why u dey laf naah? Good man indeed | Posted: at 7-07-2011 09:47 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "moniconyez") moniconyez at 7-07-2011 09:48 AM (13 years ago) (m) BIA UJU put comer to that abroad guys ooooo, cos i no follow | Posted: at 7-07-2011 09:48 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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u just have to b carefull with him...and don't put all ur hope on him cos u have been communicating with him 4 a year now and he did not mention anything abt it dat is strange.... | Posted: at 7-07-2011 09:49 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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