:)Here are some signs of impending breaking up to look for, which may actually save you some heartbreak if you’re prepared beforehand.
1. The Critic Scenario If you find that you’re bringing out the worst in each other all of sudden and are criticizing each other’s actions, this could be a sure sign that you need to communicate more or that your romance is possibly coming to an end.
2. Dull Conversation Have you found that you have more silent moments than talkative ones? Do you find yourself dining out and talking about the weather or about random boring topics? It’s great that you’re talking, but does it hold any real depth? If you started off as a couple talking about your hopes, dreams and your future as a couple and are now talking about the forecast for the week and the news a bit too much, there might be one of you that might be heading out. Breaking up is hard to do, but you don’t have to be bored to death as it happens.
3. Enthusiastic or Not If your partner doesn’t seem interested in hearing about your day like they used to, there might be a problem arising. When enthusiasm is lost, love and interest might be slowly seeping out of the relationship like a deflated balloon. When boredom presents itself within a relationship, there are two options. Fight or flight. Either you fight for the relationship to figure out what’s lacking, or a break up may be rearing its ugly head.
4. Excuses, Excuses, Excuses When your partner is constantly making an excuse not to be with you, you might want to review your relationship and where you’re at. The majority of the time, two people within a relationship “make” excuses with other people to spend more time with their loved one. If your partner is constantly saying they have to work late, go out with their buddies or stay late at the gym, you might want to talk about it before a breakup smacks you in the face.
5. Makeover Days Has your partner suddenly changed their clothing style, their hair color or have they undergone an extreme makeover? This could be a sure sign of breaking up. It may appear that your mate wants to impress others and possibly a new interest. Try to approach the conversation calmly and without accusation. It might be a good idea to ask your mate why they’re making so many extreme changes in their appearance, or directly ask them how they feel about you. OK pals ...add more below
Posted: at 13-07-2011 12:37 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
yukicares4u at 13-07-2011 12:39 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Ok pals...as usual...ur views and comments re welcomed ...
Posted: at 13-07-2011 12:39 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac