10 steps to getting over an ex (Page 2)

sure work...

Posted: at 24-07-2011 01:17 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie

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Posted: at 24-07-2011 01:26 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Bros, with dem fake pastors all over the place, no water dey holy anymore. So, grab the bull by the horn and chop off dem snakes' heads. If you no get cutlass I fit lend you my grandpa's own. E big well well.

Posted: at 24-07-2011 10:26 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Thank you too, my sis.

Posted: at 24-07-2011 11:34 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

nice one there,@the poster now, what do you do whe your best frend takes over your girl frend?

Posted: at 24-07-2011 12:33 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie

My girl told me she loved me more than her life and I believe her or shouldn't I? I believe my best friend still wants to have his head on his neck. If he doesn't then he can dare my anger. I thank God say I still have that my grandpa's big cutlass 4 house.

Posted: at 24-07-2011 02:16 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Hope u don't mind if I add some more:

Remember the positives
Try not to concentrate on what u've lost by the relationship,but what u gained from being it.Think about what u've learned about yourself,and remember all the happiness that u might never have had without the relationship.And instead of thinking of yourself as being rejected, remember that u were attractive enough to get ur ex-partner's interest in the first place.

No more niggling
Write a list of everything that annoyed u about your partner,no matter how small.When ur relationship breaks-up,u feel like u've lost the perfect person.But it can actually be fun to realise that u'll no longer have to put up with the way they were always running late, or left your CDs out of the case.Concentrating on the small things will help u smile a little without breeding resentment or bitterness.

Dust off the address book
As soon as u feel ready, get back in your social circle.Become reacquainted with everyone from your best friend to your most distant relative.U may feel u've lost the most important person in ur life, but u're far less alone than u realise.The more of ur friends u can talk to, even if it's just a brief hello,the more valued u'll feel.

Get it sorted
Post-break-up is the perfect time to finally get around to those odd-jobs u've been putting off.Whether it's clearing out the kitchen cupboards,cleaning the car,or cleaning up the mixed-up file information on ur iPod,u'll find these small tasks give u a great sense of achievement for comparatively little work.And more importantly,they'll let u feel an element of control over ur life.

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Posted: at 24-07-2011 02:34 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

You are very welcome!

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Posted: at 24-07-2011 03:27 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

I was gone before?

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Posted: at 24-07-2011 03:52 PM (12 years ago) | Hero