![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 25-07-2011 04:52 PM (13 years ago)  (m) @ poster I like, but here is my two kobo.
number 5- spoil yurself, be careful u dont end up doing stuff that will remind u of him. e.g. imagine making urself bubble only to remember that yu guyz do it together once a month, or going to ur fave restaurant which again u guyz also do occassionally and so on....
number 6- on the contrary u can date other ppl which can b a fun thing to do, the trick is to make sure it is very short term, one or two dates max. This gives u a chance to b treated like a princess (guys tend to form on the first few dates) n reminding u that u r one n dat wen u r ready u still av options; also keeping it to two dates means that u r not raising unnecessary expectations- it is not a relationship yet.
7- I agree, one activity comes to mind; boxing! climbing walls can b good too. u replace emotional pain with physical which is easier to heal.
8- lol- lots of ppl will post that letter. nowadays, no one does letters, there is a good chance that it will b typed on ur computer. If u guyz do get back together and he findz it somewhere in ur computer- well....
My dear u hv very good points there but number 5 is about u alone - ur treat, so choose a trendy spot u hv not been b4. Number 6, while nursing a broken and injured heart, u are vulnerable 2 predatory men and u might think sleeping around will hurt him but u end up feeling being used and angry with urself or judging d new bloke harshly. True, exercise is good but don't u think climbing a wall is going 2 far? U might fall and break a leg or an arm in ur current mood. U don't need additional physical pains 2 d emotional ones. Time heals all wounds, so posting dat letter or email or text message may be ur undoing if he comes 2 to his senses and realises u are his life princess only 2 be reminded of ur nasty letter or email. These are my 2 pence bit. 5- true that 6- sleeping around? I wasnt expecting readers to have sex on the second date (unless the guy in question is Morris Chestnut or Will Smith after he becomes divorced or widowed- yeah stand in line) 7-by wall climbing, I mean this- it is good fun...full workout, limbs and abs. will update a picture of me doing one soon. But it is true that when u r in physical pain u tend to focus on that more n less on emotional pain...this is why therapist recommend working out for ppl. There are other scientific reasons for exercising to improve mental health, sumthing to do with endorphin and serotonin- (am not a geek oh, power of google!). http://www.wcg1427.org/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/20080809-adventure-camp-wall-climbing-010.jpgthx for ur comments
hmm 7 sound good. | Posted: at 25-07-2011 04:52 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "fjoeaug") fjoeaug at 25-07-2011 05:03 PM (13 years ago) (f) 10 reasonable piece of advice I'd say.
it sounds good but from which book did u copy it?....lol  | Posted: at 25-07-2011 05:03 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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oh no! my sweet lars,why should i? i'm doing good n u wats cooking?  i haven't receive the package yet,hope u sent it as u promise?if not am gonna b like this   :'( Chei! R u sure about this? | Posted: at 25-07-2011 05:40 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "50scent") 50scent at 25-07-2011 05:45 PM (13 years ago) (m)
RELATIONSHIP & ROMANCE FORUM; MINISTER FOR WOMEN AFFAIRS WELCOMES YOU | Posted: at 25-07-2011 05:45 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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oh no! my sweet lars,why should i? i'm doing good n u wats cooking? i haven't receive the package yet,hope u sent it as u promise?if not am gonna b like this :'( Chei! R u sure about this? TheIr numba is not going thru. I am sure they will deliver. They r a new naija company called VHL- u noe how I like to do my best to support new businesses. Dont worry ur pressent will arrive soon. Hint- it is an iphone with precious stones | Posted: at 25-07-2011 06:05 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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oh no! my sweet lars,why should i? i'm doing good n u wats cooking? i haven't receive the package yet,hope u sent it as u promise?if not am gonna b like this :'( Chei! R u sure about this? TheIr numba is not going thru. I am sure they will deliver. They r a new naija company called VHL- u noe how I like to do my best to support new businesses. Dont worry ur pressent will arrive soon. Hint- it is an iphone with precious stones U can't mean d $3M phone! Anyway, it's good 2 know there a ladies wit kind hearts 4 a bloke still around da block. | Posted: at 26-07-2011 12:57 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Just forget about her/him. Do you know that you can actually manipulate your mind like a computer? Just position your mind as if he/she never existed.
Bros, easier said than done. Man has feelings but computer is as cold 2 the touch as any to b totally unfeeling. Try manipulating ur mind and it keeps returning 2 same issue. So much 4 wandering mind! | Posted: at 26-07-2011 01:40 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Just forget about her/him. Do you know that you can actually manipulate your mind like a computer? Just position your mind as if he/she never existed.
Bros, easier said than done. Man has feelings but computer is as cold 2 the touch as any to b totally unfeeling. Try manipulating ur mind and it keeps returning 2 same issue. So much 4 wandering mind! Dat's why d poster suggested 'removing memory triggers' | Posted: at 26-07-2011 01:57 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Just forget about her/him. Do you know that you can actually manipulate your mind like a computer? Just position your mind as if he/she never existed.
Bros, easier said than done. Man has feelings but computer is as cold 2 the touch as any to b totally unfeeling. Try manipulating ur mind and it keeps returning 2 same issue. So much 4 wandering mind! Dat's why d poster suggested 'removing memory triggers'If u really loved, removing memory triggers won't help initially but would in the longterm. Lossing da love of ur life is lik bereavement. | Posted: at 26-07-2011 02:42 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Just forget about her/him. Do you know that you can actually manipulate your mind like a computer? Just position your mind as if he/she never existed.
Bros, easier said than done. Man has feelings but computer is as cold 2 the touch as any to b totally unfeeling. Try manipulating ur mind and it keeps returning 2 same issue. So much 4 wandering mind! Dat's why d poster suggested 'removing memory triggers'If u really loved, removing memory triggers won't help initially but would in the longterm. Lossing da love of ur life is lik bereavement. U are correct Mr Tundamartin. Some heartbreak is so overwhelming women commit suicide. | Posted: at 26-07-2011 02:47 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Just forget about her/him. Do you know that you can actually manipulate your mind like a computer? Just position your mind as if he/she never existed.
Bros, easier said than done. Man has feelings but computer is as cold 2 the touch as any to b totally unfeeling. Try manipulating ur mind and it keeps returning 2 same issue. So much 4 wandering mind! Dat's why d poster suggested 'removing memory triggers'If u really loved, removing memory triggers won't help initially but would in the longterm. Lossing da love of ur life is lik bereavement. U are correct Mr Tundamartin. Some heartbreak is so overwhelming women commit suicide. Or kill because of it. | Posted: at 26-07-2011 03:20 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Just forget about her/him. Do you know that you can actually manipulate your mind like a computer? Just position your mind as if he/she never existed.
Bros, easier said than done. Man has feelings but computer is as cold 2 the touch as any to b totally unfeeling. Bros, listen 2 what pals are saying regarding human mind : Just forget about her/him. Do you know that you can actually manipulate your mind like a computer? Just position your mind as if he/she never existed.
Bros, easier said than done. Man has feelings but computer is as cold 2 the touch as any to b totally unfeeling. Try manipulating ur mind and it keeps returning 2 same issue. So much 4 wandering mind! Dat's why d poster suggested 'removing memory triggers'If u really loved, removing memory triggers won't help initially but would in the longterm. Lossing da love of ur life is lik bereavement. U are correct Mr Tundamartin. Some heartbreak is so overwhelming women commit suicide. Or kill because of it. | Posted: at 26-07-2011 04:36 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "livingday") livingday at 26-07-2011 12:00 PM (13 years ago) (m) 10 reasonable piece of advice I'd say.
it sounds good but from which book did u copy it?....lol From your note book, of course | Posted: at 26-07-2011 12:00 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Rosemerry") Rosemerry at 26-07-2011 05:34 PM (13 years ago) (f) @ livingday - u bet I hv heard both stories but I couldn't stop laughing over the Mexican woman who folded her lover insided a suitcase to sneak him out of prison  | Posted: at 26-07-2011 05:34 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Sodman4luv") Sodman4luv at 26-07-2011 07:55 PM (13 years ago) (m) K | Posted: at 26-07-2011 07:55 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "livingday") livingday at 27-07-2011 06:45 AM (13 years ago) (m) Just forget about her/him. Do you know that you can actually manipulate your mind like a computer? Just position your mind as if he/she never existed.
Bros, easier said than done. Man has feelings but computer is as cold 2 the touch as any to b totally unfeeling. Try manipulating ur mind and it keeps returning 2 same issue. So much 4 wandering mind! Dat's why d poster suggested 'removing memory triggers'If u really loved, removing memory triggers won't help initially but would in the longterm. Lossing da love of ur life is lik bereavement. True talk tundamartin. We hear of men and women committing suicide or murder because of love. | Posted: at 27-07-2011 06:45 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Just forget about her/him. Do you know that you can actually manipulate your mind like a computer? Just position your mind as if he/she never existed.
Bros, easier said than done. Man has feelings but computer is as cold 2 the touch as any to b totally unfeeling. Try manipulating ur mind and it keeps returning 2 same issue. So much 4 wandering mind! Dat's why d poster suggested 'removing memory triggers'If u really loved, removing memory triggers won't help initially but would in the longterm. Lossing da love of ur life is lik bereavement. True talk tundamartin. We hear of men and women committing suicide or murder because of love. A real lost love is like losing half of u. | Posted: at 27-07-2011 07:37 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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