10 steps to getting over an ex (Page 4)

Date: 23-07-2011 1:42 am (13 years ago) | Author: Franklyn Adam
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- laydeelaracraft at 25-07-2011 01:20 PM (13 years ago)
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@ poster I like, but here is my two kobo.

number 5- spoil yurself, be careful u dont end up doing stuff that will remind u of  him. e.g. imagine making urself bubble only to remember that yu guyz do it together once a month, or going to ur fave restaurant which again u guyz also do occassionally and so on....
number 6- on the contrary u can date other ppl which can b a fun thing to do, the trick is to make sure it is very short term, one or two dates max. This gives u a chance to b treated like a princess (guys tend to form on the first few dates) n reminding u that u r one n dat wen u r ready u still av options; also keeping it to two dates means that u r not raising unnecessary expectations- it is not a relationship yet.
7- I agree, one activity comes to mind; boxing! climbing walls can b good too. u replace emotional pain with physical which is easier to heal.
8- lol- lots of ppl will post that letter. nowadays, no one does letters, there is a good chance that it will b typed on ur computer. If u guyz do get back together and he findz it somewhere in ur computer- well....
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- 50scent at 25-07-2011 01:31 PM (13 years ago)
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laydeelaracraft Long time

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- Bantino at 25-07-2011 02:03 PM (13 years ago)
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Just forget about her/him. Do you know that you can actually manipulate your mind like a computer? Just position your mind as if he/she never existed.
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- tando at 25-07-2011 02:05 PM (13 years ago)
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reading
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- laydeelaracraft at 25-07-2011 02:13 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: 50scent on 25-07-2011 01:31 PM
laydeelaracraft Long time
how far
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- 50scent at 25-07-2011 02:15 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: laydeelaracraft on 25-07-2011 02:13 PM
Quote from: 50scent on 25-07-2011 01:31 PM
laydeelaracraft Long time
how far

im fine sweetie mis u  Kiss

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- hans121 at 25-07-2011 03:14 PM (13 years ago)
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- smithengal at 25-07-2011 03:29 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: laydeelaracraft on 25-07-2011 01:20 PM
@ poster I like, but here is my two kobo.

number 5- spoil yurself, be careful u dont end up doing stuff that will remind u of  him. e.g. imagine making urself bubble only to remember that yu guyz do it together once a month, or going to ur fave restaurant which again u guyz also do occassionally and so on....
number 6- on the contrary u can date other ppl which can b a fun thing to do, the trick is to make sure it is very short term, one or two dates max. This gives u a chance to b treated like a princess (guys tend to form on the first few dates) n reminding u that u r one n dat wen u r ready u still av options; also keeping it to two dates means that u r not raising unnecessary expectations- it is not a relationship yet.
7- I agree, one activity comes to mind; boxing! climbing walls can b good too. u replace emotional pain with physical which is easier to heal.
8- lol- lots of ppl will post that letter. nowadays, no one does letters, there is a good chance that it will b typed on ur computer. If u guyz do get back together and he findz it somewhere in ur computer- well....

My dear u hv very good points there but number 5 is about u alone - ur treat, so choose a trendy spot u hv not been b4. Number 6, while nursing a broken and injured heart, u are vulnerable 2 predatory men and u might think sleeping around will hurt him but u end up feeling being used and angry with urself or judging d new bloke harshly. True, exercise is good but don't u think climbing a wall is going 2 far? U might fall and break a leg or an arm in ur current mood. U don't need additional physical pains 2 d emotional ones. Time heals all wounds, so posting dat letter or email or text message may be ur undoing if he comes 2 to his senses and realises u are his life princess only 2 be reminded of ur nasty letter or email. These are my 2 pence bit.
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- stifler at 25-07-2011 03:45 PM (13 years ago)
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Thanks really needed this right about now
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- smithengal at 25-07-2011 03:49 PM (13 years ago)
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Good
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- 50scent at 25-07-2011 03:57 PM (13 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes

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- sobeit at 25-07-2011 04:01 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: smithengal on 25-07-2011 03:29 PM
Quote from: laydeelaracraft on 25-07-2011 01:20 PM
@ poster I like, but here is my two kobo.

number 5- spoil yurself, be careful u dont end up doing stuff that will remind u of  him. e.g. imagine making urself bubble only to remember that yu guyz do it together once a month, or going to ur fave restaurant which again u guyz also do occassionally and so on....
number 6- on the contrary u can date other ppl which can b a fun thing to do, the trick is to make sure it is very short term, one or two dates max. This gives u a chance to b treated like a princess (guys tend to form on the first few dates) n reminding u that u r one n dat wen u r ready u still av options; also keeping it to two dates means that u r not raising unnecessary expectations- it is not a relationship yet.
7- I agree, one activity comes to mind; boxing! climbing walls can b good too. u replace emotional pain with physical which is easier to heal.
8- lol- lots of ppl will post that letter. nowadays, no one does letters, there is a good chance that it will b typed on ur computer. If u guyz do get back together and he findz it somewhere in ur computer- well....

My dear u hv very good points there but number 5 is about u alone - ur treat, so choose a trendy spot u hv not been b4. Number 6, while nursing a broken and injured heart, u are vulnerable 2 predatory men and u might think sleeping around will hurt him but u end up feeling being used and angry with urselfor judging d new bloke harshly. True, exercise is good but don't u think climbing a wall is going 2 far? U might fall and break a leg or an arm in ur current mood. U don't need additional physical pains 2 d emotional ones. Time heals all wounds, so posting dat letter or email or text message may be ur undoing if he comes 2 to his senses and realises u are his life princess only 2 be reminded of ur nasty letter or email. These are my 2 pence bit.

i totally agree with the highlighted words.it doesn't help at all1
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- smithengal at 25-07-2011 04:07 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sobeit on 25-07-2011 04:01 PM
Quote from: smithengal on 25-07-2011 03:29 PM
Quote from: laydeelaracraft on 25-07-2011 01:20 PM
@ poster I like, but here is my two kobo.

number 5- spoil yurself, be careful u dont end up doing stuff that will remind u of  him. e.g. imagine making urself bubble only to remember that yu guyz do it together once a month, or going to ur fave restaurant which again u guyz also do occassionally and so on....
number 6- on the contrary u can date other ppl which can b a fun thing to do, the trick is to make sure it is very short term, one or two dates max. This gives u a chance to b treated like a princess (guys tend to form on the first few dates) n reminding u that u r one n dat wen u r ready u still av options; also keeping it to two dates means that u r not raising unnecessary expectations- it is not a relationship yet.
7- I agree, one activity comes to mind; boxing! climbing walls can b good too. u replace emotional pain with physical which is easier to heal.
8- lol- lots of ppl will post that letter. nowadays, no one does letters, there is a good chance that it will b typed on ur computer. If u guyz do get back together and he findz it somewhere in ur computer- well....

My dear u hv very good points there but number 5 is about u alone - ur treat, so choose a trendy spot u hv not been b4. Number 6, while nursing a broken and injured heart, u are vulnerable 2 predatory men and u might think sleeping around will hurt him but u end up feeling being used and angry with urselfor judging d new bloke harshly. True, exercise is good but don't u think climbing a wall is going 2 far? U might fall and break a leg or an arm in ur current mood. U don't need additional physical pains 2 d emotional ones. Time heals all wounds, so posting dat letter or email or text message may be ur undoing if he comes 2 to his senses and realises u are his life princess only 2 be reminded of ur nasty letter or email. These are my 2 pence bit.

i totally agree with the highlighted words.it doesn't help at all1

Thank u Mr Sobeit Smiley Smiley
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- sobeit at 25-07-2011 04:12 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: smithengal on 25-07-2011 04:07 PM
Quote from: sobeit on 25-07-2011 04:01 PM
Quote from: smithengal on 25-07-2011 03:29 PM
Quote from: laydeelaracraft on 25-07-2011 01:20 PM
@ poster I like, but here is my two kobo.

number 5- spoil yurself, be careful u dont end up doing stuff that will remind u of  him. e.g. imagine making urself bubble only to remember that yu guyz do it together once a month, or going to ur fave restaurant which again u guyz also do occassionally and so on....
number 6- on the contrary u can date other ppl which can b a fun thing to do, the trick is to make sure it is very short term, one or two dates max. This gives u a chance to b treated like a princess (guys tend to form on the first few dates) n reminding u that u r one n dat wen u r ready u still av options; also keeping it to two dates means that u r not raising unnecessary expectations- it is not a relationship yet.
7- I agree, one activity comes to mind; boxing! climbing walls can b good too. u replace emotional pain with physical which is easier to heal.
8- lol- lots of ppl will post that letter. nowadays, no one does letters, there is a good chance that it will b typed on ur computer. If u guyz do get back together and he findz it somewhere in ur computer- well....

My dear u hv very good points there but number 5 is about u alone - ur treat, so choose a trendy spot u hv not been b4. Number 6, while nursing a broken and injured heart, u are vulnerable 2 predatory men and u might think sleeping around will hurt him but u end up feeling being used and angry with urselfor judging d new bloke harshly. True, exercise is good but don't u think climbing a wall is going 2 far? U might fall and break a leg or an arm in ur current mood. U don't need additional physical pains 2 d emotional ones. Time heals all wounds, so posting dat letter or email or text message may be ur undoing if he comes 2 to his senses and realises u are his life princess only 2 be reminded of ur nasty letter or email. These are my 2 pence bit.

i totally agree with the highlighted words.it doesn't help at all1

Thank u Mr Sobeit Smiley Smiley

u r welcome sweetheart  Smiley
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- tundamartin at 25-07-2011 04:23 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Bantino on 25-07-2011 02:03 PM
Just forget about her/him. Do you know that you can actually manipulate your mind like a computer? Just position your mind as if he/she never existed.

Bros, easier said than done. Man has feelings but computer is as cold 2 the touch as any to b totally unfeeling.
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- laydeelaracraft at 25-07-2011 04:35 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: smithengal on 25-07-2011 03:29 PM
Quote from: laydeelaracraft on 25-07-2011 01:20 PM
@ poster I like, but here is my two kobo.

number 5- spoil yurself, be careful u dont end up doing stuff that will remind u of  him. e.g. imagine making urself bubble only to remember that yu guyz do it together once a month, or going to ur fave restaurant which again u guyz also do occassionally and so on....
number 6- on the contrary u can date other ppl which can b a fun thing to do, the trick is to make sure it is very short term, one or two dates max. This gives u a chance to b treated like a princess (guys tend to form on the first few dates) n reminding u that u r one n dat wen u r ready u still av options; also keeping it to two dates means that u r not raising unnecessary expectations- it is not a relationship yet.
7- I agree, one activity comes to mind; boxing! climbing walls can b good too. u replace emotional pain with physical which is easier to heal.
8- lol- lots of ppl will post that letter. nowadays, no one does letters, there is a good chance that it will b typed on ur computer. If u guyz do get back together and he findz it somewhere in ur computer- well....


My dear u hv very good points there but number 5 is about u alone - ur treat, so choose a trendy spot u hv not been b4. Number 6, while nursing a broken and injured heart, u are vulnerable 2 predatory men and u might think sleeping around will hurt him but u end up feeling being used and angry with urself or judging d new bloke harshly. True, exercise is good but don't u think climbing a wall is going 2 far? U might fall and break a leg or an arm in ur current mood. U don't need additional physical pains 2 d emotional ones. Time heals all wounds, so posting dat letter or email or text message may be ur undoing if he comes 2 to his senses and realises u are his life princess only 2 be reminded of ur nasty letter or email. These are my 2 pence bit.

5- true that
6- sleeping around? I wasnt expecting readers to have sex on the second date (unless the guy in question is Morris Chestnut or Will Smith after he becomes divorced or widowed- yeah stand in line)
7-by wall climbing, I mean this- it is good fun...full workout, limbs and abs. will update a picture of me doing one soon. But it is true that when u r in physical pain u tend to focus on that more n less on emotional pain...this is why therapist recommend working out for ppl. There are other scientific reasons for exercising to improve mental health, sumthing to do with endorphin and serotonin- (am not a geek oh, power of google!).
http://www.wcg1427.org/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/20080809-adventure-camp-wall-climbing-010.jpg
thx for ur comments
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- 50scent at 25-07-2011 04:39 PM (13 years ago)
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 Cool

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- laydeelaracraft at 25-07-2011 04:46 PM (13 years ago)
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sobeit- wassap, av u been ignoring me  Angry
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- tundamartin at 25-07-2011 04:48 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: laydeelaracraft on 25-07-2011 04:35 PM
Quote from: smithengal on 25-07-2011 03:29 PM
Quote from: laydeelaracraft on 25-07-2011 01:20 PM
@ poster I like, but here is my two kobo.

number 5- spoil yurself, be careful u dont end up doing stuff that will remind u of  him. e.g. imagine making urself bubble only to remember that yu guyz do it together once a month, or going to ur fave restaurant which again u guyz also do occassionally and so on....
number 6- on the contrary u can date other ppl which can b a fun thing to do, the trick is to make sure it is very short term, one or two dates max. This gives u a chance to b treated like a princess (guys tend to form on the first few dates) n reminding u that u r one n dat wen u r ready u still av options; also keeping it to two dates means that u r not raising unnecessary expectations- it is not a relationship yet.
7- I agree, one activity comes to mind; boxing! climbing walls can b good too. u replace emotional pain with physical which is easier to heal.
8- lol- lots of ppl will post that letter. nowadays, no one does letters, there is a good chance that it will b typed on ur computer. If u guyz do get back together and he findz it somewhere in ur computer- well....


My dear u hv very good points there but number 5 is about u alone - ur treat, so choose a trendy spot u hv not been b4. Number 6, while nursing a broken and injured heart, u are vulnerable 2 predatory men and u might think sleeping around will hurt him but u end up feeling being used and angry with urself or judging d new bloke harshly. True, exercise is good but don't u think climbing a wall is going 2 far? U might fall and break a leg or an arm in ur current mood. U don't need additional physical pains 2 d emotional ones. Time heals all wounds, so posting dat letter or email or text message may be ur undoing if he comes 2 to his senses and realises u are his life princess only 2 be reminded of ur nasty letter or email. These are my 2 pence bit.

5- true that
6- sleeping around? I wasnt expecting readers to have sex on the second date (unless the guy in question is Morris Chestnut or Will Smith after he becomes divorced or widowed- yeah stand in line)
7-by wall climbing, I mean this- it is good fun...full workout, limbs and abs. will update a picture of me doing one soon. But it is true that when u r in physical pain u tend to focus on that more n less on emotional pain...this is why therapist recommend working out for ppl. There are other scientific reasons for exercising to improve mental health, sumthing to do with endorphin and serotonin- (am not a geek oh, power of google!).
http://www.wcg1427.org/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/20080809-adventure-camp-wall-climbing-010.jpg
thx for ur comments



No: 6, Men 'll always be men and 1-night stand is always much a game plan. Overall, all da points raised here a good. Thumps up ladies  Kiss Kiss
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- sobeit at 25-07-2011 04:50 PM (13 years ago)
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oh no! my sweet lars,why should i? i'm doing good n u wats cooking?  Cheesy i haven't receive the package yet,hope u sent it as u promise?if not am gonna b like this  Angry Sad :'(
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