Wow! i am loving this..... hearing from the ladys themselve. So i would like to ask; What could be the cause of some being hard to please? Is it right person at a wrong time? or is it simply a case of two incompartible ppl staying together?
I think this happens when the woman hasnt swept the man off his feet.....or rather if the man is not that into the woman......a man that is crazy about a lady is easily pleased with little efforts from the lady....... U spoke well Dp now it's time for me to spark  U see at one point or the other the ppl involved must have been crazy about each other but after sometime when the wind of ecxtassy beging to subside everybody will come to his or her right sense & trying to know what really is so interesting about this person and some of these features might start creeping in Have you finished 'SPARKING'?.....hehe........ 
Yea I reason with you..........but you see, if the craze had been beyond the lust of their flesh, then it wont be hard for them to please each other.......My parents are good example.......they needed little effort to make each other happy...........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! Posted: at 23-07-2011 11:19 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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U mean u haven't displayed any of these traits to any lady before?
I may have done it 1nce or 2wice but I have witnessed ladies doing it frequently, besides am not d type dat pretends 2 be sumfin or doing sumfin while am not. I alwayz like to make things clear right on time, and so some oda men does.
Love or Hate me its ur Biz, I have more important things to think abt since u never gonna change me Posted: at 23-07-2011 11:27 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Posted: at 23-07-2011 11:30 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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shaoyang at 23-07-2011 11:34 AM (13 years ago) (m) Going 2 buy new broom! I nid 2 "sweep" one bobo off his feet....
@Xena15 plz make that broom 2 U will be doing a brother a whole lot of good & make sure the broom is strong, i want to sweep smbd Posted: at 23-07-2011 11:34 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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shaoyang at 23-07-2011 11:40 AM (13 years ago) (m) U mean u haven't displayed any of these traits to any lady before?
I may have done it 1nce or 2wice but I have witnessed ladies doing it frequently, besides am not d type dat pretends 2 be sumfin or doing sumfin while am not. I alwayz like to make things clear right on time, and so some oda men does. U 4get that when u newly meet someone u like to get to the root of it after when u notice she's not exactly whom you are looking for you start to display any of these features in order to make things right & she not being ready to leave will ve putting in some effort to hang & at the end of the day to her MEN ARE SO HARD TO PLEASE don't u think so Posted: at 23-07-2011 11:40 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Going 2 buy new broom! I nid 2 "sweep" one bobo off his feet....
@Xena15 plz make that broom 2 U will be doing a brother a whole lot of good & make sure the broom is strong, i want to sweep smbd  I hope it is me oo...........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! Posted: at 23-07-2011 11:42 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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shaoyang at 23-07-2011 11:44 AM (13 years ago) (m) Amebo! so u hv been peeping my pocket Posted: at 23-07-2011 11:44 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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shaoyang at 23-07-2011 11:47 AM (13 years ago) (m) If a man wants you,he wants you. Straightforward. If he isn't interested,he will cook up any bullshit fault just to get on your nerves cos nothing you do will satisfy him. All these scenarios described above are usually used by guys who have lost interest in the first place. If the guy wants to stay, none of this petty stuff matters.  In otherwords if a man wants to stay no need trying to please him, he'll please himself Posted: at 23-07-2011 11:47 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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If a man wants you,he wants you. Straightforward. If he isn't interested,he will cook up any bullshit fault just to get on your nerves cos nothing you do will satisfy him. All these scenarios described above are usually used by guys who have lost interest in the first place. If the guy wants to stay, none of this petty stuff matters.  In otherwords if a man wants to stay no need trying to please him, he'll please himself  No! Come on! But the harder she tries to please him,the more he'll take advantage of that!
Live and let live! Posted: at 23-07-2011 11:49 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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xena na does long and strong broom make u buy oo Posted: at 23-07-2011 11:49 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Not all men are like tht. And i get a gud GPS for dat one, bcos i can not play games in a r/s (as in, i must not act like dis bcos he will see it like dat) blabla
i no get time for such, am real and if ur not, u can go. Posted: at 23-07-2011 11:51 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Amebo! so u hv been peeping my pocket  ME?........... :'( :'( :'( :'(
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! Posted: at 23-07-2011 11:51 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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shaoyang at 23-07-2011 11:54 AM (13 years ago) (m) If a man wants you,he wants you. Straightforward. If he isn't interested,he will cook up any bullshit fault just to get on your nerves cos nothing you do will satisfy him. All these scenarios described above are usually used by guys who have lost interest in the first place. If the guy wants to stay, none of this petty stuff matters.  In otherwords if a man wants to stay no need trying to please him, he'll please himself  No! Come on! But the harder she tries to please him,the more he'll take advantage of that!
So what do you suggest she should do; desert the guy or take a break to see if the guy will come calling? Posted: at 23-07-2011 11:54 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Not true
When you smile at me, i can't help but feel loved. Posted: at 23-07-2011 11:58 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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shaoyang at 23-07-2011 11:59 AM (13 years ago) (m) If you don't show too much feelings for them then trust me they are easy to please Well people have there differences so you can't please to perfection
And who are you going to show your feelings to if not the one you are in relationship with or will you be having relationship with one and showing another one your feelings Posted: at 23-07-2011 11:59 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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If a man wants you,he wants you. Straightforward. If he isn't interested,he will cook up any bullshit fault just to get on your nerves cos nothing you do will satisfy him. All these scenarios described above are usually used by guys who have lost interest in the first place. If the guy wants to stay, none of this petty stuff matters.  In otherwords if a man wants to stay no need trying to please him, he'll please himself  No! Come on! But the harder she tries to please him,the more he'll take advantage of that!
So what do you suggest she should do; desert the guy or take a break to see if the guy will come calling? You know, that's a mistake many women do,especially at the beginning of the relationship, and usually guys take them for granted! It's not ok!They should be themselves from the day 1!If u like her so,good, if not, at least they wouldn't waste each others' time!
Live and let live! Posted: at 23-07-2011 12:00 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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shaoyang at 23-07-2011 12:04 PM (13 years ago) (m) Not all men are like tht. And i get a gud GPS for dat one, bcos i can not play games in a r/s (as in, i must not act like dis bcos he will see it like dat) blabla
i no get time for such, am real and if ur not, u can go.
Flymama you know for women it's easy for them to say it's over or they will simply run away but guys will prefer not to say and keep make some of these festures manifest & the lady not willing to call it a day will be striving to make him calm down Posted: at 23-07-2011 12:04 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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shaoyang at 23-07-2011 12:07 PM (13 years ago) (m) Amebo! so u hv been peeping my pocket  ME?........... :'( :'( :'( :'( Oh mbanu, Adaobi, oya come collect this money go buy okporoko we r going to cook nsala today Posted: at 23-07-2011 12:07 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Not all men are like tht. And i get a gud GPS for dat one, bcos i can not play games in a r/s (as in, i must not act like dis bcos he will see it like dat) blabla
i no get time for such, am real and if ur not, u can go.
Flymama you know for women it's easy for them to say it's over or they will simply run away but guys will prefer not to say and keep make some of these festures manifest & the lady not willing to call it a day will be striving to make him calm down  But how can u please somebody whn u dont know wht the person likes? A lot of ppl play games in their r/s, they wanna act better then wht/who they are. There is no point in waiting till something changes when u dont even knw the original color. I hate it whn ppl pretend, just like ur topic describes...if ur not ok,ur not ok...why talk as if u are 
I no get time for such ppl, its a waste of energy Posted: at 23-07-2011 12:10 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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