Marriage between tribes of different Lineage..ASHANTI AND IGBO (Page 2)

I can't go into such marriage, it's absolutely crazy.

Posted: at 28-08-2011 06:21 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Anything can happen, as long as there is LOVE.

Posted: at 28-08-2011 11:41 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

bros me too i bi igbo boy from enugu state of nigeria now am in senegal, i have been here for three good years and i didnt have any girl friend because i hate there tradition and please brother if you can follow my word try and look for another country for your life because seven years in love is not seven days because the girl may be planning to phyuk you up if she notice that you dont like there culture and at the end of everything you know that in two one must go before one,bros think of this your age met in igbo boy will have there children answering there name after their death and your own will answering womans name where in the world that type of thing is still going on,i live nigeria and i am happy to be a nigeria because the and wise country until you are not a full nigeria guy you can phyuk up with your life but at the end of it you will become fool which i dont want it to happen to you,nijia big boys what is friendship for them what we need from out side girl is that her fathers money when we are true with the money we find our way why must you go into love to the issue of asking us to help you and tell you what to do,please friend are you people sure that this guy is from nigeria talk of igbo boy please use your self do go there and distroy nigeria name,look at common Ghana here you dont plan your side well,think pass what aurth nzeribe do to ghana government and now it your own time to do to the king and you are there telling us that you are in phyuking love with a little girl of ghana even if is nigeria girl,please people of nigeria this guy is the guy nigeria government need to arrest and ask him many question because he insult nigeria boys

Posted: at 28-08-2011 02:16 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie

Bros dis kind situation is not d type u wil say no matter wat parents, elders or tradition says....... Definitely the gals family wil come for there children no matter where they run to......... and they have not tell him all the royal families laws,, dis I kno for sure..... so as time goes he wil be hearing one thing and anotherespecially when they start to bear children.. so d best option for him is to opt out....................Unless he wishes to forfeit his children for his wife which only makes him a surrogate father

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Posted: at 28-08-2011 04:13 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

 

Posted: at 28-08-2011 08:56 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I blame them both.  He should have done some research on the culture of this woman and she should have been more forthcoming about the inner workings of her tribe.  I couldn't do it, but I him well in whatever he chooses to do.

Posted: at 29-08-2011 04:51 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

Look at it another way.
Sometimes men do not bother to raise kids. Just leave them to the wives or ex-wives or gfs, or lovers or ex-lovers. The majority of children in the world are cared by women anyway.
I still wish this couple marry though, but with fairness in their minds. To love & respect one another through out.
I hope the man won't have to marry 2 wives, that seemed to be just egoistic.And its strategic to doom the marriage with the ashanti lady.
I wish the best to this couple, God help them.

Posted: at 29-08-2011 05:11 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

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Posted: at 29-08-2011 05:30 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie

unfortunately we live in a world where tradition and culture and money DOES  matter in most families,here in the USA its money,if the person dont make a certain amount of money or lives in a certain neighborhood,the family of that well-to-do individual wont allow that person to marry,and AFTER i read most of the comments here,its a no-brainer dude, im sorry,but ur going have to leave her no matter if u guys have been together for 7 months or 7 years tell ur  friend that he is digging himself in a grave by marrying this girl and by her not telling him about her family traditions,just asking for trouble,her family is already dead set against it by her marrying him tell ur friend hes better off marrying a nigerian or a american or a european or better someone from his tribe.......

Posted: at 29-08-2011 06:54 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie

hmm, I`m surprise by most of the things that people are saying, especially the females.
It makes perfect sense for the kids to belong to their mother: she was the one that gave birth to them and went through most of the pain in order to bring them to this world with help of God.
Plus, most children around the world are being taking care of by women, so, I think the Ashanti tradition makes perfect sense.
Children don`t belong to their father or mother, rather they belong to WHOMEVER THAT CAN TAKE GOOD CARE OF THEM.

Sorry but, if your brother is having problem with the case that the children might "belong" to their mother or her family in case of her death or anything like that, then he is not ready to get marry and his ego is too high.

Posted: at 29-08-2011 07:19 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie