can you be a friend to your EX?

A lot depends on why u broke up. Anytime there is a restraining order, no friendship can come. or Is wanting to be friends now a subconscious excuse 2 be around this person so u can find closure on unresolved things? Is wanting 2 be friends now, really a product of guilt u have for how u were as a partner? Do u feel u owe your ex, at the very least, your friendship? If u truly want 2 be friends with Ur ex, it should be because u like him as a friend. It needs 2 be because u are willing to work at what might be a very hard friendship 2 solidify. What attracted u to him or her in the first place, is probably still there. There's habit and familiarity here, which are huge things and should not be taken lightly. Do u want 2 be friends with your ex because he's so exceptional, or because he's so easy and convenient? please u guys should try to answer this question with sincerity...thanks

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Posted: at 29-12-2008 07:21 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

yes ofcouse

Posted: at 29-12-2008 07:26 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

whether it ended good or bad
nah! a closed chapter can never
be opened........

Posted: at 30-12-2008 01:02 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

yea

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Posted: at 30-12-2008 04:50 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

we can be friends but not close ones. hello hi sort of friends

Posted: at 16-01-2009 10:21 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

well said.

Posted: at 17-01-2009 04:29 AM (15 years ago) | Hero

I got one at the moment and she said she will continually wanna see me and my company, that she still love me and the love is that of a friend.
Well, we had so several beak ups but she is quite beautiful..But i want a new girl also so as to see how it goes with other girls cos i have been faithfull

Posted: at 17-01-2009 12:30 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

yes y not

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Posted: at 17-01-2009 01:43 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero

NO NO ex's are dangerious.

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Posted: at 19-01-2009 11:28 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

wtf

Posted: at 19-01-2009 02:48 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming