He Called Off Their Engagement Becos.................She Was Adopted........

Date: 05-09-2011 2:43 pm (10 years ago) | Author: Obiajunwa
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- at 5-09-2011 02:43 PM (10 years ago)
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Here is the scenario:

They were two of a kind.  They have dated for over a year and he had proposed to her.  She had accepted the marriage proposal and arrangement was in top gear to make the occasion a memorable one.  This was because he is the crown prince of their town and she came from a wealthy home.

Two weeks before the wedding, the lady decided to tell the prince something about her which she was sure he doesnt know.  He was an adopted child from one of the various charity homes.  Her current parents are not her biological parents.  When the guy heard this, his face fell and he walked out on the lady.  Three days later he called the lady to cancel the wedding, his reason being thus:

(a)    As a crown prince, he was supposed to marry a daughter from the town.  Now that she was adopted, no one knows her lineage or where she actually hails from.

(b)  As an intending hubby, he would like to know the historical background of his intending bride.

(c)  He would also like to know the lady's family history medically.

Now all these might not be possible becos no one is sure of where she hails from and who her biological parents are.


Now I ask, are the above remains cogent enough to warrant an end to the relationship?

Can you as a man or woman end a relationship if you find out that your proposed spouse was adopted?


So let's go there!


Posted: at 5-09-2011 02:43 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
- divineproject at 5-09-2011 02:46 PM (10 years ago)
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If you ask me, I think the guy's reason are not tenable........He didnt truly love the lady, else he would wave such excuses aside.

Posted: at 5-09-2011 02:46 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 5-09-2011 02:48 PM (10 years ago)
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hmmmm very difficult buh the lady shud ve let him no on time to  avoid sudden heart break.............as 4 moi i cant n' will not.........unless i find out abt his biological background to be sure his not in anyway related to me Cool Cool

Posted: at 5-09-2011 02:48 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 5-09-2011 02:49 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on  5-09-2011 02:46 PM
If you ask me, I think the guy's reason are not tenable........He didnt truly love the lady, else he would wave such excuses aside.
what re yu saying? a crown prince someday a ''KING'' married to unknown bride.........in some culture is abomination

Posted: at 5-09-2011 02:49 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 5-09-2011 02:52 PM (10 years ago)
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not enough reasons to leave the poor girl or call of the enagement ...some stupid men with their  ways of thinking....gush...but sha you copy this out of nollywood movie huh?not a bad script tho...i will love to act or pretend to be the poor girl on the script sha....however,the girl should'ave let him know before now.

Posted: at 5-09-2011 02:52 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- chiglamour4u at 5-09-2011 02:55 PM (10 years ago)
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reading mood activated
Posted: at 5-09-2011 02:55 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 5-09-2011 02:55 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on  5-09-2011 02:49 PM
Quote from: divineproject on  5-09-2011 02:46 PM
If you ask me, I think the guy's reason are not tenable........He didnt truly love the lady, else he would wave such excuses aside.
what re yu saying? a crown prince someday a ''KING'' married to unknown bride.........in some culture is abomination
abomination ...what is so abominable about this...isn't she a human?besides,the pple who adopted her are now her parents..

Posted: at 5-09-2011 02:55 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 5-09-2011 03:01 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on  5-09-2011 02:52 PM
not enough reasons to leave the poor girl or call of the enagement ...some stupid men with their  ways of thinking....gush...but sha you copy this out of nollywood movie huh?not a bad script tho...i will love to act or pretend to be the poor girl on the script sha....however,the girl should'ave let him know before now.

You think?............but you are wrong...hehehehe

Posted: at 5-09-2011 03:01 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 5-09-2011 03:03 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on  5-09-2011 03:01 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on  5-09-2011 02:52 PM
not enough reasons to leave the poor girl or call of the enagement ...some stupid men with their  ways of thinking....gush...but sha you copy this out of nollywood movie huh?not a bad script tho...i will love to act or pretend to be the poor girl on the script sha....however,the girl should'ave let him know before now.

You think?............but you are wrong...hehehehe
not think ..i know hehehehhe

Posted: at 5-09-2011 03:03 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 5-09-2011 03:04 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on  5-09-2011 02:49 PM
Quote from: divineproject on  5-09-2011 02:46 PM
If you ask me, I think the guy's reason are not tenable........He didnt truly love the lady, else he would wave such excuses aside.
what re yu saying? a crown prince someday a ''KING'' married to unknown bride.........in some culture is abomination

But she is human na and dats what matters...........ok what about in a case where the groom-to-be is not a prince, is it ok for him to go ahead?

Posted: at 5-09-2011 03:04 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 5-09-2011 03:08 PM (10 years ago)
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help me ask her ooo

Posted: at 5-09-2011 03:08 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 5-09-2011 03:13 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on  5-09-2011 03:03 PM
Quote from: divineproject on  5-09-2011 03:01 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on  5-09-2011 02:52 PM
not enough reasons to leave the poor girl or call of the enagement ...some stupid men with their  ways of thinking....gush...but sha you copy this out of nollywood movie huh?not a bad script tho...i will love to act or pretend to be the poor girl on the script sha....however,the girl should'ave let him know before now.

You think?............but you are wrong...hehehehe
not think ..i know hehehehhe

For your mind oo..........maybe you have watched a nolly movie with this type of story line, but in this case something happened and I had to paint the pix thus.......what happened was this close....... Wink Wink

Posted: at 5-09-2011 03:13 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 5-09-2011 03:21 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on  5-09-2011 02:55 PM
Quote from: kebella on  5-09-2011 02:49 PM
Quote from: divineproject on  5-09-2011 02:46 PM
If you ask me, I think the guy's reason are not tenable........He didnt truly love the lady, else he would wave such excuses aside.
what re yu saying? a crown prince someday a ''KING'' married to unknown bride.........in some culture is abomination
abomination ...what is so abominable about this...isn't she a human?besides,the pple who adopted her are now her parents..

nope in some culture she myt be decendant of out-cast (osu) dont get me wrong buh b4 he embark on such wedding he must no the background of who his abt to marry.............not the boy's fault

Posted: at 5-09-2011 03:21 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 5-09-2011 03:22 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on  5-09-2011 03:04 PM
Quote from: kebella on  5-09-2011 02:49 PM
Quote from: divineproject on  5-09-2011 02:46 PM
If you ask me, I think the guy's reason are not tenable........He didnt truly love the lady, else he would wave such excuses aside.
what re yu saying? a crown prince someday a ''KING'' married to unknown bride.........in some culture is abomination

But she is human na and dats what matters...........ok what about in a case where the groom-to-be is not a prince, is it ok for him to go ahead?

he might consider her ...........buh the different is clear.......... Grin Grin

Posted: at 5-09-2011 03:22 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 5-09-2011 03:33 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on  5-09-2011 03:22 PM
Quote from: divineproject on  5-09-2011 03:04 PM
Quote from: kebella on  5-09-2011 02:49 PM
Quote from: divineproject on  5-09-2011 02:46 PM
If you ask me, I think the guy's reason are not tenable........He didnt truly love the lady, else he would wave such excuses aside.
what re yu saying? a crown prince someday a ''KING'' married to unknown bride.........in some culture is abomination

But she is human na and dats what matters...........ok what about in a case where the groom-to-be is not a prince, is it ok for him to go ahead?

he might consider her ...........buh the different is clear.......... Grin Grin

What is good for a prince is also good for a commoner na.......abi wetin you think?

Posted: at 5-09-2011 03:33 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 5-09-2011 03:38 PM (10 years ago)
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DP abeg no join em for this fight lols ...........i no dey marry prince maybe we wait after MJ honeymoon ............she wil explain better Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 5-09-2011 03:38 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 5-09-2011 03:48 PM (10 years ago)
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Ok, I dey wait.......but what is wrong in marrying someone whose background you dont know.........afterall no be their fault............

Posted: at 5-09-2011 03:48 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 5-09-2011 03:50 PM (10 years ago)
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i cant ansa for others buh for me.......i cant bcos if am the one without background (unknow gurl) definately he wont marry me........ Cool Cool

Posted: at 5-09-2011 03:50 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 5-09-2011 04:14 PM (10 years ago)
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So na background you wan marry?.......what abt the LOVE between you two?.....what about the PERSONALITY?

Posted: at 5-09-2011 04:14 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- Emmandazie at 5-09-2011 04:57 PM (10 years ago)
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The more reason he had to stand by her and give hope to someone who is hopeless, that lady needs love cos she did not apply coming to this world through that means and anyone rough handling her emotions is causing her great harm, not acceptable in God's sight.
Medical history is no pretence cos medical facilities are they to detect such claims!
Posted: at 5-09-2011 04:57 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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