![-]( "Emmandazie") Emmandazie at 6-09-2011 10:03 AM (13 years ago)  (m) Reply |
Here is the scenario:
They were two of a kind. They have dated for over a year and he had proposed to her. She had accepted the marriage proposal and arrangement was in top gear to make the occasion a memorable one. This was because he is the crown prince of their town and she came from a wealthy home.
Two weeks before the wedding, the lady decided to tell the prince something about her which she was sure he doesnt know. He was an adopted child from one of the various charity homes. Her current parents are not her biological parents. When the guy heard this, his face fell and he walked out on the lady. Three days later he called the lady to cancel the wedding, his reason being thus:
(a) As a crown prince, he was supposed to marry a daughter from the town. Now that she was adopted, no one knows her lineage or where she actually hails from.
(b) As an intending hubby, he would like to know the historical background of his intending bride.
(c) He would also like to know the lady's family history medically.
Now all these might not be possible becos no one is sure of where she hails from and who her biological parents are.
Now I ask, are the above remains cogent enough to warrant an end to the relationship?
Can you as a man or woman end a relationship if you find out that your proposed spouse was adopted?
So let's go there!
dear Mummy, dis issue is not as easy as u take it to be oo. If I am d prince, I won't tell my fam about her background or whatever, just keep it to myself ∂ŋd act like everything is normal But being a crown prince?  Even monarchs family have always got problems with marrying a foreigner or just anybody. If u have read d story about queen elizabeth's uncle who declined being a king bcos he wasn't permitted to marry someone from outside england. So you want to tell me that being adopted automatically stops one from being a royal?
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 6-09-2011 10:08 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Emmandazie") Emmandazie at 6-09-2011 10:10 AM (13 years ago) (m) The more reason he had to stand by her and give hope to someone who is hopeless, that lady needs love cos she did not apply coming to this world through that means and anyone rough handling her emotions is causing her great harm, not acceptable in God's sight.
Medical history is no pretence cos medical facilities are they to detect such claims!
what about family background?.........not necessary?  DP, is moral background frontspace not more important than family background? Will I drop a morally good lady simply because I can't trace her background? Infact , she even present advantages cos no inlaw no go bring wahala na?  | Posted: at 6-09-2011 10:10 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Idbabe") Idbabe at 6-09-2011 10:10 AM (13 years ago) (f) Thats why its not good to tell these men the truth at times, becos they cant handle it. Can u imagine? | Posted: at 6-09-2011 10:10 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Bia dp..wetin consyn marriage wit family mediacal history..so if one of her relation been don get aids before or TB,he wont marry her again huh? Whats dia if she was adopted...what if her real parents are nt alive? Why dont he face fact..meet her foster parents or whateva,they can talk it ova... He shud take her as Human and forget abt her biological parents...one tin led to the other they abandoned her..someday they might see her..who knows? Definitely shes not from his lineage..he shud go marry her joor and stop behaving like a village/bush prince dat doesnt have orientation...lmao Cool temper oo.......no be me be the prince oo.......... You know that there are families that are said to be plagued with some medical condition(s), like diabetes, cancer, TB, High blood pressure...........like some doctors would say, if any of one's parents suffered from any medical condition, there are chances that the children would suffer from such too........no be me talk am ooo........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 6-09-2011 10:13 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "DHash") DHash at 6-09-2011 10:14 AM (13 years ago) (m) Interesting! | Posted: at 6-09-2011 10:14 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Emmandazie") Emmandazie at 6-09-2011 10:15 AM (13 years ago) (m) Thats why its not good to tell these some men the truth at times, becos they cant handle it. Can u imagine?
Don't agree with your statement Back to DP, is it her fault for not knowing her parents? Did the so-called prince expect her to identify her parents right from birth? Bullshit prince! | Posted: at 6-09-2011 10:15 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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The more reason he had to stand by her and give hope to someone who is hopeless, that lady needs love cos she did not apply coming to this world through that means and anyone rough handling her emotions is causing her great harm, not acceptable in God's sight.
Medical history is no pretence cos medical facilities are they to detect such claims!
what about family background?.........not necessary? DP, is moral background frontspace not more important than family background? Will I drop a morally good lady simply because I can't trace her background? Infact , she even present advantages cos no inlaw no go bring wahala na? Emman, check my 1st comment on this post and you would understand where I stand.......i was just trying to bring out some point 
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 6-09-2011 10:17 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Emmandazie") Emmandazie at 6-09-2011 10:18 AM (13 years ago) (m) Bia dp..wetin consyn marriage wit family mediacal history..so if one of her relation been don get aids before or TB,he wont marry her again huh? Whats dia if she was adopted...what if her real parents are nt alive? Why dont he face fact..meet her foster parents or whateva,they can talk it ova... He shud take her as Human and forget abt her biological parents...one tin led to the other they abandoned her..someday they might see her..who knows? Definitely shes not from his lineage..he shud go marry her joor and stop behaving like a village/bush prince dat doesnt have orientation...lmao Cool temper oo.......no be me be the prince oo.......... You know that there are families that are said to be plagued with some medical condition(s), like diabetes, cancer, TB, High blood pressure...........like some doctors would say, if any of one's parents suffered from any medical condition, there are chances that the children would suffer from such too........no be me talk am ooo........ dat temper no easy to cool oh! if his excuse na medical history, why he no fit take her do medical examinations na? | Posted: at 6-09-2011 10:18 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Emmandazie") Emmandazie at 6-09-2011 10:20 AM (13 years ago) (m) DP, I get your stand very well but just trying to enligthen others. Infact this story gave me a bad temper the whole night! | Posted: at 6-09-2011 10:20 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Thats why its not good to tell these men the truth at times, becos they cant handle it. Can u imagine?
The truth is bitter and a lot of people dont know how to handle the truth at the initial stage............but saying the truth is the only option, it doesnt matter if the other party cant handle it.........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 6-09-2011 10:21 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Thats why its not good to tell these some men the truth at times, becos they cant handle it. Can u imagine?
Don't agree with your statement Back to DP, is it her fault for not knowing her parents? Did the so-called prince expect her to identify her parents right from birth? Bullshit prince! It is not her fault at all...........but truth be told, this kind of thing is happening in our society...........people turn down people simply because they cant trace back their lineage/origin...........but these people forget that the rejected are no less humans..........what has lineage/origin got to do with it?
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 6-09-2011 10:25 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Emmandazie") Emmandazie at 6-09-2011 10:26 AM (13 years ago) (m) Only a good intentioned person can open up the truth at that stage, say it and if the other party takes it bitterly, your mind is clear before God. | Posted: at 6-09-2011 10:26 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Emmandazie") Emmandazie at 6-09-2011 10:29 AM (13 years ago) (m) Thats why its not good to tell these some men the truth at times, becos they cant handle it. Can u imagine?
Don't agree with your statement Back to DP, is it her fault for not knowing her parents? Did the so-called prince expect her to identify her parents right from birth? Bullshit prince! It is not her fault at all...........but truth be told, this kind of thing is happening in our society...........people turn down people simply because they cant trace back their lineage/origin...........but these people forget that the rejected are no less humans..........what has lineage/origin got to do with it? Yes dear, one day this girl will come here really changed, even more than the so-called prince! I will personally pray for her! | Posted: at 6-09-2011 10:29 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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whats the meaning of all this bla bla bla every body knw its an India film. | Posted: at 6-09-2011 10:42 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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It is no film, not to talk of it being Indian>>>>>>>
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 6-09-2011 10:55 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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How come some people think this kind of thing doesnt happen or didnt happen?........or have we forgotten this is Africa and we like to dig deep to know about the intending couple's background?...............
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 6-09-2011 10:57 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "hotguy77") hotguy77 at 6-09-2011 11:03 AM (13 years ago) (m) In this case i don't blame the guy, cos some traditions forbids such. As a crowned Prince you must maintain and sustain the kingship, marrying someone without a known background portends danger as far as i know (my opinion though). | Posted: at 6-09-2011 11:03 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "queenrukky") queenrukky at 6-09-2011 11:05 AM (13 years ago) (f) | Posted: at 6-09-2011 11:05 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "syntyche") syntyche at 6-09-2011 11:10 AM (13 years ago) (f) He Called Off Their Engagement Becos.................She Was Adopted........ (Page 4) « posted : September 06, 2011, 10:57:20 AM (1 min ago) » -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- How come some people think this kind of thing doesnt happen or didnt happen?........or have we forgotten this is Africa and we like to dig deep to know about the intending couple's background?............... To hell wit Africa ,if he truelly love her,he will nt dig deep.dia re many out there dat follow their hearts wat happen to dem?ever in nigeria movie re we nt seeing it?na 2day?abeg de prince ve something eles in mind nt dat.in short dats how some men re,so is nt a new thing,dey dnt cherish wat dey ve till dey miss it.may be de prince even get big head self,hissssssssss rubbish. | Posted: at 6-09-2011 11:10 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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