pals i need ur opinion..... I alwayz accuse my guy of one lady in her place of work dat he is dating her and always telling me to TRUST him dat there is notin btw them,dey normally send text to each other and calling every nit but he said i should take him for his word that there is notin...after som month i cahnge to him not pickin his call and dont go to his house.....he now called me down and explain everytin that has been going btw him and the lady and said is the lady that want him dat and he cant send him away like dat cos of his job... Now pals, do you want me to continue TRUST him again or wat??? lately last week now d lady has started callin again and he said there is notin wrong by pickin his call and he is not the one calling her... am fed up and he is telling me again to Trust him that there is notin btw them again that they are just friend... pls help me,wat should i do,should i put my trust in him again or i should let him go??? ur response will add value to my life...pls be serious
Posted: at 13-09-2011 11:33 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
Emmandazie at 13-09-2011 11:45 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeh, why is all that happening na? Anywhere what do they talk about during the calls? If only casual conversations then no need to panic, or if during the calls the guy is sounding negative to a canal relation then no panic. But if contrary, then no trust am again, come trust me!
Posted: at 13-09-2011 11:45 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
wandepope at 13-09-2011 12:18 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Personally oh....i think ur guy may b enjoying her attention...personally too oh...if u told ur guy that such action is hurting u he suppose to make adjustments.but honestly i think you are either a jelous lover or over-protective person.about trusting him...LET HIM PROVE A POINT afteral trust should be earned.
Posted: at 13-09-2011 12:18 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
kerryniyi at 13-09-2011 06:12 PM (13 years ago) (m)
The hand writing is already on the wall although, it's never late. It's better 4u to think forward and aloud nature to it course no matter how hurt it is. Time is a healer.
Posted: at 13-09-2011 06:12 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
msrastarules at 14-09-2011 12:13 AM (13 years ago) (f)
I don't think the real problem is whether or not you can trust him.. to me the bigger problem is that he will not stop taking her calls when he know that it upsets you. Nevermind, what is going on with them, what is done is the dark must come to the night, what you should be concerned with, in my opinion, is why can't he comply with your request and stop this woman from calling. Maybe you should get him a new phone with a new number. If he gives the number to her despite your protests than it is clear that your feelings do not matter to him and you may want to reconsider the relationship. Men will cheat, that is an unfortunate fact of life. We all want a faithful man, but will settle for one who puts our feelings first and keeps all forms of harmful communication out of our way.
Good luck.
Posted: at 14-09-2011 12:13 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
MY ADVICE................. HOLD HIM TIGHT NOW OR LOOSE HIM FOR EVER..... A BIRD IN HAND WORTH TWO AT BUSH...... DO U THINK IS EASY TO HOOK ANOTHER MAN?..... THEN HOW CAN U STAY AND LOOSE THET ONE U HAVE FOR ANOTHER LADY..... THINK VERY FAST NOW ... WORK UR WAY OUT.....................(one love)
Posted: at 14-09-2011 02:26 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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