Should you be honest with your man about how many guys you’ve slept with? (Page 5)

Date: 04-10-2011 12:09 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Onyinyechi Miracle
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- onyiis at 6-10-2011 10:30 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: toibeli on  5-10-2011 03:43 AM
I really would not like to know, I've been with quite a few, and I am not telling either.

 Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 6-10-2011 10:30 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 6-10-2011 10:31 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Denemman on  5-10-2011 05:42 AM
I rather her not tell me since i do not know anythg about her past segxwal life, but if she deems it right i will listen to her. Whether i will change my view about her is not to say because it wont change anythg so i just go ahead and love her.
 
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- onyiis at 6-10-2011 10:32 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: 1daful on  5-10-2011 06:30 AM
I rather say u shuldn't wake the sleeping dog

heheheheheeeeeeeeeee !!!

Posted: at 6-10-2011 10:32 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 6-10-2011 10:32 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Swtezvikky on  5-10-2011 07:45 AM
Yes,if only he tell me his own

lolz  Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 6-10-2011 10:32 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 6-10-2011 10:33 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: yenibaby on  5-10-2011 08:20 AM
at least they re nao married ......... Angry Angry Angry, there is no need jor

u think ?  Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 6-10-2011 10:33 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 6-10-2011 10:34 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Emmandazie on  5-10-2011 08:38 AM
Quote from: Swtezvikky on  5-10-2011 07:45 AM
Yes,if only he tell me his own
Oya, I don try only with 75. How many you don taste?

agu !! Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 6-10-2011 10:34 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 6-10-2011 10:35 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Greggiyke on  5-10-2011 08:50 AM
I don't think I would want to know, and even if she decides to tell me, it wouldn't change my perception of her.
What matters is who she is now and that she loves and respects what we have. Shikina.

i like that  Grin Grin

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- onyiis at 6-10-2011 10:36 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: senator83a on  5-10-2011 09:03 AM
no. it is better i dont know cos it makes me sick to imagine how many guys my woman has opened her ... for. so i think is not fair atall if a girl has slept with so many to tell her current man. it makes a guy loose interest to certain degree.

u are right

Posted: at 6-10-2011 10:36 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 6-10-2011 10:39 AM (13 years ago)
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Yesterday after dinner i said to him........"seems u are hidding something from me "
His eyes popped up and he said "what" ?
I said "you've not told me how many women u slept with before me "
"but u never asked "he said
 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

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- onyiis at 6-10-2011 10:40 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: KachiDFavour on  5-10-2011 09:05 AM
Quote from: Emmandazie on  4-10-2011 02:37 PM
Quote from: onyiis on  4-10-2011 02:33 PM
Quote from: Emmandazie on  4-10-2011 02:32 PM
I must comment. I will not only ask her but carry out the highest investigations I can afford! Me marry expired valve? No way!

What if u found out some funny things when u are alraedy married ?
I dry-clean her very well, then remarry again!

Na wa for u sef. U wen don break tens of ladies and still counting. After u don expire them by ur sef, now u wan new chayoo. na where u go find am?

ask am oooo Grin Grin

Posted: at 6-10-2011 10:40 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 6-10-2011 10:41 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: KachiDFavour on  5-10-2011 09:16 AM
Quote from: Greggiyke on  5-10-2011 08:50 AM
I don't think I would want to know, and even if she decides to tell me, it wouldn't change my perception of her.
What matters is who she is now and that she loves and respects what we have. Shikina.

I think you are right. But knowing your partners past gives you a complete aquintance to whom you will be spending your whole life with. Also, it strengthens you for any future gossip or secrets that may be revealed by third party.

sounds a good idea too  Grin Grin Grin

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- onyiis at 6-10-2011 10:42 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: kattie77 on  5-10-2011 09:48 AM
let sleeping dogs lie,there's no point telling him cos its my past,its d future dat matters

but there are some pasts that can encroche into the future !

Posted: at 6-10-2011 10:42 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 6-10-2011 10:43 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Idbabe on  5-10-2011 09:59 AM
Is not advisable to do so bcos some partners cant be trusted with truths

why be in a relationship wher u cant trust ur partner ?  Shocked Shocked Shocked

Posted: at 6-10-2011 10:43 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 6-10-2011 10:44 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Bazemaster on  5-10-2011 10:12 AM
i can't marry a used and dumped material. *Tufiakwa

heheheeeeeeeeeee !! but u can use and dump a material ?  Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked

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- onyiis at 6-10-2011 10:44 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: hotguy77 on  5-10-2011 10:02 AM
Let the past be left to die a natural death. Any attempt to reawaken it potents doom which may not be good to either partner, so , there are somethings that are better left unsaid

 Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed

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- onyiis at 6-10-2011 10:46 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Bantino on  5-10-2011 11:21 AM
Of-course if he knows you slept with so many men, his views about you will definitely change, the best thing is keep your mouth shut and enjoy your marriage unless you slept with less number of men, like three or four before him.

lolz  Grin Grin Grin

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- onyiis at 6-10-2011 10:48 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on  5-10-2011 11:21 AM
If we didnt marry ourselves as virgins, why bother knowing the number of people we have had before meeting them.........?

u are right , it may just intrest u to know wheather he/she is a virgin or not .............dont think the number matters  Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 6-10-2011 10:48 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 6-10-2011 10:49 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Bantino on  5-10-2011 11:24 AM
Quote from: gloxxy98 on  5-10-2011 10:24 AM
i told my fiance everything about my past and he did same too
but now u guys are married, you can still tell him, even if its not all some, it not a bad idea.

Not a good idea my dear, if there were many men before him, psychologically it will affect his views about you, he may pretend that all is well but someday somehow he will use it against you, so the best bet is, keep your mouth shut even in marriage.

heheheheheeeeeeee !!

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- onyiis at 6-10-2011 10:51 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on  5-10-2011 01:50 PM
for my view......is good to tell him about your past but not all..just few

heheheheeeeeeeeee !!! why would u want to half-bake the bread ?  Grin Grin Grin Grin
Once u descide to tell , its better u tell all  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 6-10-2011 10:51 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 6-10-2011 10:53 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ezesunny on  5-10-2011 03:08 PM
so far she have baby for me, i don,t care, if she want let her sleep 100 men not my biz,the hole never close it still there for me


lolz  Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 6-10-2011 10:53 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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