Marring A Female Banker In Nigeria!! (Page 5)

Wow. Umm..so what exactly is the question being posed?

Posted: at 13-10-2011 04:53 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Why narrow this question down to bankers only? The average market seller keeps longer hours than a banker. The saying that a woman's work is never done is true!

This is the typical day of every (good) married woman/wife!

@ 5 AM she has to rise and pray for her family.

@ 5:30 she has to bathe, dress and decide what to cook for dinner in the evening

@ 6 AM she has to prepare breakfast and lunch for her family. She also hangs clothes on the line to dry.

@ 7 AM she has to make sure the children are dressed and off to school

@ 7:15 she has to tidy up the house

@ 7:30 she is off to work

@ 8:00 she arrives at work and works almost constantly until 5-6 PM

@ 6:15 she is stuck in traffic for another hour

@ 7:15 she arrives at home and has to prepare and serve dinner

@ 8:00 she has to recheck the childrens homework, ask them about their day and prepare their bath

@ 8:30 she has to put the children in bed and ask her husband about his day at work while massaging away his stress

@ 8:45 she has to clean the kitchen and the house that her husband and children have left in a mess

@ 9:15 she has to wash and soak her families clothes and prepare families clothing for work and school

@ 10:00 she has to complete work she has not completed during the day and prepare the next day of work

@ 10:30 she has to bathe

@ 11:00 she tries to read her bible, talk to the Lord and listen for His voice

@ 11:45 she finally gets into bed

@ 12:15 she is finally able to stop thinking about all the things she forgot to do and falls asleep

@ 2:00 AM she pretends to be asleep as her husband is tugging on her like a goat in heat

@ 2:15 - 2:45 she has to make love to her husband with the strength and energy of a woman who has rested all day!
@ 2:45- 3:00 she cuddles with her husband and tells him about her day. However, his snoring interrupts her!

@ 3:00 she freshens up in the bathroom

@ 3:15 she gets back into bed and tries to settle her mind

@ 3:45 she finally falls asleep

@ 4:45 her alarm goes off and she does the same thing ALL OVER AGAIN!

Total amount of sleep: 2:45 minutes in a 24 hour period! 

So I think your question should be how does the wife (banker or not) put up with her husband and children when she has to work outside and inside the home!

The answer is found in Psalms 118:23

This is the LORD'S doing; it is marvelous in our eyes!   

Posted: at 13-10-2011 05:08 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

I thought I was alone when it comes to womanhood, wifehood and motherhood. we are indeed great. difference is that the banker wife brings in alot of money home but the civil servant nko. God will continue to help us.

Posted: at 13-10-2011 05:47 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

i want to marry you

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Posted: at 13-10-2011 06:36 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

4 this write up i change my status with immediate effect.........how cud i do all this just to make my family happy..........that means my husb need to roll on couch watch me do all this

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Posted: at 13-10-2011 07:08 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

 

Posted: at 13-10-2011 08:08 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

well the answer is quite obvious cos the job is demanding  as a female banker  she 'll need a nanny and a cook that surely take care of the domestic work,the only thing that she most be carefull of the nanny she picks,i mean if is beautiful might end up marrying a second  wife for  the  husband,lol...ok on a serious note we all know that most successful carieer woman has always had problem with their marriage so its not new..Those WITH ENOUGH courage remain unmarried after one bad turn,so they devote most of their time to their job cos u can't really eat ur cake and have it,there comes a time when they really have to make choice ur marriage or carrieer?

Posted: at 13-10-2011 09:10 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

which banker? 9ja women banker wey dey carry eye dey give u sign if u dey put money or dey withdraw from their bank..no not at all.i won't recommend that to my own peeps!!!

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Posted: at 13-10-2011 09:43 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

hehehe i know u know what i'm talking about....seriously i'm not kidding..onwere nke na enye mu nsogbu till today...o bu onye ndi ofe mma nnu..e chere mu  na o bu ife hit an go..ma na nwa choro ka o buru ife anytime mbiara ulo.

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Posted: at 13-10-2011 09:58 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

mh!

Posted: at 13-10-2011 10:22 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac