My Friend is Datign A Guy 20 Years Older (Page 2)

Date: 31-10-2011 8:52 am (13 years ago) | Author: miracle aduku
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- cutelizzy at 31-10-2011 03:22 PM (13 years ago)
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Leave them alone.do u knw wat is true luv?
Posted: at 31-10-2011 03:22 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sophiebaby at 31-10-2011 03:24 PM (13 years ago)
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 Huh?
Posted: at 31-10-2011 03:24 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- giftmurphy at 31-10-2011 03:42 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Emmandazie on 31-10-2011 02:46 PM
Quote from: giftmurphy on 31-10-2011 02:03 PM
Quote from: Emmandazie on 31-10-2011 01:48 PM
In any case, I do not see anything wrong between 20yrs age difference, cos she is already matured enough to withstand a man of any age!
i think m with this dude.
Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley
r u d dude? Roll Eyes
Posted: at 31-10-2011 03:42 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- MissyBarbie at 31-10-2011 03:45 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: enema17 on 31-10-2011 08:52 AM
hi well a friend of mine is dating a guy more than 20 years older than her. she says he makes her extremely happy and is more matured than any of the guys she's been with. am kind of happy for her but not really sure if its a good idea.
am the only one she's told about it because she's scared of what everyone would think esp. her parents. he's proposed to marry her now but she's not sure if she should accept. what should i tell her to do?

Age is just a number....all dat matters is Love and understanding
Posted: at 31-10-2011 03:45 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- giftmurphy at 31-10-2011 03:55 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: cutelizzy on 31-10-2011 03:22 PM
Leave them alone.do u knw wat is true luv?
Huh?
Posted: at 31-10-2011 03:55 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- MissyBarbie at 31-10-2011 03:59 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: cutelizzy on 31-10-2011 03:22 PM
Leave them alone.do u knw wat is true luv?

No idea....Enlighten me i beg
Posted: at 31-10-2011 03:59 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 31-10-2011 04:00 PM (13 years ago)
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 Grin
Posted: at 31-10-2011 04:00 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- MissyBarbie at 31-10-2011 04:04 PM (13 years ago)
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 Huh?
Posted: at 31-10-2011 04:04 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- giftmurphy at 31-10-2011 04:58 PM (13 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Grin Grin
Posted: at 31-10-2011 04:58 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Emmandazie at 31-10-2011 05:08 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: giftmurphy on 31-10-2011 03:42 PM
Quote from: Emmandazie on 31-10-2011 02:46 PM
Quote from: giftmurphy on 31-10-2011 02:03 PM
Quote from: Emmandazie on 31-10-2011 01:48 PM
In any case, I do not see anything wrong between 20yrs age difference, cos she is already matured enough to withstand a man of any age!
i think m with this dude.
Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley
r u d dude? Roll Eyes
Huh? Huh? Huh?
Posted: at 31-10-2011 05:08 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- giftmurphy at 31-10-2011 05:21 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Emmandazie on 31-10-2011 05:08 PM
Quote from: giftmurphy on 31-10-2011 03:42 PM
Quote from: Emmandazie on 31-10-2011 02:46 PM
Quote from: giftmurphy on 31-10-2011 02:03 PM
Quote from: Emmandazie on 31-10-2011 01:48 PM
In any case, I do not see anything wrong between 20yrs age difference, cos she is already matured enough to withstand a man of any age!
i think m with this dude.
Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley
r u d dude? Roll Eyes
Huh? Huh? Huh?
U understand i know.just answer. Cheesy
Posted: at 31-10-2011 05:21 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- proly at 31-10-2011 09:20 PM (13 years ago)
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well it depends if she realy luv d guy she shud accept,age is jst a no wat maters is hw much they luv each other
Posted: at 31-10-2011 09:20 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- smallboy10 at 31-10-2011 10:09 PM (13 years ago)
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that one no problem make she continue her dating
Posted: at 31-10-2011 10:09 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- lopez2424 at 31-10-2011 10:43 PM (13 years ago)
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 If  they seem to be happy together, it's probably ok
Posted: at 31-10-2011 10:43 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- kebella at 31-10-2011 10:46 PM (13 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Posted: at 31-10-2011 10:46 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- senator76 at 1-11-2011 01:12 AM (13 years ago)
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No be tomrrow now the man is weak in bed that is when she will know there is hot guys out side there then she will start bringing men to his husband house..if u really know u will not bring all this young guys 2morrow to ur husband house then go ahead and marry him if he gives u joy...
Posted: at 1-11-2011 01:12 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- toibeli at 1-11-2011 01:37 AM (13 years ago)
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The age difference is a bit much there, but if she loves him , and she is sure that
he loves her , I'll say tell her to give it a trial.
Posted: at 1-11-2011 01:37 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- GullahGeeche at 1-11-2011 01:59 AM (13 years ago)
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This kind of attraction usually happens with 20 and 40 year olds and 30 and 50 year olds.  If your friend is over 30 I would say go for it if it is the Lords will.  More than likely a 30 year old woman is MATURE thinking person and ready to settle down.

The success of the relationship depends on how MATURE they both are. Most often the older person has matured. They have experienced a lot and know what they want in life.  However, the younger woman who today is impressed with his maturity may tomorrow accuse him of being old fashioned. So, if your friend is mature and settled I would say she should go for it IF IT IS THE LORDS WILL. 

A word of caution:

If your friend still feels like she has some more partying she wants to do, I suggest she leave him alone.  She also needs to consider her segxwal appetite. Sex is a very important part of marriage. Women are pretty much good to go until our last day on earth. However, men may have some segxwal "challenges" in their older age. She should be a person who is in it for better or for worse.  When she is 40 she will still enjoy sex and will even want more of it. That is why men in their 20's and women in their 40's have a strong segxwal relationship. They are both at their segxwal peek. If she is 40 and he is 60 he may not be able to make love to her like he use to. If she can live with that she should pray and if God is o.k. to marry him. If God approves, she should go for it!
Posted: at 1-11-2011 01:59 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- enema17 at 1-11-2011 05:31 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: GullahGeeche on  1-11-2011 01:59 AM
This kind of attraction usually happens with 20 and 40 year olds and 30 and 50 year olds.  If your friend is over 30 I would say go for it if it is the Lords will.  More than likely a 30 year old woman is MATURE thinking person and ready to settle down.

The success of the relationship depends on how MATURE they both are. Most often the older person has matured. They have experienced a lot and know what they want in life.  However, the younger woman who today is impressed with his maturity may tomorrow accuse him of being old fashioned. So, if your friend is mature and settled I would say she should go for it IF IT IS THE LORDS WILL. 

A word of caution:

If your friend still feels like she has some more partying she wants to do, I suggest she leave him alone.  She also needs to consider her segxwal appetite. Sex is a very important part of marriage. Women are pretty much good to go until our last day on earth. However, men may have some segxwal "challenges" in their older age. She should be a person who is in it for better or for worse.  When she is 40 she will still enjoy sex and will even want more of it. That is why men in their 20's and women in their 40's have a strong segxwal relationship. They are both at their segxwal peek. If she is 40 and he is 60 he may not be able to make love to her like he use to. If she can live with that she should pray and if God is o.k. to marry him. If God approves, she should go for it!

i think you're right. i'll be praying for her. this is sure a big decision
Posted: at 1-11-2011 05:31 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- kebella at 1-11-2011 08:42 AM (13 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Posted: at 1-11-2011 08:42 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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