Seperating The Men From The Boiz

I read many writings on the Internet, from time to time, about what real men do or don't do. So I started to wonder and ponder about just who those real men are that so many authors are talking about.

Now some guy can write about what real women do or don't do but this one is for the ladies in the crowd here.



I know, as young women, we always think our parents are old fashioned, and if they are not willing to discuss relationships, the pitfalls of bad ones and good sex choices, well then they are old fashioned. Even in 2011, many young girls get their sex education from movies and TV shows, which of course, do not offer any discussions or even any moral guidance. Way too often, TV shows even encourage bad sex choices and relationships on reality shows that glorify those bad choices and glamorize them. Let's face it, TV is out to make money, any way they can, so TV is not interested in how our daughter's view good or bad choices. Guidance is not old fashioned because times may change, but human nature usually Does not.
So who are the real men and is there any way we can recognize them and identify them when so many boys disguised in bodies of grown men, are out there? Maybe we can take a look at just what makes a man a man.

1) Boys tend to play house, men build homes. This is quite true. Boys want to play at relationships, often skipping from woman to woman to see what they can score or to simply toy with a woman's affections, not really intending to grow up emotionally anytime too soon. They may want to live with a woman, but never really commit very well to the idea of one man, one woman so they end up playing house, not really giving the relationship their full attention, hoping it will all fall into place with little or no effort on their part. Boys tend to simply shack up. Real men get married.These guys aren't too difficult to spot, if you pay attention, that is.
2) Boys make babies, men raise children. A boy refuses to raise his own children. A real man will raise his own and often will help raise another person's children too, this happens when a man may have not had a real woman in the first marriage, or they didn't work out so he marries again. Marrying a woman, who has children already, doesn't phase a real man, he just loves the woman enough to help raise her kids too.
3) Boys will often invent excuses for their failures. Real men are always thinking up strategies for success, being too busy to dwell on and invent excuses for what happened or what went wrong.
4) Boys look for someone to take care of them, while real men look for someone to take care of. I often think of this one when I think of a woman I know who ran up her credit card to take care of her guy. He never seemed to hold a job, or never seemed to have any money for gas or other things in life. Too many boys in men suits use women.
5) Boys tend to seek popularity, whether they deserve it or not. Real men demand respect and know how to give respect back.

NOTE: The only way we can change anyone is if they are wearing diapers.  

who are the real men and is there any way we can recognize them and identify them when so many boys disguised in bodies of grown men, are out there?  

Keep the Comment Comming..

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Posted: at 24-11-2011 09:13 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

 

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Posted: at 24-11-2011 09:27 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

All what you have said is the truth. But do you think any of these features about our young boys can be changed? if yes, spell it out. This is an enlightened post for the first time in a long time.

Posted: at 24-11-2011 12:24 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

like i said ...the only way u can change anyone is if they are wearing diapers

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Posted: at 24-11-2011 12:45 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

True, sweetie!

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Posted: at 24-11-2011 12:52 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

 

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Posted: at 24-11-2011 12:53 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

sweet poster,this is sense...

Posted: at 24-11-2011 01:24 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

  That supposed to be a joke, right?   
Because most of the boys never grow up,and I really mean NEVER! 

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Posted: at 24-11-2011 01:30 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

No one remain a kid ? isnt it ?? One must grow up whether he likes it or not.


if i may ask? does it mean girls dont grow and get matured to become woman, then start knowing their responsibilities? times for makeups, parties and so on are over...

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Posted: at 24-11-2011 01:35 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

some boiz nvr grow never grow up..so do some gurls too

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Posted: at 24-11-2011 01:41 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero