INFIDELITY (Page 2)

i agree with u dguy....but.....if u want to tie the knot,make sure its tied down to one partner....it goes to both men and women.....

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Posted: at 25-02-2008 10:07 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

don't tell me u guys don't want to settle down in life.....

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Posted: at 25-02-2008 11:40 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

well, its better not to cheat on your husband or wife because everyone is not the same, once you are caught...that is the end.
I almost forgot to talk os STDs....Doctor Nigerian vixen help.....




Simplicity Nurtured by Humility

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Posted: at 26-02-2008 12:36 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Wow dguy..the chic that marries you is definitely getting a free ride in a fancy caroo..she gon be comitting sins back and forth all because she knows you ain't going no where and will still remain with her for the sake of the marriage....damn!...WILL U MARRY ME?...

Posted: at 26-02-2008 07:29 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Life goes on....but My message remains....Be faithful to one another.....husband and wife.....
I dont support divorce....no matter what....
that is why it is good to seek God's face before jumping into marraige with a guy/girl because he/she told you you are the only apple in his/her eyes......or the only chocolate of his/her heart..
STDs are only what follow unfaithful patners.....



Simplicity Nurtured by Humility.

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Posted: at 26-02-2008 06:41 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

In My culture it is worst than jinx....



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Posted: at 26-02-2008 06:54 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Ask him Myra, I don't think he knows whats going on with the outside worlds.....

@Dguy..for your info..ppl that gets divorced did *marry*..is just that everyone is not like you and does not accept being treated any how...so what about ppl that married for 10 or even 15 years and then get divorced?..so you saying they never married?...there might be a reason keeping that marriage for so long..maybe they're trying to stay together for a reason..maybe the child or what ppl may say, and finally decided that it aint' worth it anymore..Marriage and relationships can end at any time...its just that with marriage..

TO EVERYCHIC OUT THERE!!..THIS IS FOR YOU...

Don't listen to that crap bout *till death do us part* nonsense..If your husband cheats on you once...Its time you leave the relationship/marriage..Aint no man alive worth you risking your life and dying..If he did it once..he will do it again, especially if you forgave him the first time..Don't ever listen to someone that says *you take whatever comes your way*..its your life and not theirs...How would you then feel finding out that you've contracted some STD's through your husband?..the one vowed to love you...cherish and honor you..this is wrong...

Posted: at 26-02-2008 10:00 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

well - jayz and beyounce never got married - beware of rumours -

http://www.vibe.com/news/news_headlines/2006/07/jay_z_and_beyonce_didnt_get_married/

If you cant forgive a woman/man - you call you husband - then you have just got together for lust of each other - theres what love means - its irrelative of personality or wealth - people that get divorced are just example of people who stayed together for lust of one another - and really had failed marriages.

If you marry someone you love you are above a level of go your way i go my way.... and besides - divorce is just like failing a test of love.

When you know you have "irreconcilable difference" with your patner why marry?

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Posted: at 27-02-2008 02:14 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Exactly Orilanda..and infidelity is one of them..

I don't give a damn how much I love my husband, if he loves me he would never try me like that in the first place..I guess he loves so much that he's willing to risk my life right?..even though its the first time he may have done it..who knows what type of disease he's gonna be bringing home to me?..are you freaking kidding me?...if thats what marriage is all about....accepting your partners infidelity just cause you're married..then i guess i'll never get married then cause if i truly love and faithful to him and he can't do the same, obviously..HE DOES NOT LOVE ME!!...why remain in a marriage like that..?

irreconcilable difference...is totally different from infidelity dguy..it could be anything in the marriage that caused that..not necessarily cheating...and yes you can forgive your husband for doing somethings, but not everything is forgiveable like orilanda said..infact anything that risks my life is not forgiveable, and besides leaving the marriage will most likely save my life from those nasty diseases too..nah..doctor V don't play that there..

Posted: at 27-02-2008 05:31 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

remember Matthew 6 vs 12 which says "Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us"




Simplicity Nutured by Humility.

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Posted: at 27-02-2008 02:34 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac