INFIDELITY

What will you do if you meet your spouse making love to another person? Will you beat him/her?Divorce him/her or forgive him/her

Posted: at 23-02-2008 08:53 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie

It'll be over with instantly...My health comes first and you don't know what he's bringing home to you by doing that, so why take the chance to die with him?..my life is perfect ooo.... ..

Posted: at 23-02-2008 10:33 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Hi grease....good to see you again today

You have a perfect life too abi?

Posted: at 23-02-2008 10:43 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

never can tell.depends on how much i love him,who he did it with,why he did it,where they did it............brb

Posted: at 23-02-2008 07:30 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

it is worth taking all these into consideration before anything else...
I wont go for a divorce though I will be in a shock but will get over it with time.I might take any action but definitely I will mend things later but ensure it will NEVER happen again...My wife remains My wife...



Simplicity Nurtured by Humility.

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Posted: at 24-02-2008 12:11 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I honestly don't think i can remain with a guy that cheated on me..just the thought of him doing it with someone else will just kill me..and most likely the relationship won't work cause i'm always gon throw that up in his face everytime we have some kinda argument or something..and I know he aint't gonna like that, so i'd rather just leave than remain and pretend that everything is o.k when in fact it isn't...

Posted: at 24-02-2008 03:30 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

at least you can forgive him/her just like God forgives us when we sin against Him.but that shouldnt warrant any one to be unfaithful.


Simplicity Nurtured by Humility

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Posted: at 24-02-2008 06:58 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I know it hurts but what if you leave him and the next one does the same thing again and again



Simplicity Nurtured by Humility

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Posted: at 24-02-2008 08:35 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Come again? @dguy..u making it sound as if marriage is accepting every bull that comes your way and forgiving it..aint' much difference between a relationship and marriage but the ring oh..even i get the ring during a relationship also, but that doesn't mean you can't walk out if you feel betrayed by your so called husband/wife..You may accept everything that comes your way, but not me..not even if i'm married..and also with the high cases of HIV n Aids..I don't wanna die just cause of someone else's carelessness, and if you continue on with the marrriage, there's a chance that they might do it again...I'm sorry but I can't stay..marriage or not.

Posted: at 25-02-2008 06:38 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

  i see....

thats why its not good to jump into a marriage.

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Posted: at 25-02-2008 06:34 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac