Ask him out: It amazes me how many women still think it’s taboo to ask a man out. If you ask him out with confidence—like there isn’t a doubt in your mind that he will say yes—then asking him out doesn’t make you look desperate. It makes you look like a woman who is so confident in herself that she knows what she is worthy of, and is comfortable asking for it.
Ask to spend the night with him: Don’t allow yourself to be the pursued, waiting for him to play all of the games he feels he needs to play to finally get you into bed, like saying it’s more comfortable sitting on his bed than on the couch, or asking to sleep over because he drank too much to drive home. Stop these silly games in their tracks and just say this “I want to spend the night with you. How do you feel about that?” I bet you he will feel great about it.
Take the lead in bed: Change positions when you feel like it. Don’t ask him “does that feel good”; ask yourself “does this feel good” and re-arrange the two of your accordingly. If you act like the aggressor, he will become a little bit intimidated, but in a good way, and suddenly all he will be thinking about is satisfying you. You need to make it seem that all that is on your mind is your satisfaction, and then that’s all that will be on his mind.
Announce your desires: If you and a man have hooked up a few times, you’re out in a group and that awkward moment has arrived when everyone is saying goodbye, everyone knows you and this particular guy have a thing, and you’re just trying to find a sly way to go home with him, don’t try to be sly at all. Just grab him by the arm and say to everyone else “goodnight guys. This one’s coming with me.” He will find that so attractive.
Say what you’re thinking about him: Tell him he looks hot. Text him saying you don’t want to sleep alone tonight. Tell him you can’t wait for dinner to be over so you can go home and ravage him. These aren’t thoughts to be ashamed of. They are thoughts to share.
RELATIONSHIP & ROMANCE FORUM; MINISTER FOR WOMEN AFFAIRS WELCOMES YOU
Posted: at 12-12-2011 06:10 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
sarah555 at 14-12-2011 12:10 AM (13 years ago) (f)
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Posted: at 14-12-2011 12:10 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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