Women Vs Men (Page 5)

Personally, i do not believe anyone is superior than the other. All that matters is understanding, respect and LOVE. From the viewpoint of the male, there are certain things that are expected of him regardless of whether these were suggested or hinted at.Women still appreciate their partners opening the door for them, pulling up their chair, carrying their stuff, and even driving them to wherever it is they have to go once in a while. On the other hand, men appreciate women who are well-poised and carry themselves well. This is not to say that you have to live like someone from Aso rock or behave like you've got heaven and earth. But, a well-bred woman is someone a typical man wants to bring home to meet his parents.Someone who's respectful and down to earth.In social norms, there are gender roles that have pervaded relationships since Adam and Eve came into being. Such norms include the belief or practice that it's a man's responsibility to provide for his family and that a woman should stay home to take care of the children. Then there are the lesser expectations (but nonetheless equally important) beliefs or practices such as men paying for dinner dates (i.e. meals whenever the couple dines out) or women waiting for the guy to ask them out. Heaven forbid a girl should ask a guy out! What will people think?! These and other things like it run through the minds of men and women in a relationship. Two individuals who are happy about themselves and are fully capable of nurturing a happy and healthy relationship with their partners will find out that, in the final reckoning of things, they dictate what will make them happy.What matters more is how each partner is happy with the relationship and with their own personal growth. No matter how much society scoffs at people who dare to be different; society is still basically a bystander. It will not be society that will suffer the consequences should a relationship go downhill because of unmet societal expectations. Yes, there are male and female roles in every relationship. The choice of particular roles, however, remains the choice of each partner.Roles in the relationship have a purpose. They give each partner a specific responsibility and thus help prevent significant disagreements in the future.The point is simple. Whatever roles you and your partner are willing to take in your relationship, you should clearly express, openly discuss and resolutely agree on them. Otherwise, arguments and relationship breakdown will be inevitable.

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Posted: at 9-03-2012 02:42 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Thank u my dear but also tell her dat God instructed woman to be submissive to her husband and obey her husband..............but when he look at man, He knew dat man is ''superlative'' and said to him,,,,,,,,, love thy wife.

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Posted: at 9-03-2012 07:00 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

@ILOVEIT, The word stupid came bc of what is happening now in many places, will inbox you later.

Posted: at 9-03-2012 08:21 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

Sometimes it seems more dangerous to empower the woman above your level after you have married her.  Some women take it as a pay back time to their husbands, others take it as a right and privilege to rule over the man especially when they are allowed to assumed some key positions of authority in the society while their husbands are not.   Ekaette Henry, who had not even a primary school education in her father’s house, has now acquired from primary education up to the tertiary level all sponsored by her husband.   After her graduation she got an appointment with the Ministry of Education and served as a teacher in one of the government school in the town.  This marked the beginning of their marriage turmoil, she could no longer respect the husband or do service to him.  The husband due to his health condition could not eat just any food apart from prescribed ones from his doctor and as such could not eat outside.  She staved him for days without preparing his meal all because of her new executive appointment, she claimed to be so occupied with her work.  Little did he know that she’s keeping other men out there and fearlessly invited one of them to her marital home.  When the husband got to know about it they picked up quarrel which resulted in her divorce.  The husband threw her and her belonging out.  Of course it was a moment longing for, so she happily walked away and continued playing the sugar mummy.  It was not long the husband died; she cerebrated and remarried imagine that!  What has the man done wrong, was he by training her to university level or by allowing her to work and taste the power of money wrong? 

Posted: at 9-03-2012 08:42 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

of cos men are more superior am nt arguin it...... God as designed them to be the head.......... women too are superior

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Posted: at 9-03-2012 09:09 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

 

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Posted: at 9-03-2012 09:48 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

and wh tell u sey dem no dey pay dowry?     

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Posted: at 9-03-2012 09:52 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Hmmm, if you pay your dowry na how you go take dey talk for the house na?  

Posted: at 9-03-2012 09:55 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

why na  na question i ask oo abeg.. 

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Posted: at 9-03-2012 09:58 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

  na from Evolutional experience i dey talk from  men superior some how sha 

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Posted: at 9-03-2012 10:06 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero