A huge debate has arisen because of the cries of women that their husbands should be with them when they go into labour and all through the delivery process. Some doctors say this is not a good idea as most of these women vent out all their pains and frustrations on the men. Some insult the men so much and others even inflict injuries on them.There was a case where a woman even went to the extent of biting off one of the fingers of her husband all in the name of labour pain.
What do u think? Should men be allowed into the delivery room?
Posted: at 5-02-2009 02:28 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
i think men should be around when their wives experience labour and during the delivery. It makes them respect their wives and handle them with care. it also gives them a picture of what their mothers , and women in general experience giving birth to children
Posted: at 5-02-2009 11:02 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
Though, it is a good idea. Also it shd be base on personal decision. Some men had been reported fainted bcos they were there with there wives during labour looking at what there dearest wives undergo. So, in such a case, and to prevent more casualties, individual opinion shd be respected, wether to be with her or not
Posted: at 6-02-2009 10:52 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
Women that bite their spouse during labour hav psycological problem,it is not the husband fault that the wife will hav to go thru.pains to bring forth a child.
The pain must surely come so while go crazy,women shld make up their mind to face that.
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Posted: at 6-02-2009 01:07 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
but u thing he will still respect her like her as before and see her as perfect after he will remember how she was screaming bleeding and all that? unfortunately i don t think so,,,,he should be somewhere in the hospital and when she is ready..cleaned arranged a bit she and the baby can receive the dad...
Posted: at 7-02-2009 10:26 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
kissflamess at 7-02-2009 12:57 PM (16 years ago) (m)
I AS MEDICAL STUDENT...I THINK MEN SHOULD BE WITH THIER WIVES through all the delivery process.....cos with dat men will see the pain and sufferin the woman passed through....and with dat , the men will try by all means to respect thier wives...i.e wen his wife wants to beat or other stuff...the man wont say leave him/her just like dat...(cos we no dat children do disobey very well)...
IN westen word(europe) the man must go with his wife to the labour room..dats for sure..
conclusion...MEN SURPOSE TO BE WITH THIER WIVES TRU ALL THE DELIVERY PROCESS
Posted: at 7-02-2009 12:57 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
maffrodisiac at 11-02-2009 02:18 PM (16 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Resi on 6-02-2009 01:07 PM
Women that bite their spouse during labour hav psycological problem,it is not the husband fault that the wife will hav to go thru.pains to bring forth a child.
The pain must surely come so while go crazy,women shld make up their mind to face that.
Exactly.
Posted: at 11-02-2009 02:18 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
Recoverd at 16-02-2009 04:57 PM (16 years ago) (f)
ALMOST EVRY DAY U DO D WMAN KEREWA N U BOTH NJOY IT, Y WONT U B DER 2RIP D FRUIT OF UR LABOR?? MY HUBBY WILL B IN DAT ROOM 2HELP BRING OUR CHILD IN2 DIS WORLD HO HA! He knows already.
Posted: at 16-02-2009 04:57 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
dinho4lyf at 20-02-2009 07:05 PM (16 years ago) (m)
Quote from: kissflamess on 7-02-2009 12:57 PM
I AS MEDICAL STUDENT...I THINK MEN SHOULD BE WITH THIER WIVES through all the delivery process.....cos with dat men will see the pain and sufferin the woman passed through....and with dat , the men will try by all means to respect thier wives...i.e wen his wife wants to beat or other stuff...the man wont say leave him/her just like dat...(cos we no dat children do disobey very well)...
IN westen word(europe) the man must go with his wife to the labour room..dats for sure..
conclusion...MEN SURPOSE TO BE WITH THIER WIVES TRU ALL THE DELIVERY PROCESS wetin 60cent lkike u dey do for labor room???
Posted: at 20-02-2009 07:05 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Why do u ladies always use every slight opportunity to commit us to tasks that are not ours.Women are the ones delivering not men.Women enjoy and respond to sex more than men do.So why make us feel that we are enslaving you.If i want to accompany my wife to the labour room it should be out of love and concern not out of guilt.STOP ACCUSING US OF NEGLIGENCE.
Posted: at 25-03-2009 03:26 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
ALMOST EVRY DAY U DO D WMAN KEREWA N U BOTH NJOY IT, Y WONT U B DER 2RIP D FRUIT OF UR LABOR?? MY HUBBY WILL B IN DAT ROOM 2HELP BRING OUR CHILD IN2 DIS WORLD HO HA! He knows already.
;Dso dats wat u get up 2 eh u no dey tire?good 4 u hanywayz i feel if a woman wants a man 2 be wid her in d labour room he should i mean it;s equal rights here 9months no be small ting u both produced it 2gether sperm and egg abi so wats wrong wid him being there while she delivers there child a beautiful creation brought down from god.
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Posted: at 7-04-2009 04:18 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
Beautydiva at 8-04-2009 11:04 AM (16 years ago) (f)
It's a good idea 4 men to be in the delivery room with their wives becos they will be able 2 share in the pain n joy of bringing a child 2 d world. Infact it's a rare and unique opportunity 4 men to witness d process of a woman bringing forth a child 2 d world. D memories will never fade,it will always be fresh in his mind. D man will be able 2 understand all wot a woman goes through in labour thereby valuing her d more. But some men can be squeamish and wont be able 2 withstand d sight of blood n pain. In UK, its optional. If u want 2 witness u then u r free 2 take pics or video it. If not then its ur choice.
Posted: at 8-04-2009 11:04 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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