love

Date: 06-02-2009 3:34 am (16 years ago) | Author: bimbo smith
- at 6-02-2009 03:34 AM (16 years ago)
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 Was with this guy for close to 3 yrs but then we broke up.Am with someone else now and he is a really lovely person,but the thing is i love the other guy nd cant seem to get over him.For every time i try to give my self reasons y we sldnt b together and how am better off, i still come to the same conclusion am in love with him.What makes it worse is that he feels the same way, we cant seem to get over each other  nd the fact that we r apart hurts. Most times i find my self thinking bout him nd missing him and then i cry.
 For some reason we cant  get back together cps of issues of the past.Am ready to put the past behind me but but he cant i don't know y.  I don't know if am to call him selfish or is he just being human.I honestly dont know what to do.is it that when you love some one u never really get over the persn,s it love or time that heals. i honestly try to b happy but deep down am not.i need advise on what to do and even if he wants to get back wd me what do i tell the other guy.
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if u are a bullshitter pls dont leave any comment, i need comments from ppl who feel me and are sensible and know what this feels like so if you aren't any of this get of my page.sensible suggestions are welcome thank you

Posted: at 6-02-2009 03:34 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie
- daysolar at 6-02-2009 03:55 AM (16 years ago)
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...mmm...
... when it comes to love... the past is by-gone... love is ready to start afresh... it's ready to forgive n forget
U seem to love this guy so much, but u av to let him go... Start sumtin new with ur new guy, learn from ur past mistakes
If this guy truely loves u, then he won't even use the past as an excuse... rather he will be willing to open a new leaf with u.
Please, do not get too intimate with him... if he can't let go of the past then he doesn't love u...
Also, he might think (i don't know for sure o) that if u leave this guy for him, u might leave him for another guy u probably loved in the past.
let by-gone be by-gone.................
Posted: at 6-02-2009 03:55 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Qris at 6-02-2009 05:51 AM (16 years ago)
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If this guy truly loves u he'll let d past stay where it belongs & continue d relationship wit u but on d other hand u didn't say wat happened...maybe d guy truly loves u but each time he looks @ u he can't help but think about d past & its eating him up inside.
Sometimes d best tin 4 us to do is d hardest tin.....tink back to wat happened.Do u tink he will ever get over it?If not i suggest u hit d road.Goodluck
Posted: at 6-02-2009 05:51 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- SAmyrocko at 6-02-2009 08:43 AM (16 years ago)
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Hey @ poster, i have been in ur shoes some time ago. I know it hurts very much remembering the past and moreover u two too still loves each,but i guess he can't let go of the past experiences with you. for that he can't come back with.
This ur state now should't be the end of the love.... love is just a feeling of action, it comes and goes. I'll suggest to you to leave other guy, i knw at times is easy to amend and continue with ur former love than starting a new one. Stick with your new guy and try as possible as u can to forget ur ex.
Cheers Cheesy

Posted: at 6-02-2009 08:43 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sa-fire at 6-02-2009 09:18 AM (16 years ago)
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u r a girl?
brb..

Posted: at 6-02-2009 09:18 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- SAmyrocko at 6-02-2009 09:19 AM (16 years ago)
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huh!!!

Posted: at 6-02-2009 09:19 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sa-fire at 6-02-2009 09:21 AM (16 years ago)
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its obvious dat d profile owner is a male..
lol..look at dat blue sign!

Posted: at 6-02-2009 09:21 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Pires07 at 6-02-2009 09:25 AM (16 years ago)
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lol, sa-fire
nice observation
hahahaha

Posted: at 6-02-2009 09:25 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- SAmyrocko at 6-02-2009 12:08 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: sa-fire on  6-02-2009 09:21 AM
its obvious dat d profile owner is a male..
lol..look at dat blue sign!

so, what the hell is he writing this topic for.
is he a gay or something?? Angry Angry

Posted: at 6-02-2009 12:08 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bilol at 6-02-2009 12:49 PM (16 years ago)
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na different kind of things person dey c for naijapals oooooo
Posted: at 6-02-2009 12:49 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Pires07 at 6-02-2009 12:50 PM (16 years ago)
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lol, dats why is a community as kennee talk am

Posted: at 6-02-2009 12:50 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- SAmyrocko at 6-02-2009 12:53 PM (16 years ago)
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yes.

Posted: at 6-02-2009 12:53 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bilol at 6-02-2009 12:54 PM (16 years ago)
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this community ehn na different kind of things person dey c
Posted: at 6-02-2009 12:54 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Pires07 at 6-02-2009 12:56 PM (16 years ago)
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xpect the unexpected

Posted: at 6-02-2009 12:56 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- SAmyrocko at 6-02-2009 12:56 PM (16 years ago)
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u most see the gud and bad.

Posted: at 6-02-2009 12:56 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bilol at 6-02-2009 01:01 PM (16 years ago)
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infact d funny sef dey dere.
Posted: at 6-02-2009 01:01 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- SAmyrocko at 6-02-2009 01:02 PM (16 years ago)
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wetin?

Posted: at 6-02-2009 01:02 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- princesser2love at 6-02-2009 01:08 PM (16 years ago)
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i think u ar bullwriter becouse this is naijapal and you dnt hav any right to question wat anyone want to write , more or less i think wat u guys are in is absolute lust, you knw you cant leav him he cant leave you so wat de point, hav u ever heard of forbiding fruit? please let him be move on and let him do the same, althought is hard but you hav to try.
Posted: at 6-02-2009 01:08 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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