How To Behave When Arguing With Your Partner (Page 2)

ARGUMENT NO GOOD

Posted: at 12-03-2012 04:33 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

some guys r so proud dat dey wudnt wanna say sorry,if they r wrong,instead they turn d matter nd make d girl see dat d fault is theirs.. but no big deal to say sorry,if its my fault...

Posted: at 12-03-2012 04:45 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

pride isnt a good attribute..

Posted: at 12-03-2012 05:07 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

ok

Posted: at 12-03-2012 07:09 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

 

Posted: at 12-03-2012 08:19 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

 

Posted: at 12-03-2012 10:00 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

 

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Posted: at 12-03-2012 10:03 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

@50scent...Nice one bro....These are basically the 4 principles of having a wonderful and lasting relationship...

To all those who think that these points don't work for all relationship, well, I would jst say that these are PRINCIPLES, principles dont change, method of executing it is what changes. They work for all, the only reason these points would work or not work is in the way u use them...

How do u stay determined?.....what are ur drives?.....How often do u refill ur motivation?....Why do u want to stay in the relationship?, LOVE i guess, if its genuine and ur 'WHYs' ie 'LOVE' etc are strong enough, ur HOW to make it the best will show up.....

How do u listen to ur partner?....Do u really listen?, well smtimes u dont evn know u r nt listening, u can imagine *sm1 saying i dnt understand my gf/br anymore cos she/he doesnt listen to me* ....lol, What do u do when u want to understand smthing??...U LISTEN not SPEAK, so if u want to understand ur partner shut up and listen....dnt mean shut up in a rude way..

Do u really put urself in ur partners shoes??...bet many guys won't do tht most of the time cos their shoes are pretty high...lol, high heels...or small size shoes that won't fit...anyway....the truth is, relationship will be fantastic when u always think what u would do if were the one in that situation, take all factors into consideration..like sex, physical power, ego,  pocket..lol, environment...be honest with ur judgement.

ADMIT UR WRONGS!!!...I know this is by far the most difficult and misunderstood point.....Admit ur wrong when u r wrong nt whn u r nt wrong....the irony of this is that many of us dont even knw when we are wrong. Ego has a lot to play here, guys in general are guilty of this, though i knw some ladies are evn more rigid n egocentric but the benefits of acknowledging ones wrong out-weighs the dangers of not admitting ones wrong...

Guess this comment is even longer than the discussion itself, i dont like reading long comments too anywys...lol,

TY.

Posted: at 12-03-2012 11:12 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie

Oh...I used to be good at this...argument? I will entertain you. But hey, I've changed. The main thing is respect. Respect. Respect. If you treat him like your sweet brother, you'll become a helping matter.

Posted: at 13-03-2012 12:36 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

not bad 50.. noted.

Posted: at 13-03-2012 05:42 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac