How To Behave When Arguing With Your Partner (Page 3)

Arguably almost all the ladies are guilty of all these points: They talk anyhow not minding whether the talk may end up breaking the relationship or not; they would never listen to you, rather they will want you to listen to them; They will never try to understand your point of view, therefore, they feel for themselves and will never put themselves in your shoe; and above all, They believe that they are always right (that is arrogant I think), and therefore, they will never apologise even when they are wrong!

So what u gonna do if he refuse to admit

Just 4  Peace...My Dear

MARRIAGE IS FULL OF UPS AND DOWNS, BUT THE WORST OF IT ALL IS MARRYING A NAGGING AND UNRESPONSIBLE WIFE/HUSBAND, LACK OF RESPECT DO RUIN MARRIAGES FASTER AS U MAY NOT IMAGINED,
MANY WOMEN  WILL NEVER ACCEPT THEIR FAULTS THERE BY MAKING THIER LIVES AND MARRIAGES  TOO DIFFICULT

@50scent...Nice one bro....These are basically the 4 principles of having a wonderful and lasting relationship...

To all those who think that these points don't work for all relationship, well, I would jst say that these are PRINCIPLES, principles dont change, method of executing it is what changes. They work for all, the only reason these points would work or not work is in the way u use them...
How do u stay determined?.....what are ur drives?.....How often do u refill ur motivation?....Why do u want to stay in the relationship?, LOVE i guess, if its genuine and ur 'WHYs' ie 'LOVE' etc are strong enough, ur HOW to make it the best will show up.....

How do u listen to ur partner?....Do u really listen?, well smtimes u dont evn know u r nt listening, u can imagine *sm1 saying i dnt understand my gf/br anymore cos she/he doesnt listen to me* ....lol, What do u do when u want to understand smthing??...U LISTEN not SPEAK, so if u want to understand ur partner shut up and listen....dnt mean shut up in a rude way..

Do u really put urself in ur partners shoes??...bet many guys won't do tht most of the time cos their shoes are pretty high...lol, high heels...or small size shoes that won't fit...anyway....the truth is, relationship will be fantastic when u always think what u would do if were the one in that situation, take all factors into consideration..like sex, physical power, ego,  pocket..lol, environment...be honest with ur judgement.

ADMIT UR WRONGS!!!...I know this is by far the most difficult and misunderstood point.....Admit ur wrong when u r wrong nt whn u r nt wrong....the irony of this is that many of us dont even knw when we are wrong. Ego has a lot to play here, guys in general are guilty of this, though i knw some ladies are evn more rigid n egocentric but the benefits of acknowledging ones wrong out-weighs the dangers of not admitting ones wrong...

Guess this comment is even longer than the discussion itself, i dont like reading long comments too anywys...lol,

TY.