I meet this guy barely a week + now and he is already talking abt getting me an engagement ring.........Am justing wondering what could be his reason for wanting to so? And if you were in my shoes will u accept such an offer?
1daful Is a Blessed Child..
Posted: at 15-03-2012 02:37 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
jossy4reall at 15-03-2012 06:19 AM (12 years ago) (m)
1st of all stop crying....i knw hw u feel Now to ur question.....................try to find out if he has been making inquiries abt u b4 comin in contact wit u....sometimez it happens like dat............another thing.......ask him what qualities did he like to see in a woman whom he will like to be his (u knw wat I mean)....................may be u possessed some of the qualities he expected so he don't want to waste time...................1 more thing.....what do u do for a living?? if u are workin then it culd be dat he is looking for a workin class lady and u fall into d category..................Finally wat is his age??...............he may think dat he is running out time as in age and incidentally he met u and and decided to search no more..............................if u dont find ansar 4rm wat I just mentioned den come 2 my office 4 private assay....
Love or Hate me its ur Biz, I have more important things to think abt since u never gonna change me
Posted: at 15-03-2012 06:19 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
open_reality at 15-03-2012 09:39 AM (12 years ago) (f)
In just one week? what does he know about u and what do u know about him? How did he come to the such conclusion in a week? Something is definitely fishy babe. Tell him to hang on while you guys continue dating for a while. There is no need to be in a rush if all is gold. I smell a rat in the guy's proposal.
KINDLY IGNORE ANY TYPING ERROR, IT'S CALLED SLIP OF FINGER. R.I.P HATERS.
Posted: at 15-03-2012 09:39 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
open_reality at 15-03-2012 09:41 AM (12 years ago) (f)
In just one week? what does he know about u and what do u know about him? How did he come to such conclusion in a week? Something is definitely fishy babe. Tell him to hang on while you guys continue dating for a while. There is no need to be in a rush if all is gold. I smell a rat in the guy's proposal.
KINDLY IGNORE ANY TYPING ERROR, IT'S CALLED SLIP OF FINGER. R.I.P HATERS.
Posted: at 15-03-2012 09:41 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
FlyMamacita at 15-03-2012 09:48 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: jossy4reall on 15-03-2012 06:19 AM
1st of all stop crying....i knw hw u feel Now to ur question.....................try to find out if he has been making inquiries abt u b4 comin in contact wit u....sometimez it happens like dat............another thing.......ask him what qualities did he like to see in a woman whom he will like to be his (u knw wat I mean)....................may be u possessed some of the qualities he expected so he don't want to waste time...................1 more thing.....what do u do for a living?? if u are workin then it culd be dat he is looking for a workin class lady and u fall into d category..................Finally wat is his age??...............he may think dat he is running out time as in age and incidentally he met u and and decided to search no more..............................if u dont find ansar 4rm wat I just mentioned den come 2 my office 4 private assay....
Nice one
Posted: at 15-03-2012 09:48 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
FlyMamacita at 15-03-2012 09:50 AM (12 years ago) (f)
1 week is not enuf for me to decide on marriage...u dont even knw d guy to dat level. Find out wht he wants frm u nd why d quick proposal, is he proposin oda ladies as well Do som background check up so u will knw who ur dealin with
Posted: at 15-03-2012 09:50 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
In just one week? what does he know about u and what do u know about him? How did he come to such conclusion in a week? Something is definitely fishy babe. Tell him to hang on while you guys continue dating for a while. There is no need to be in a rush if all is gold. I smell a rat in the guy's proposal.
U ryt..
Posted: at 15-03-2012 09:51 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
1st of all stop crying....i knw hw u feel Now to ur question.....................try to find out if he has been making inquiries abt u b4 comin in contact wit u....sometimez it happens like dat............another thing.......ask him what qualities did he like to see in a woman whom he will like to be his (u knw wat I mean)....................may be u possessed some of the qualities he expected so he don't want to waste time...................1 more thing.....what do u do for a living?? if u are workin then it culd be dat he is looking for a workin class lady and u fall into d category..................Finally wat is his age??...............he may think dat he is running out time as in age and incidentally he met u and and decided to search no more..............................if u dont find ansar 4rm wat I just mentioned den come 2 my office 4 private assay....
Posted: at 15-03-2012 09:53 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
lovecommander at 15-03-2012 10:11 AM (12 years ago) (m)
THERE IS NO BIG DEAL HERE. I PROPOSED TO MY LADY ABOUT A WEEK AFTER SAYING HI TO HER. IT'S EASIER TO MAKE THE NECCESSARY BACKGROUD CHECK ON YOUR TARGET LIFE PARTNER. YOU HAVE A CLEAR HEADED DECISION THAT MESSING AROUND WITH EACH OTHER WITH EMOTIONS THAT WILL CLOUD YOUR JUDGEMENT LATER ON. I EXPECT YOU TO DO THE BACKGROUND CHECK OH HIM AS WELL. IT MAKES BETTER SENCE THAN HOPING TO KNOW HIM THROUGH DATING THAT RARELY WORK.
Posted: at 15-03-2012 10:11 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
FlyMamacita at 15-03-2012 10:12 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: lovecommander on 15-03-2012 10:11 AM
THERE IS NO BIG DEAL HERE. I PROPOSED TO MY LADY ABOUT A WEEK AFTER SAYING HI TO HER. IT'S EASIER TO MAKE THE NECCESSARY BACKGROUD CHECK ON YOUR TARGET LIFE PARTNER. YOU HAVE A CLEAR HEADED DECISION THAT MESSING AROUND WITH EACH OTHER WITH EMOTIONS THAT WILL CLOUD YOUR JUDGEMENT LATER ON. I EXPECT YOU TO DO THE BACKGROUND CHECK OH HIM AS WELL. IT MAKES BETTER SENCE THAN HOPING TO KNOW HIM THROUGH DATING THAT RARELY WORK.
So u guys are married now
Posted: at 15-03-2012 10:12 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
1 week is not enuf for me to decide on marriage...u dont even knw d guy to dat level. Find out wht he wants frm u nd why d quick proposal, is he proposin oda ladies as well Do som background check up so u will knw who ur dealin with
Proposing to other gals that i don't know.....but his close friend confronted me on this issue, he asked why i don't want to marry his friend that i shuld have a re-think and make my decision fast
1daful Is a Blessed Child..
Posted: at 15-03-2012 10:23 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
JBoyEscalante at 15-03-2012 10:27 AM (12 years ago) (m)
Quote from: jossy4reall on 15-03-2012 06:19 AM
1st of all stop crying....i knw hw u feel Now to ur question.....................try to find out if he has been making inquiries abt u b4 comin in contact wit u....sometimez it happens like dat............another thing.......ask him what qualities did he like to see in a woman whom he will like to be his (u knw wat I mean)....................may be u possessed some of the qualities he expected so he don't want to waste time...................1 more thing.....what do u do for a living?? if u are workin then it culd be dat he is looking for a workin class lady and u fall into d category..................Finally wat is his age??...............he may think dat he is running out time as in age and incidentally he met u and and decided to search no more..............................if u dont find ansar 4rm wat I just mentioned den come 2 my office 4 private assay....
It should take more that 1 week to decide on such life-long decision like marriage. Even if he has made all inquiries about the you, it's a 2-way decision meaning both parties should make the decision. You are the only one who can write your future. If he cannot wait for you to study him, get to know him and get to build trust, frienship and love, then I honestly think he should take a walk
Posted: at 15-03-2012 10:27 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
In just one week? what does he know about u and what do u know about him? How did he come to such conclusion in a week? Something is definitely fishy babe. Tell him to hang on while you guys continue dating for a while. There is no need to be in a rush if all is gold. I smell a rat in the guy's proposal.
thinking.
1daful Is a Blessed Child..
Posted: at 15-03-2012 10:29 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
JBoyEscalante at 15-03-2012 10:33 AM (12 years ago) (m)
Quote from: 1daful on 15-03-2012 10:23 AM
Proposing to other gals that i don't know.....but his close friend confronted me on this issue, he asked why i don't want to marry his friend that i shuld have a re-think and make my decision fast
why the hurry? I smell a fish here. I wouldn't even give it a thought if I were you
Posted: at 15-03-2012 10:33 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
donsousa at 15-03-2012 10:40 AM (12 years ago) (m)
Quote from: 1daful on 15-03-2012 02:37 AM
I meet this guy barely a week + now and he is already talking abt getting me an engagement ring.........Am justing wondering what could be his reason for wanting to so? And if you were in my shoes will u accept such an offer?
A very small degree of hope is sufficient to cause the birth of love
A man who dares to waste one hour of time has not discovered the value of life.
The guy knows what he wants and i guess he´s found those qualities in you. I shouldn,t be worried be him but about you and what you want.If i know him,i guess u might have ur presonal opinion abt him and if u don`t, then beg him to give u sometime to think abt. it
Posted: at 15-03-2012 10:40 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
BELNASA14985 at 15-03-2012 10:45 AM (12 years ago) (m)
My angel, i see notin wrong in d guy's proposal. All u nid 2 do is go in2 some prayer n fasting over d guy n seek 4 God's guidance, instead of goin in2 some form of courtship dat may not yield any fruitful result n @ d end of d day u're used n dump. Think abt it!
Posted: at 15-03-2012 10:45 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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(u knw wat I mean)....................may be u possessed some of the qualities he expected so he don't want to waste time...................1 more thing.....what do u do for a living?? if u are workin then it culd be dat he is looking for a workin class lady and u fall into d category..................Finally wat is his age??...............he may think dat he is running out time as in age and incidentally he met u and and decided to search no more..............................if u dont find ansar 4rm wat I just mentioned den come 2 my office 4 private assay.... 
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