![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 18-10-2010 10:48 AM (13 years ago)  (f) Naija mentality! Must d guy always pay?
a man mustnt pay at all time
but not to come up wit some funny surprises all in d name of
"must a guy pay always" | Posted: at 18-10-2010 10:48 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 18-10-2010 10:50 AM (13 years ago) (f) Isn't she an Independent Woman?
if she is.. she shouldnt ask y.. but rada pay the bills
sophie paying her bills is no problem but not on that act, there is suppose to an agreement lane btw d two of them wat if the girl wasnt interested in watching movie u dont just pick up someone and engage her in some unnecessary expensesmust an agreement be made on who pays the bills when going out with ur man? as a lady u musn't go out with an empty purse either on a date nor with ya b.f put some cash in that purse true talk ......some guys are so desperate and greedy....... but gals always top ur purse neva depend on the guy to pay all true talk but d guy didnt do well at all atleast he shold ve inform d girl 1st c'mon.. bleesing.. must u be informed b4 u pay d bills
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 18-10-2010 10:50 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 18-10-2010 10:51 AM (13 years ago) (f) i still disagree wif u
everything has to reach a mutual agreement girl
if u want to give ya guy a good treat from ya purse, fine!
sure! as a lady u dont ve to go out wif an empty purse
but to some extent and beside no lady goes out wit a guy
and ve the mindset of footing the bills except proven otherwise
and beside for 16months that was their first outing
and she equally went wif cash but marvelled at what d guy did
imagine u and ya guy at d counter to buy ticket and he brought out some huge amount of money
paid for his ticket and tuck d rest of d cash back to his pocket and then ask u to pay for your own and get yaself a drink
this is absolutely uncalled for | Posted: at 18-10-2010 10:51 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 18-10-2010 10:53 AM (13 years ago) (f) Naija mentality! Must d guy always pay?
a man mustnt pay at all time but not to come up wit some funny surprises all in d name of "must a guy pay always" i dont see such as a funny surprise. u musnt be pushed or told b4 u foot the bills..
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 18-10-2010 10:53 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 18-10-2010 10:56 AM (13 years ago) (f) Isn't she an Independent Woman?
if she is.. she shouldnt ask y.. but rada pay the bills
sophie paying her bills is no problem but not on that act, there is suppose to an agreement lane btw d two of them wat if the girl wasnt interested in watching movie u dont just pick up someone and engage her in some unnecessary expensesmust an agreement be made on who pays the bills when going out with ur man? as a lady u musn't go out with an empty purse either on a date nor with ya b.f put some cash in that purse true talk ......some guys are so desperate and greedy....... but gals always top ur purse neva depend on the guy to pay all true talk but d guy didnt do well at all atleast he shold ve inform d girl 1st c'mon.. bleesing.. must u be informed b4 u pay d bills its never adviceable to go on dates with an empty purse but for curtsy's sake , things should be done properly
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 18-10-2010 10:56 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 18-10-2010 10:57 AM (13 years ago) (f) i still disagree wif u
everything has to reach a mutual agreement girl
if u want to give ya guy a good treat from ya purse, fine!
sure! as a lady u dont ve to go out wif an empty purse
but to some extent and beside no lady goes out wit a guy
and ve the mindset of footing the bills except proven otherwise
and beside for 16months that was their first outing
and she equally went wif cash but marvelled at what d guy did
imagine u and ya guy at d counter to buy ticket and he brought out some huge amount of money
paid for his ticket and tuck d rest of d cash back to his pocket and then ask u to pay for your own and get yaself a drink
this is absolutely uncalled for i'm picturing this story of urs in anoda direction.. i see the babe as the stingy type. yes.. i think the guy is trying to see if she can try to take up some responsibilities on her own.
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 18-10-2010 10:57 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 18-10-2010 11:02 AM (13 years ago) (f) Isn't she an Independent Woman?
if she is.. she shouldnt ask y.. but rada pay the bills
sophie paying her bills is no problem but not on that act, there is suppose to an agreement lane btw d two of them wat if the girl wasnt interested in watching movie u dont just pick up someone and engage her in some unnecessary expensesmust an agreement be made on who pays the bills when going out with ur man? as a lady u musn't go out with an empty purse either on a date nor with ya b.f put some cash in that purse true talk ......some guys are so desperate and greedy....... but gals always top ur purse neva depend on the guy to pay all true talk but d guy didnt do well at all atleast he shold ve inform d girl 1st c'mon.. bleesing.. must u be informed b4 u pay d bills yes ooo i must be inform oo what if ma purse is not full enough to foot d bills what if ma atm card is not wif me at dat moment, what happens to me huh? look money is no body's friend u know u dont just bomb me wif unnecessary expenses and called that surprise or watever this is just like u takin me out and at d end of d day u leave me in d middle of no where | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:02 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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I dont c d problem? Doesnt mean cos d guy pay for u
tht he like u more... And is not romantic at all to make agreement
be4 u go out, like tonite i go pay tomorrow is ur turn 
@ sophiebaby, i like ur new pic | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:07 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 18-10-2010 11:10 AM (13 years ago) (f) i still disagree wif u
everything has to reach a mutual agreement girl
if u want to give ya guy a good treat from ya purse, fine!
sure! as a lady u dont ve to go out wif an empty purse
but to some extent and beside no lady goes out wit a guy
and ve the mindset of footing the bills except proven otherwise
and beside for 16months that was their first outing
and she equally went wif cash but marvelled at what d guy did
imagine u and ya guy at d counter to buy ticket and he brought out some huge amount of money
paid for his ticket and tuck d rest of d cash back to his pocket and then ask u to pay for your own and get yaself a drink
this is absolutely uncalled for i'm picturing this story of urs in anoda direction.. i see the babe as the stingy type. yes.. i think the guy is trying to see if she can try to take up some responsibilities on her own. heheheheheeeeeeeeeee you know you can only force a horse to the stream but you cant force it to drink water . If she is really stingy ............... using that method will not make her pay , she may descide to go back home after all she didnt just choose to see the movie . Meanwhile , why would a guy do that on their "very first outing" having been dating for abaut 16 months ? Personally i dont see the point he is trying to prove by that action
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:10 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 18-10-2010 11:12 AM (13 years ago) (f) I dont c d problem? Doesnt mean cos d guy pay for u
tht he like u more... And is not romantic at all to make agreement
be4 u go out, like tonite i go pay tomorrow is ur turn
@ sophiebaby, i like ur new pic thank God someone is on ma side now. flymama i think u understand ma point too... it doesnt make sense naaaaa thanks for da compliment
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:12 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 18-10-2010 11:12 AM (13 years ago) (f) i still disagree wif u
everything has to reach a mutual agreement girl
if u want to give ya guy a good treat from ya purse, fine!
sure! as a lady u dont ve to go out wif an empty purse
but to some extent and beside no lady goes out wit a guy
and ve the mindset of footing the bills except proven otherwise
and beside for 16months that was their first outing
and she equally went wif cash but marvelled at what d guy did
imagine u and ya guy at d counter to buy ticket and he brought out some huge amount of money
paid for his ticket and tuck d rest of d cash back to his pocket and then ask u to pay for your own and get yaself a drink
this is absolutely uncalled for i'm picturing this story of urs in anoda direction.. i see the babe as the stingy type. yes.. i think the guy is trying to see if she can try to take up some responsibilities on her own. things must be done accurately sophie the girl is not a stingy chap, she is only being a girl ok forget d fact dat everything is mordenized and lets face d fact a guy is taking u on a first date, den he should inform u to foot ya bills and not to cook up a surprise shit for u, if i want to give ma guy treat i will invite him and foot his bills hmm and not d other way round | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:12 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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They have been dating for more than 16 months and then
He took her to the movies and asked her to pay for her entrance ticket
and cold drink for herself and even transport herself down home
What is really happening? where is the love and care professed by guys
where is d shield a guy is suppose to provide for his girl
Until they are married, the guy is not under any obligation to meet her financial needs!
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:13 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 18-10-2010 11:15 AM (13 years ago) (f) I dont c d problem? Doesnt mean cos d guy pay for u
tht he like u more... And is not romantic at all to make agreement
be4 u go out, like tonite i go pay tomorrow is ur turn
@ sophiebaby, i like ur new pic u dnt c a problem in him at d counter wif u, brought out huge of money in ya presence pay for his ticket, tuck d remaining inside his pocket and then order u to pay ya own? | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:15 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 18-10-2010 11:16 AM (13 years ago) (f) I dont c d problem? Doesnt mean cos d guy pay for u
tht he like u more... And is not romantic at all to make agreement
be4 u go out, like tonite i go pay tomorrow is ur turn
@ sophiebaby, i like ur new pic Its not like taking turns , its all abaut responsibility .Wy invite somebody to a movie when you can't foot his/her bills? Then you better go see the movie alone . but if you really needs his/her company and you cant afford to pays the bills for both of you then find out from him/her if he is ready for such unplanned expenses . Its arrogance to take someone out on such occassions , bring out huge amount of money for her to see, then you pay for only your bills and ask her to pay for herself
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:16 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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@ sophie, i dey ur side ooo
@onyiis, who said he is tryin to proof anytin?? maybe he has bin payin all dis time
and neva got anytin back?
@ blessedme, 'She is only bein a girl' na wa for tht statement ooo, c'mon dear tht
na rubbish...only bein a gal? wht does tht mean ?? | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:16 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "eddybabs") eddybabs at 18-10-2010 11:17 AM (13 years ago) (m) Brb | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:17 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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I dont c d problem? Doesnt mean cos d guy pay for u
tht he like u more... And is not romantic at all to make agreement
be4 u go out, like tonite i go pay tomorrow is ur turn
@ sophiebaby, i like ur new pic u dnt c a problem in him at d counter wif u, brought out huge of money in ya presence pay for his ticket, tuck d remaining inside his pocket and then order u to pay ya own?
they r not married abi?
Who knws he has bin payin for d last 16 months? | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:18 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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I dont c d problem? Doesnt mean cos d guy pay for u
tht he like u more... And is not romantic at all to make agreement
be4 u go out, like tonite i go pay tomorrow is ur turn
@ sophiebaby, i like ur new pic Its not like taking turns , its all abaut responsibility .Wy invite somebody to a movie when you can't foot his/her bills? Then you better go see the movie alone . but if you really needs his/her company and you cant afford to pays the bills for both of you then find out from him/her if he is ready for such unplanned expenses . Its arrogance to take someone out on such occassions , bring out huge amount of money for her to see, then you pay for only your bills and ask her to pay for herself
her own pocket?? when somebody ask u out, tht mean he/she gotta pay for it??
Or u hav to start talkin abt who go pay for it? tht not kool at all...
like i said be4, who knws d guy is not bin payin for d last 16 months ?? | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:22 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 18-10-2010 11:23 AM (13 years ago) (f) i still disagree wif u
everything has to reach a mutual agreement girl
if u want to give ya guy a good treat from ya purse, fine!
sure! as a lady u dont ve to go out wif an empty purse
but to some extent and beside no lady goes out wit a guy
and ve the mindset of footing the bills except proven otherwise
and beside for 16months that was their first outing
and she equally went wif cash but marvelled at what d guy did
imagine u and ya guy at d counter to buy ticket and he brought out some huge amount of money
paid for his ticket and tuck d rest of d cash back to his pocket and then ask u to pay for your own and get yaself a drink
this is absolutely uncalled for i'm picturing this story of urs in anoda direction.. i see the babe as the stingy type. yes.. i think the guy is trying to see if she can try to take up some responsibilities on her own. things must be done accurately sophie the girl is not a stingy chap, she is only being a girl ok forget d fact dat everything is mordenized and lets face d fact a guy is taking u on a first date, den he should inform u to foot ya bills and not to cook up a surprise shit for u, if i want to give ma guy treat i will invite him and foot his bills hmm and not d other way round They have been dating for more than 16 months and then
He took her to the movies and asked her to pay for her entrance ticket
and cold drink for herself and even transport herself down home
they've been dating for more than sixteen months(1yr/4mths) and u are telling me crap? since de've been dating, outing for the first tym to the movies doesn't require who pays d bills.. since he opted her footing her bills, den she should.. shey be she wan go MOVIES.. abi she no dey work? or she no get orientation? how much be drink? coke/fanta highest 100 naira ticket highest 800/1500.. atleast she shld get some cash in her purse..
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:23 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 18-10-2010 11:24 AM (13 years ago) (f) @ sophie, i dey ur side ooo
@onyiis, who said he is tryin to proof anytin?? maybe he has bin payin all dis time
and neva got anytin back?
@ blessedme, 'She is only bein a girl' na wa for tht statement ooo, c'mon dear tht
na rubbish...only bein a gal? wht does tht mean ??
The story said that was their very first outing and moreover he is spending without getting anyhing back so he sees their relationship as an investment ?
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:24 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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