![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 18-10-2010 11:43 AM (14 years ago)  (f) @ sophie, i dey ur side ooo
@onyiis, who said he is tryin to proof anytin?? maybe he has bin payin all dis time
and neva got anytin back?
@ blessedme, 'She is only bein a girl' na wa for tht statement ooo, c'mon dear tht
na rubbish...only bein a gal? wht does tht mean ??
The story said that was their very first outing and moreover he is spending without getting anyhing back so he sees their relationship as an investment ?
money but neva pay for anytin themselves...is it too much to pay for ur ticket and fanta?
Why not pay for his while u r at it??
First outing afta 16 months?? how is dat possible ??the issue here is not the amount of money involved but the "gest" itsef i dont think he was tyring to make gest of her... they'arent marid, dey are only dating.. trying to knw each oda more.. let her foot the bills.. maybe en dey test am.. 
Love should not be tested that way .You know money is a sensitive issue in relationship . there has been divorce case all because of financial arguments and misunderstanding .
Like i said earlier ,it in not the amount of money involved but the gest itself is hurting .
They are dating and trying to know each other , if he feels she is stingy , there are better ways to drive his observation home than "flunting some copies on notes" in her presence and ask her to pay for herself
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:43 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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@ sophie, i dey ur side ooo
@onyiis, who said he is tryin to proof anytin?? maybe he has bin payin all dis time
and neva got anytin back?
@ blessedme, 'She is only bein a girl' na wa for tht statement ooo, c'mon dear tht
na rubbish...only bein a gal? wht does tht mean ??
that was thier 1st outing for 16months
and does it matter if its first or third? | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:44 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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They have been dating for more than 16 months and then
He took her to the movies and asked her to pay for her entrance ticket
and cold drink for herself and even transport herself down home
What is really happening? where is the love and care professed by guys
where is d shield a guy is suppose to provide for his girl
Hmmm! I don't have any problems with paying for my stuffs! I never relied on any guy for that, so no big deal! But...there's a Big But;if we were dating for more than a year already, and in all that time he behaved differently, why would be a change now,without him letting me know? And especially if he was the one who asked me out, not the other way around, and also in a case where it is need of so little money? Hm!Something it's wrong there! Because I think that after 16 months of dating we should be able to discuss about everything, so if he would have money problems ,he just should have told me before, and not to pop up that request after the date! Sorry,but that's ridiculous!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:46 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 18-10-2010 11:46 AM (14 years ago) (f) @ onyiis, its different to invite somebody to ur ceremony and
askin somebody out... after all na public place u dey go
invitation is invitation
can asume to c their pant too ??If i was the one that invited him , first date or not i'll pay his bills
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:46 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 18-10-2010 11:47 AM (14 years ago) (f) @ sophie, i dey ur side ooo
@onyiis, who said he is tryin to proof anytin?? maybe he has bin payin all dis time
and neva got anytin back?
@ blessedme, 'She is only bein a girl' na wa for tht statement ooo, c'mon dear tht
na rubbish...only bein a gal? wht does tht mean ??
that was thier 1st outing for 16months it doesnt mean.. a guy musnt foot the bills on a first date.. that was dia first outing for 16months.. but dey 've been dating, having fun and lots more.. why can't she foot her bills C,mon!
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:47 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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@ BS, u cud hav also told him wen he asked u tht u got money problems | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:48 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "abdulk") abdulk at 18-10-2010 11:48 AM (14 years ago) (m) Obviously that was a wrong move by the guy, at the same time love should not be tested by a guy paying for entrance fees. any of them could do it. NB THERE IS LOVE IN SHARING | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:48 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 18-10-2010 11:51 AM (14 years ago) (f) [color=purple]@ sophie, i dey ur side ooo
@onyiis, who said he is tryin to proof anytin?? maybe he has bin payin all dis time
and neva got anytin back?
@ blessedme, 'She is only bein a girl' na wa for tht statement ooo, c'mon dear tht
na rubbish...only bein a gal? wht does tht mean ??[/color]
thanks sweetie.. i can foot the bills even on a first date , not becos i want to show masef, but to show him that i am capable and can takia of masef and tins around me. 
cos he no pay for u? na golddigger go flash for his mind  yes naaaaa if he no gree pay for u, u go ya houx naaaaaaaaa That is very ridiculouse because this was a guy i think is trying to woo a lady
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:51 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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@ BS, u cud hav also told him wen he asked u tht u got money problems
Oh,come on! It's not about that small amount of money here! Who couldn't afford to pay for a movie and a soda!Come on! It's about his gesture, which he was done without notice the girl before! Weird move from his part!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:51 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 18-10-2010 11:52 AM (14 years ago) (f) i still disagree wif u
everything has to reach a mutual agreement girl
if u want to give ya guy a good treat from ya purse, fine!
sure! as a lady u dont ve to go out wif an empty purse
but to some extent and beside no lady goes out wit a guy
and ve the mindset of footing the bills except proven otherwise
and beside for 16months that was their first outing
and she equally went wif cash but marvelled at what d guy did
imagine u and ya guy at d counter to buy ticket and he brought out some huge amount of money
paid for his ticket and tuck d rest of d cash back to his pocket and then ask u to pay for your own and get yaself a drink
this is absolutely uncalled for i'm picturing this story of urs in anoda direction.. i see the babe as the stingy type. yes.. i think the guy is trying to see if she can try to take up some responsibilities on her own. things must be done accurately sophie the girl is not a stingy chap, she is only being a girl ok forget d fact dat everything is mordenized and lets face d fact a guy is taking u on a first date, den he should inform u to foot ya bills and not to cook up a surprise shit for u, if i want to give ma guy treat i will invite him and foot his bills hmm and not d other way round They have been dating for more than 16 months and then
He took her to the movies and asked her to pay for her entrance ticket
and cold drink for herself and even transport herself down home
they've been dating for more than sixteen months(1yr/4mths) and u are telling me crap? since de've been dating, outing for the first tym to the movies doesn't require who pays d bills.. since he opted her footing her bills, den she should.. shey be she wan go MOVIES.. abi she no dey work? or she no get orientation? how much be drink? coke/fanta highest 100 naira ticket highest 800/1500.. atleast she shld get some cash in her purse.. for 16months that was thier first outing let call a spade a spade, u know quite well that there shold ve being a mutual understanding b4 dis kain of thing come up i sure know u cant stand dis anyway | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:52 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 18-10-2010 11:54 AM (14 years ago) (f) Obviously that was a wrong move by the guy, at the same time love should not be tested by a guy paying for entrance fees. any of them could do it. NB THERE IS LOVE IN SHARING
Exactly , and that is where communication come in .but here the guy is not in any financial difficulty just that he wanted to flunt his "big pocket" on the girl he is trying to woo
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:54 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 18-10-2010 11:55 AM (14 years ago) (f) I dont c d problem? Doesnt mean cos d guy pay for u
tht he like u more... And is not romantic at all to make agreement
be4 u go out, like tonite i go pay tomorrow is ur turn 
@ sophiebaby, i like ur new pic u dnt c a problem in him at d counter wif u, brought out huge of money in ya presence pay for his ticket, tuck d remaining inside his pocket and then order u to pay ya own? if u no wan pay u comot go back to ya houx naaaaaaa maybe or maybe not | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:55 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 18-10-2010 11:55 AM (14 years ago) (f) @ BS, u cud hav also told him wen he asked u tht u got money problems
Oh,come on! It's not about that small amount of money here! Who couldn't afford to pay for a movie and a soda!Come on! It's about his gesture, which he was done without notice the girl before! Weird move from his part! You got the point !!!
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:55 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 18-10-2010 11:56 AM (14 years ago) (f) They have been dating for more than 16 months and then
He took her to the movies and asked her to pay for her entrance ticket
and cold drink for herself and even transport herself down home
What is really happening? where is the love and care professed by guys
where is d shield a guy is suppose to provide for his girl
Until they are married, the guy is not under any obligation to meet her financial needs! Its not abaut meeting one's financial needs .Dont give someone an invitation when you cannot take care of her needs for that occation . Its like inviting someone to your ceremony and expect the person to buy his/her foods and drinks exactly | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:56 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "omorewa") omorewa at 18-10-2010 11:56 AM (14 years ago) (f) well there is nothing wrong with it and at the same time this scenario is weird.. anyway always hold your money when going out with someone to avoid embarrassment like this
don't over step your boundaries.. thank you! | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:56 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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@ BS, u cud hav also told him wen he asked u tht u got money problems
Oh,come on! It's not about that small amount of money here! Who couldn't afford to pay for a movie and a soda!Come on! It's about his gesture, which he was done without notice the girl before! Weird move from his part!
mayb d guy was waitin for her to pay for both of dem?? | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:57 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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@ BS, u cud hav also told him wen he asked u tht u got money problems
Oh,come on! It's not about that small amount of money here! Who couldn't afford to pay for a movie and a soda!Come on! It's about his gesture, which he has done without noticing the girl before! Weird move from his part! You got the point !!! Thx,dear!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:58 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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@ BS, u cud hav also told him wen he asked u tht u got money problems
Oh,come on! It's not about that small amount of money here! Who couldn't afford to pay for a movie and a soda!Come on! It's about his gesture, which he was done without notice the girl before! Weird move from his part!
mayb d guy was waitin for her to pay for both of dem??He just should let her know from time,that'all! That guy is more than weird!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:59 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "eddybabs") eddybabs at 18-10-2010 12:01 PM (14 years ago) (m) I no be lady so I no go comment | Posted: at 18-10-2010 12:01 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 18-10-2010 12:01 PM (14 years ago) (f) You know most times, the reason behind actions speaks louder than the actions themselves
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 18-10-2010 12:01 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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