Ladies what will you do if u were in this (Page 3)

Date: 18-10-2010 9:40 am (14 years ago) | Author: Blessing Edet
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- sophiebaby at 18-10-2010 11:26 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 18-10-2010 11:13 AM
Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 09:40 AM
They have been dating for more than 16 months and then
He took her to the movies and asked her to pay for her entrance ticket
and cold drink for herself and even transport herself down home

What is really happening? where is the love and care professed by guys
where is d shield a guy is suppose to provide for his girl


Until they are married, the guy is not under any obligation to meet her financial needs!

thanks for this DP

Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:26 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 18-10-2010 11:27 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 11:15 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:07 AM
I dont c d problem? Doesnt mean cos d guy pay for u
tht he like u more... And is not romantic at all to make agreement
be4 u go out, like tonite i go pay tomorrow is ur turn  Undecided

@ sophiebaby, i like ur new pic

u dnt c a problem in him at d counter wif u, brought out huge of money in ya presence
pay for his ticket, tuck d remaining inside his pocket and then order u to pay ya own?

if u no wan pay u comot go back to ya houx naaaaaaa

Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:27 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onyiis at 18-10-2010 11:28 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 18-10-2010 11:13 AM
Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 09:40 AM
They have been dating for more than 16 months and then
He took her to the movies and asked her to pay for her entrance ticket
and cold drink for herself and even transport herself down home

What is really happening? where is the love and care professed by guys
where is d shield a guy is suppose to provide for his girl


Until they are married, the guy is not under any obligation to meet her financial needs!


Its not abaut meeting one's financial needs .Dont give someone an invitation when you cannot take care of her needs for that occation . Its like inviting someone to your ceremony and expect the person to buy his/her foods and drinks

Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:28 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 18-10-2010 11:29 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on 18-10-2010 11:24 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:16 AM
@ sophie, i dey ur side ooo

@onyiis, who said he is tryin to proof anytin?? maybe he has bin payin all dis time
and neva got anytin back?

@ blessedme, 'She is only bein a girl' na wa for tht statement ooo, c'mon dear tht
na rubbish...only bein a gal? wht does tht mean ??


The story said that was their very first outing and moreover he is spending without getting anyhing back so he sees their relationship as an investment ?
Wht i mean wit gettin anytin back is, som gals rily like to dey spend their bf
money but neva pay for anytin themselves...is it too much to pay for ur ticket and fanta?
Why not pay for his while u r at it??

First outing afta 16 months?? how is dat possible ??

Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:29 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onyiis at 18-10-2010 11:30 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 11:26 AM
Quote from: divineproject on 18-10-2010 11:13 AM
Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 09:40 AM
They have been dating for more than 16 months and then
He took her to the movies and asked her to pay for her entrance ticket
and cold drink for herself and even transport herself down home

What is really happening? where is the love and care professed by guys
where is d shield a guy is suppose to provide for his girl


Until they are married, the guy is not under any obligation to meet her financial needs!

thanks for this DP


heheheheheeeeeeeeee !!! until you are married , then you dont need the company of a woman

Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:30 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 18-10-2010 11:31 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 18-10-2010 11:13 AM
Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 09:40 AM
They have been dating for more than 16 months and then
He took her to the movies and asked her to pay for her entrance ticket
and cold drink for herself and even transport herself down home

What is really happening? where is the love and care professed by guys
where is d shield a guy is suppose to provide for his girl


Until they are married, the guy is not under any obligation to meet her financial needs!
correct!!!
and the guy shouldnt touch her in any sort
and she shouldnt do any thing ranging from house chores
down to anything for d guy until they are married

but in a situation whereby the reverse is the case
wat happens?Huh?Huh???
Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:31 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 18-10-2010 11:31 AM (14 years ago)
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@ onyiis, its different to invite somebody to ur ceremony and
askin somebody out... after all na public place u dey go
Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:31 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onyiis at 18-10-2010 11:31 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:29 AM
Quote from: onyiis on 18-10-2010 11:24 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:16 AM
@ sophie, i dey ur side ooo

@onyiis, who said he is tryin to proof anytin?? maybe he has bin payin all dis time
and neva got anytin back?

@ blessedme, 'She is only bein a girl' na wa for tht statement ooo, c'mon dear tht
na rubbish...only bein a gal? wht does tht mean ??


The story said that was their very first outing and moreover he is spending without getting anyhing back so he sees their relationship as an investment ?
Wht i mean wit gettin anytin back is, som gals rily like to dey spend their bf
money but neva pay for anytin themselves...is it too much to pay for ur ticket and fanta?
Why not pay for his while u r at it??

First outing afta 16 months?? how is dat possible ??




the issue here is not the amount of money involved but the "gest" itsef

Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:31 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 18-10-2010 11:32 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:31 AM
@ onyiis, its different to invite somebody to ur ceremony and
askin somebody out... after all na public place u dey go



invitation is invitation

Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:32 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 18-10-2010 11:33 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:16 AM
[color=purple]@ sophie, i dey ur side ooo

@onyiis, who said he is tryin to proof anytin?? maybe he has bin payin all dis time
and neva got anytin back?

@ blessedme, 'She is only bein a girl' na wa for tht statement ooo, c'mon dear tht
na rubbish...only bein a gal? wht does tht mean ??[/color]

thanks sweetie..
i can foot the bills even on a first date , not becos i want to show masef,  
but to show him that i am capable and can takia of masef and tins around me.  Wink Wink

Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:33 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- blessedme at 18-10-2010 11:33 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on 18-10-2010 11:16 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:07 AM
I dont c d problem? Doesnt mean cos d guy pay for u
tht he like u more... And is not romantic at all to make agreement
be4 u go out, like tonite i go pay tomorrow is ur turn   Undecided

@ sophiebaby, i like ur new pic


Its not like taking turns , its all abaut responsibility .Wy invite somebody to a movie when you can't foot his/her bills? Then you better go see the movie alone . but if you really needs his/her company and you cant afford to pays the bills for both of you then find out from him/her if he is ready for such unplanned expenses .

Its arrogance to take someone out on such occassions , bring out huge amount of money for her to see, then you pay for only your bills and ask her to pay for herself
gbam
Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:33 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 18-10-2010 11:35 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 11:31 AM
Quote from: divineproject on 18-10-2010 11:13 AM
Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 09:40 AM
They have been dating for more than 16 months and then
He took her to the movies and asked her to pay for her entrance ticket
and cold drink for herself and even transport herself down home

What is really happening? where is the love and care professed by guys
where is d shield a guy is suppose to provide for his girl


Until they are married, the guy is not under any obligation to meet her financial needs!
correct!!!
and the guy shouldnt touch her in any sort
and she shouldnt do any thing ranging from house chores
down to anything for d guy until they are married

but in a situation whereby the reverse is the case
wat happens?Huh?Huh???

As friends, you have got liberty........you can say NO to certain things, you can opt out when you want......

Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:35 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 18-10-2010 11:36 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 11:33 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:16 AM
[color=purple]@ sophie, i dey ur side ooo

@onyiis, who said he is tryin to proof anytin?? maybe he has bin payin all dis time
and neva got anytin back?

@ blessedme, 'She is only bein a girl' na wa for tht statement ooo, c'mon dear tht
na rubbish...only bein a gal? wht does tht mean ??[/color]

thanks sweetie..
i can foot the bills even on a first date , not becos i want to show masef,  
but to show him that i am capable and can takia of masef and tins around me.  Wink Wink
exactly! wetin d guy go tink if u start makin drama on d first date
cos he no pay for u? na golddigger go flash for his mind  Smiley

Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:36 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 18-10-2010 11:37 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on 18-10-2010 11:31 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:29 AM
Quote from: onyiis on 18-10-2010 11:24 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:16 AM
@ sophie, i dey ur side ooo

@onyiis, who said he is tryin to proof anytin?? maybe he has bin payin all dis time
and neva got anytin back?

@ blessedme, 'She is only bein a girl' na wa for tht statement ooo, c'mon dear tht
na rubbish...only bein a gal? wht does tht mean ??


The story said that was their very first outing and moreover he is spending without getting anyhing back so he sees their relationship as an investment ?
Wht i mean wit gettin anytin back is, som gals rily like to dey spend their bf
money but neva pay for anytin themselves...is it too much to pay for ur ticket and fanta?
Why not pay for his while u r at it??

First outing afta 16 months?? how is dat possible ??




the issue here is not the amount of money involved but the "gest" itsef

i dont think he was tyring to make gest of her...
they'arent marid, dey are only dating.. trying to knw each oda more.. let her foot the bills..

maybe en dey test am.. Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

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- onyiis at 18-10-2010 11:38 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 11:33 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:16 AM
[color=purple]@ sophie, i dey ur side ooo

@onyiis, who said he is tryin to proof anytin?? maybe he has bin payin all dis time
and neva got anytin back?

@ blessedme, 'She is only bein a girl' na wa for tht statement ooo, c'mon dear tht
na rubbish...only bein a gal? wht does tht mean ??[/color]

thanks sweetie..
i can foot the bills even on a first date , not becos i want to show masef,  
but to show him that i am capable and can takia of masef and tins around me.  Wink Wink


If i want to show him i can do all those , then i will invite and spoil him and foot the bills

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- FlyMamacita at 18-10-2010 11:39 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on 18-10-2010 11:31 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:29 AM
Quote from: onyiis on 18-10-2010 11:24 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:16 AM
@ sophie, i dey ur side ooo

@onyiis, who said he is tryin to proof anytin?? maybe he has bin payin all dis time
and neva got anytin back?

@ blessedme, 'She is only bein a girl' na wa for tht statement ooo, c'mon dear tht
na rubbish...only bein a gal? wht does tht mean ??


The story said that was their very first outing and moreover he is spending without getting anyhing back so he sees their relationship as an investment ?
Wht i mean wit gettin anytin back is, som gals rily like to dey spend their bf
money but neva pay for anytin themselves...is it too much to pay for ur ticket and fanta?
Why not pay for his while u r at it??

First outing afta 16 months?? how is dat possible ??




the issue here is not the amount of money involved but the "gest" itsef
wen d money is not important why make a arguement outa it?
den she can just pay.... d gest can com from her side...

Women dey fight for equal rite, den u show u equal on dis one too

Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:39 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 18-10-2010 11:41 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on 18-10-2010 11:32 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:31 AM
@ onyiis, its different to invite somebody to ur ceremony and
askin somebody out... after all na public place u dey go



invitation is invitation
So wen women asume d guy to pay on (first) dates, d men
can asume to c their pant too ??

Posted: at 18-10-2010 11:41 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- blessedme at 18-10-2010 11:41 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:16 AM
@ sophie, i dey ur side ooo

@onyiis, who said he is tryin to proof anytin?? maybe he has bin payin all dis time
and neva got anytin back?

@ blessedme, 'She is only bein a girl' na wa for tht statement ooo, c'mon dear tht
na rubbish...only bein a gal? wht does tht mean ??

that was thier 1st outing for 16months
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- macgreat at 18-10-2010 11:42 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 09:40 AM
They have been dating for more than 16 months and then
He took her to the movies and asked her to pay for her entrance ticket
and cold drink for herself and even transport herself down home

What is really happening? where is the love and care professed by guys
where is d shield a guy is suppose to provide for his girl


Get a JOB. . .

GONE are the days where MEN want woman that will stay at home while he work his ass off everyday. . .Spend more than 40% of his money on her.

This days. . . No man want to associate him self with a jobless woman or a woman that depends on her man 101%. . .

If a guy doesn't care weather you have real job or not. . . then his in for the POTS  Grin


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- sophiebaby at 18-10-2010 11:42 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:36 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 11:33 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:16 AM
[color=purple]@ sophie, i dey ur side ooo

@onyiis, who said he is tryin to proof anytin?? maybe he has bin payin all dis time
and neva got anytin back?

@ blessedme, 'She is only bein a girl' na wa for tht statement ooo, c'mon dear tht
na rubbish...only bein a gal? wht does tht mean ??[/color]

thanks sweetie..
i can foot the bills even on a first date , not becos i want to show masef,  
but to show him that i am capable and can takia of masef and tins around me.  Wink Wink
exactly! wetin d guy go tink if u start makin drama on d first date
cos he no pay for u? na golddigger go flash for his mind  Smiley



yes naaaaa
if he no gree pay for u, u go ya houx naaaaaaaaa

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