Ladies what will you do if u were in this (Page 5)

Date: 18-10-2010 9:40 am (14 years ago) | Author: Blessing Edet
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- sophiebaby at 18-10-2010 12:02 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 11:52 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 11:23 AM
Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 11:12 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 10:57 AM
Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 10:51 AM
Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 10:35 AM
i still disagree wif u
everything has to reach a mutual agreement girl
if u want to give ya guy a good treat from ya purse, fine!

sure! as a lady u dont ve to go out wif an empty purse
but to some extent and beside no lady goes out wit a guy
and ve the mindset of footing the bills except proven otherwise

and beside for 16months that was their first outing
and she equally went wif cash but marvelled at what d guy did

imagine u and ya guy at d counter to buy ticket and he brought out some huge amount of money
paid for his ticket and tuck d rest of d cash back to his pocket and then ask u to pay for your own and get yaself a drink
this is absolutely uncalled for

i'm picturing this story of urs in anoda direction..
i see the babe as the stingy type. yes..
i think the guy is trying to see if she can try to take up some responsibilities on her own.
things must be done accurately sophie
the girl is not a stingy chap, she is only being a girl ok
forget d fact dat everything is mordenized
and lets face d fact
a guy is taking u on a first date, den he should inform u to foot ya bills
and not to cook up a surprise shit for u,
if i want to give ma guy treat i will invite him and foot his bills hmm
and not d other way round
Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 09:40 AM
They have been dating for more than 16 months and then
He took her to the movies and asked her to pay for her entrance ticket
and cold drink for herself and even transport herself down home




they've been dating for more than sixteen months(1yr/4mths) and u are telling me crap?
since de've been dating, outing for the first tym to the movies doesn't require who pays d bills..
since he opted her footing her bills, den she should..

shey be she wan go MOVIES..
abi she no dey work?
or she no get orientation?
how much be drink?
coke/fanta highest 100 naira
ticket highest 800/1500..

atleast she shld get some cash in her purse..
for 16months that was thier first outing
let call a spade a spade, u know quite well that there shold ve being a mutual understanding b4 dis kain of thing come up
i sure know u cant stand dis anyway

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
u miss road blessing...
wherever i go to, i make sure i have atleast 2/3k in ma purse
besides, am not the outing type
i hardly go out,
i catch ma fun at home.

Posted: at 18-10-2010 12:02 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- blessedme at 18-10-2010 12:05 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on 18-10-2010 11:32 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:31 AM
@ onyiis, its different to invite somebody to ur ceremony and
askin somebody out... after all na public place u dey go



invitation is invitation
gbam
Posted: at 18-10-2010 12:05 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 18-10-2010 12:08 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 18-10-2010 11:35 AM
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Quote from: divineproject on 18-10-2010 11:13 AM
Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 09:40 AM
They have been dating for more than 16 months and then
He took her to the movies and asked her to pay for her entrance ticket
and cold drink for herself and even transport herself down home

What is really happening? where is the love and care professed by guys
where is d shield a guy is suppose to provide for his girl


Until they are married, the guy is not under any obligation to meet her financial needs!
correct!!!
and the guy shouldnt touch her in any sort
and she shouldnt do any thing ranging from house chores
down to anything for d guy until they are married

but in a situation whereby the reverse is the case
wat happens?Huh?Huh???

As friends, you have got liberty........you can say NO to certain things, you can opt out when you want......
ok
option of sayin yes or no write?
accepted
Posted: at 18-10-2010 12:08 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- mallorca at 18-10-2010 12:08 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on 18-10-2010 12:01 PM
You know most times, the reason behind actions speaks louder than the actions themselves

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Nke Nwanyi kedu maka ndi be gi? i hope you pray for me yestaday in da church

Posted: at 18-10-2010 12:08 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 18-10-2010 12:10 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 18-10-2010 11:59 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:57 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 18-10-2010 11:51 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:48 AM
@ BS, u cud hav also told him wen he asked u tht u got money problems

Oh,come on!
It's not about that small amount of money here!
Who couldn't afford to pay for a movie and a soda!Come on!
It's about his gesture, which he was done without notice the girl before!  
Weird move from his part!
exactly, d amount of money is small, so why d headache of payin for ursef

mayb d guy was waitin for her to pay for both of dem??



He just should let her know from time,that'all!
That guy is more than weird!
and wht of d gal? she shudn let him knw tht she no go pay for it ??
Posted: at 18-10-2010 12:10 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 18-10-2010 12:11 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mallorca on 18-10-2010 12:08 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 18-10-2010 12:01 PM
You know most times, the reason behind actions speaks louder than the actions themselves

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Nke Nwanyi kedu maka ndi be gi? i hope you pray for me yestaday in da church

 Wink Wink

Posted: at 18-10-2010 12:11 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- blessedme at 18-10-2010 12:15 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 18-10-2010 11:46 AM
Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 09:40 AM
They have been dating for more than 16 months and then
He took her to the movies and asked her to pay for her entrance ticket
and cold drink for herself and even transport herself down home

What is really happening? where is the love and care professed by guys
where is d shield a guy is suppose to provide for his girl



Hmmm!
I don't have any problems with paying for my stuffs! I never relied on any guy for that, so no big deal!
But...there's a Big But;if we were dating for more than a year already, and in all that time he behaved differently,
why would be a change now,without him letting me know? And especially if he was the one who asked me out, not the
other way around, and also in a case where it is need of so little money? Hm!Something it's wrong there!
Because I think that after 16 months of dating we should be able to discuss about everything, so if he would have money
problems ,he just should have told me before, and not to pop up that request after the date!
Sorry,but that's ridiculous!
thanks girl
Posted: at 18-10-2010 12:15 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- macgreat at 18-10-2010 12:16 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: omorewa on 18-10-2010 11:56 AM
well there is nothing wrong with it and at the same time this scenario is weird..

anyway always hold your money when going out with someone to avoid embarrassment like this

You bi better person. . . O jare!  Kiss
 Grin

Posted: at 18-10-2010 12:16 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 18-10-2010 12:18 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 18-10-2010 11:51 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:48 AM
@ BS, u cud hav also told him wen he asked u tht u got money problems

Oh,come on!
It's not about that small amount of money here!
Who couldn't afford to pay for a movie and a soda!Come on!
It's about his gesture, which he was done without notice the girl before!  
Weird move from his part!
exactly ma point of arguement
he made a wrong move at first
Posted: at 18-10-2010 12:18 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 18-10-2010 12:19 PM (14 years ago)
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Am outa here
going to foot his bills for launch

Posted: at 18-10-2010 12:19 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bittersweet at 18-10-2010 12:19 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 12:10 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 18-10-2010 11:59 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:57 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 18-10-2010 11:51 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:48 AM
@ BS, u cud hav also told him wen he asked u tht u got money problems

Oh,come on!
It's not about that small amount of money here!
Who couldn't afford to pay for a movie and a soda!Come on!
It's about his gesture, which he was done without notice the girl before!  
Weird move from his part!
exactly, d amount of money is small, so why d headache of payin for ursef

mayb d guy was waitin for her to pay for both of dem??



He just should let her know from time,that'all!
That guy is more than weird!
and wht of d gal? she shudn let him knw tht she no go pay for it ??


Come on!
At that small amount of money, she probably didn't even expect him to not want to handle it!
When a guy asks a girl out,if they don't discuss about splitting the bills before, he should be the one who should take care of it!
Of course, the girl can offer to pay for her own too,but if she doesn't say anything, he should take care of everything, as long as
he made the invitation!
It's just common sense!

Posted: at 18-10-2010 12:19 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 18-10-2010 12:19 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 12:15 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 18-10-2010 11:46 AM
Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 09:40 AM
They have been dating for more than 16 months and then
He took her to the movies and asked her to pay for her entrance ticket
and cold drink for herself and even transport herself down home

What is really happening? where is the love and care professed by guys
where is d shield a guy is suppose to provide for his girl



Hmmm!
I don't have any problems with paying for my stuffs! I never relied on any guy for that, so no big deal!
But...there's a Big But;if we were dating for more than a year already, and in all that time he behaved differently,
why would be a change now,without him letting me know? And especially if he was the one who asked me out, not the
other way around, and also in a case where it is need of so little money? Hm!Something it's wrong there!
Because I think that after 16 months of dating we should be able to discuss about everything, so if he would have money
problems ,he just should have told me before, and not to pop up that request after the date!
Sorry,but that's ridiculous!
thanks girl

You're welcome!

Posted: at 18-10-2010 12:19 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- mallorca at 18-10-2010 12:25 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 12:19 PM
Am outa here
going to foot his bills for launch
correct babe...dont mind the ones who live by men

Posted: at 18-10-2010 12:25 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 18-10-2010 12:28 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mallorca on 18-10-2010 12:25 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 12:19 PM
Am outa here
going to foot his bills for launch
correct babe...dont mind the ones who live by men

Abi oooooooooooo Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 18-10-2010 12:28 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- blessedme at 18-10-2010 12:29 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 12:02 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 11:52 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 11:23 AM
Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 11:12 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 10:57 AM
Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 10:51 AM
Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 10:35 AM
i still disagree wif u
everything has to reach a mutual agreement girl
if u want to give ya guy a good treat from ya purse, fine!

sure! as a lady u dont ve to go out wif an empty purse
but to some extent and beside no lady goes out wit a guy
and ve the mindset of footing the bills except proven otherwise

and beside for 16months that was their first outing
and she equally went wif cash but marvelled at what d guy did

imagine u and ya guy at d counter to buy ticket and he brought out some huge amount of money
paid for his ticket and tuck d rest of d cash back to his pocket and then ask u to pay for your own and get yaself a drink
this is absolutely uncalled for

i'm picturing this story of urs in anoda direction..
i see the babe as the stingy type. yes..
i think the guy is trying to see if she can try to take up some responsibilities on her own.
things must be done accurately sophie
the girl is not a stingy chap, she is only being a girl ok
forget d fact dat everything is mordenized
and lets face d fact
a guy is taking u on a first date, den he should inform u to foot ya bills
and not to cook up a surprise shit for u,
if i want to give ma guy treat i will invite him and foot his bills hmm
and not d other way round
Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 09:40 AM
They have been dating for more than 16 months and then
He took her to the movies and asked her to pay for her entrance ticket
and cold drink for herself and even transport herself down home




they've been dating for more than sixteen months(1yr/4mths) and u are telling me crap?
since de've been dating, outing for the first tym to the movies doesn't require who pays d bills..
since he opted her footing her bills, den she should..

shey be she wan go MOVIES..
abi she no dey work?
or she no get orientation?
how much be drink?
coke/fanta highest 100 naira
ticket highest 800/1500..

atleast she shld get some cash in her purse..
for 16months that was thier first outing
let call a spade a spade, u know quite well that there shold ve being a mutual understanding b4 dis kain of thing come up
i sure know u cant stand dis anyway

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
u miss road blessing...
wherever i go to, i make sure i have atleast 2/3k in ma purse
besides, am not the outing type
i hardly go out,
i catch ma fun at home.
i no miss road infact i see wella
peeps are diff u know
diff strokes for diff folks
Posted: at 18-10-2010 12:29 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 18-10-2010 12:31 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:57 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 18-10-2010 11:51 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:48 AM
@ BS, u cud hav also told him wen he asked u tht u got money problems

Oh,come on!
It's not about that small amount of money here!
Who couldn't afford to pay for a movie and a soda!Come on!
It's about his gesture, which he was done without notice the girl before!  
Weird move from his part!
exactly, d amount of money is small, so why d headache of payin for ursef

mayb d guy was waitin for her to pay for both of dem??



The guy paid for himself and asked her to pay for herself

Posted: at 18-10-2010 12:31 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- xena15 at 18-10-2010 12:32 PM (14 years ago)
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Wat nonsense!
Did u say they've bin datin 4 16mths?
If she wants 2 foot her bills,let her do it bcos she wants 2,nt bcos she was asked 2!
Him dey kill d babe morale na!
Dat means wen they'll buy their wedding bands,him go buy him own,den ask her 2 buy her own!
Na wa o!

Posted: at 18-10-2010 12:32 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyiis at 18-10-2010 12:33 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mallorca on 18-10-2010 12:08 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 18-10-2010 12:01 PM
You know most times, the reason behind actions speaks louder than the actions themselves

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Nke Nwanyi kedu maka ndi be gi? i hope you pray for me yestaday in da church


We are fine dear thanks . ofcourse i would not have forgotten praying for someone like you  Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss

Posted: at 18-10-2010 12:33 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 18-10-2010 12:36 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mallorca on 18-10-2010 12:25 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 12:19 PM
Am outa here
going to foot his bills for launch
correct babe...dont mind the ones who live by men


............and the ridiculous men that will always want a woman's company

Posted: at 18-10-2010 12:36 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 18-10-2010 12:39 PM (14 years ago)
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 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy

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