solojaro at 18-12-2010 12:29 PM (13 years ago) (m) The main mistake of your friend was that she accepted a relationship with that guy knowing that he's already engaged! Obviously he used her! What she expected him to do? Dump his fiancée because she remained pregnant? She deceived herself big time! She must keep the baby,no matter what!
With this comment , I have nothing again to say. she is a big time fool. Posted: at 18-12-2010 12:29 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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HearMyCry at 18-12-2010 12:29 PM (13 years ago) (f) my brother dis guy needed something to keep his bed warm a lil, but here lies a result he is not willing to take in the guy is insisting abortion like mad, but girl no gree oooo, d guy is also very confused
abortion no solve the issue cos d stain has already been there d guy no want d belle oooo,cos he is so much attached to his fiancee SO ATTACHED TO HIS FIANCEE? YET HE HAS THE GUT TO CHEAT ON HER AND EVEN HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX? Posted: at 18-12-2010 12:29 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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blessedme at 18-12-2010 12:29 PM (13 years ago) (f) Hmmm i suggest she keep the baby no matter wht, she shud go tell her mum
as soon as possible, and let d guy knw she is not goin for abortion! If possible com to an understanding (financialy, emotionaly), if not then she is gonna do dis tin alone!
just d alone aspect of it that she is scared of I can understand tht, bcos it is not gonna b easy! Tht is why she shud go and tell her mum as fast as possible, then the parents still get enuf time to calm down and maybe reason differently then they will first do!
Does the girl still live home ?yes, she does live home Posted: at 18-12-2010 12:29 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Pointzero at 18-12-2010 12:31 PM (13 years ago) (m) sorry what he and d finace have is an intention to get married and fcuk it not all relationship lead to married and for the pregnant girl she shouldnt abort the pregnance cos she also have the right to be a woman as well as a wife, the relative and pastor are not God so they should go ahead and get them married.if the fiance can shift let her shieft and if she cant let her take her leave ,nothing should happen to that baby i can have them both sued for it
another way of reason too @damilola u talkam n e dey easy 4 ur mouth,make i ask u wat will be ur motive if u happens 2 be dis fiancee of this guy
NEMO DAT QUOD NON HABET Posted: at 18-12-2010 12:31 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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The main mistake of your friend was that she accepted a relationship with that guy knowing that he's already engaged! Obviously he used her! What she expected him to do? Dump his fiancée because she remained pregnant? She deceived herself big time! She must keep the baby,no matter what!
With this comment , I have nothing again to say. she is a big time fool.
Live and let live! Posted: at 18-12-2010 12:32 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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hmmm then she has to go tell na na !
make she also tell d guy dat she no want abortion! She need a lot of prayers to get through this!
Maybe it looks not possible now, but she will get there and still find happiness, only from now on
she shud tink betta and maybe listen to her friends Posted: at 18-12-2010 12:33 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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blessedme at 18-12-2010 12:34 PM (13 years ago) (f) my brother dis guy needed something to keep his bed warm a lil, but here lies a result he is not willing to take in the guy is insisting abortion like mad, but girl no gree oooo, d guy is also very confused
abortion no solve the issue cos d stain has already been there d guy no want d belle oooo,cos he is so much attached to his fiancee SO ATTACHED TO HIS FIANCEE? YET HE HAS THE GUT TO CHEAT ON HER AND EVEN HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX? according to ma frnd, i ask her wetin happen to condom ooo and she say d guy carry go do HIV, infection and vigina swap test Reason is, d guy no like condom Posted: at 18-12-2010 12:34 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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blessedme at 18-12-2010 12:36 PM (13 years ago) (f) hmmm then she has to go tell na na !
make she also tell d guy dat she no want abortion! She need a lot of prayers to get through this!
Maybe it looks not possible now, but she will get there and still find happiness, only from now on
she shud tink betta and maybe listen to her friends thank u for u dis infact for u Posted: at 18-12-2010 12:36 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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destiny247 at 18-12-2010 12:37 PM (13 years ago) (m) @Poster make you no abort the pikin oooooooooo . whether na you ooo or na your friend ooo enjoy the bobo finish come catch the ball at last. abeg make una try no kpai the nwa... Posted: at 18-12-2010 12:37 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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aww ur welcome dear Posted: at 18-12-2010 12:39 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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blessedme at 18-12-2010 12:39 PM (13 years ago) (f) @Poster make you no abort the pikin oooooooooo . whether na you ooo or na your friend ooo enjoy the bobo finish come catch the ball at last. abeg make una try no kpai the nwa...
i hear u mr DESTINY Posted: at 18-12-2010 12:39 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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i dey come. I never talk yet Posted: at 18-12-2010 12:44 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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sobeit at 18-12-2010 12:44 PM (13 years ago) (m) poster what advice are you expecting from pals when your friend was enjoying the koko, when she is fully aware the guy in question has another girl he's going to marry...you know what? this is what we call stupidity in the highest level.gosh! some girls are stupid as hell,some will step in here saying a lot of rubbish that men are these, men are that...hiss.imagine crying,for what then let her go ahead and have the baby that's the consequence of her action. period! Posted: at 18-12-2010 12:44 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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blessedme at 18-12-2010 12:45 PM (13 years ago) (f) PJ u are not always talkin yet abegii open ya mouth and say smthing jor Posted: at 18-12-2010 12:45 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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onyin at 18-12-2010 12:48 PM (13 years ago) (f) But why do we women like to stab ourselves.I mean if a lady like that can be able to say "NO" to such guys,i think the rate /level of cheating will reduce big time.Wow!.wat was she thinking?.and she got pregnant,even after knowing he's engaged and all.Well ,i dont blame the guy and i dont think he used her.cos she enjoyed the sex and so did he,cos he neva raped her.Its upto her to keep the baby or not.but please let her dont destory the guy's relationship with his wife to be.becos even if she destorys it,the guy wont marry her ,he will probably find sumone else.she needs to put her self together ,tell her parents and tell the guy she's keeping the baby.and she's 27yrs?.wow!.was she that desperate.thinking a baby will make him marry her.She's a full grown woman,i bet she will be fine. Posted: at 18-12-2010 12:48 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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blessedme at 18-12-2010 12:48 PM (13 years ago) (f) poster what advice are you expecting from pals when your friend was enjoying the koko, when she is fully aware the guy in question has another girl he's going to marry...you know what? this is what we call stupidity in the highest level.gosh! some girls are stupid as hell,some will step in here saying a lot of rubbish that men are these, men are that...hiss.imagine crying,for what then let her go ahead and have the baby that's the consequence of her action. period!
hmmmm, am just short of words Posted: at 18-12-2010 12:48 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Pointzero at 18-12-2010 12:49 PM (13 years ago) (m) my brother dis guy needed something to keep his bed warm a lil, but here lies a result he is not willing to take in the guy is insisting abortion like mad, but girl no gree oooo, d guy is also very confused
abortion no solve the issue cos d stain has already been there d guy no want d belle oooo,cos he is so much attached to his fiancee SO ATTACHED TO HIS FIANCEE? YET HE HAS THE GUT TO CHEAT ON HER AND EVEN HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX? according to ma frnd, i ask her wetin happen to condom ooo and she say d guy carry go do HIV, infection and vigina swap test Reason is, d guy no like condom If it happen like dat na him be say d guy wan marry am na..........maybe him wan marry 2.To reject CD d guy has second plan......but dis girl mumu ohh
NEMO DAT QUOD NON HABET Posted: at 18-12-2010 12:49 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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sobeit at 18-12-2010 12:49 PM (13 years ago) (m) poster what advice are you expecting from pals when your friend was enjoying the koko, when she is fully aware the guy in question has another girl he's going to marry...you know what? this is what we call stupidity in the highest level.gosh! some girls are stupid as hell,some will step in here saying a lot of rubbish that men are these, men are that...hiss.imagine crying,for what then let her go ahead and have the baby that's the consequence of her action. period!
hmmmm, am just short of words why ? Posted: at 18-12-2010 12:49 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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blessedme at 18-12-2010 12:51 PM (13 years ago) (f) But why do we women like to stab ourselves.I mean if a lady like that can be able to say "NO" to such guys,i think the rate /level of cheating will reduce big time.Wow!.wat was she thinking?.and she got pregnant,even after knowing he's engaged and all.Well ,i dont blame the guy and i dont think he used her.cos she enjoyed the sex and so did he,cos he neva raped her.Its upto her to keep the baby or not.but please let her dont destory the guy's relationship with his wife to be.becos even if she destorys it,the guy wont marry her ,he will probably find sumone else.she needs to put her self together ,tell her parents and tell the guy she's keeping the baby.and she's 27yrs?.wow!.was she that desperate.thinking a baby will make him marry her.She's a full grown woman,i bet she will be fine.
thank u for ya contribution Posted: at 18-12-2010 12:51 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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blessedme at 18-12-2010 12:52 PM (13 years ago) (f) poster what advice are you expecting from pals when your friend was enjoying the koko, when she is fully aware the guy in question has another girl he's going to marry...you know what? this is what we call stupidity in the highest level.gosh! some girls are stupid as hell,some will step in here saying a lot of rubbish that men are these, men are that...hiss.imagine crying,for what then let her go ahead and have the baby that's the consequence of her action. period!
hmmmm, am just short of words why ? cos its very complicated Posted: at 18-12-2010 12:52 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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