she ran into our house last night..........."Blessing i do dis guy's laundry, house chores, cook for him and d likes.......and also serve him well on bed too..............now I AM PREGNANT for HIM, but he want an abortion.....cos He is scared of breaking his engage bride-to-be's heart.........and doesnt know wat to tell d family & friends, d pastor who are aware of this courtship and his upcoming wedding to his fiancee..........................but i want to keep d baby.....pls what do i do?
Pals according to her before she and dis guy started d r/ship, he had told her about his fiancee whom he had been courting for close to a year now and intended getting married to her by next year......the guy has sleept with d fiancee just once and bcos he doesnt want to be sleeping wif her often, he sent her to Abuja to stay and work with a friend of his.
pals what i want to know are these:
1. could he (d guy) be using this girl as a sex mate/bed warmer or using her to satisfy his urge? 2. why was he reserving his fiancee? Is it that he had more respect for her than d already pregnant one? 3. what should she do? cos presently she is very confused and in a delima
Posted: at 18-12-2010 10:59 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
HearMyCry at 18-12-2010 11:09 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Do you play with fire and hope it doesnt burn you?
She was just being used and she knew it
Posted: at 18-12-2010 11:09 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
bittersweet at 18-12-2010 11:18 AM (13 years ago) (f)
The main mistake of your friend was that she accepted a relationship with that guy knowing that he's already engaged! Obviously he used her! What she expected him to do? Dump his fiancée because she remained pregnant? She deceived herself big time! She must keep the baby,no matter what!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 18-12-2010 11:18 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
Pointzero at 18-12-2010 11:19 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Ur 1st and 2nd question,i got this answer 4 'em....The guy just dey preserve him Eagle's egg dey shop chicken own ur 3rd question,If dis tori na real i no go advise make she abort am...................d polo don dey be say e don dey,so dem go carry there cross.Afta all na pain afta joy In conclusion...........i like dis guy cos him don prove himself.Incase 2moro him wife no born pikin make d world no call am impotent cos him don get evidence 2 defend am
NEMO DAT QUOD NON HABET
Posted: at 18-12-2010 11:19 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
blessedme at 18-12-2010 11:33 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: bittersweet on 18-12-2010 11:18 AM
The main mistake of your friend was that she accepted a relationship with that guy knowing that he's already engaged! Obviously he used her! What she expected him to do? Dump his fiancée because she remained pregnant? She deceived herself big time! She must keep the baby,no matter what!
i quite agree wif u dat she made a very big mistake, cos most times wen she tell me abt dis guy i always try to talk her out but she never listen to me now here comes d result
Posted: at 18-12-2010 11:33 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
blessedme at 18-12-2010 11:35 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Pointzero on 18-12-2010 11:19 AM
Ur 1st and 2nd question,i got this answer 4 'em....The guy just dey preserve him Eagle's egg dey shop chicken own ur 3rd question,If dis tori na real i no go advise make she abort am...................d polo don dey be say e don dey,so dem go carry there cross.Afta all na pain afta joy In conclusion...........i like dis guy cos him don prove himself.Incase 2moro him wife no born pikin make d world no call am impotent cos him don get evidence 2 defend am
d guy actually used her to achieve his aim, like d house chores etc and correct servicing on bed but d guy no try oooo
Posted: at 18-12-2010 11:35 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
Pointzero at 18-12-2010 11:40 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: blessedme on 18-12-2010 11:35 AM
Quote from: Pointzero on 18-12-2010 11:19 AM
Ur 1st and 2nd question,i got this answer 4 'em....The guy just dey preserve him Eagle's egg dey shop chicken own ur 3rd question,If dis tori na real i no go advise make she abort am...................d polo don dey be say e don dey,so dem go carry there cross.Afta all na pain afta joy In conclusion...........i like dis guy cos him don prove himself.Incase 2moro him wife no born pikin make d world no call am impotent cos him don get evidence 2 defend am
d guy actually used her to achieve his aim, like d house chores etc and correct servicing on bed but d guy no try oooo
the guy don prove him manliness. ceteris paribus.i feel 4 the scape mmee sha
NEMO DAT QUOD NON HABET
Posted: at 18-12-2010 11:40 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
blessedme at 18-12-2010 11:42 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-12-2010 11:30 AM
they r both stupid, but d gal pass everytin
d girl has everything to loose and to become a single mum in d guy's bedroom he has a portrait of his fiancee just opposite his bed according to her and that should ve told her everything she needs to know, and d guy even went as far as telling her dat his fiancee is like a part of him
Posted: at 18-12-2010 11:42 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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