Does it really matter?? I don't want to know about my boyfriend's ex nor do I want him to know about mines. Everytime I start talking to a guy, it's the normal conversation (what do you do, school, family, how many brothers and sisters, plans for the future...etc) then it goes to why don't you have a boyfriend.....now this is when I'm usually turned off by the conversation....what happen and they just start giving me the 3rd degree. I politely say, it just didn't work out, we were in two different places in our lives......but that just does not seem to be enough....like they think I am hiding something. The truth is, what happened between me and my ex is between me and my ex.....as long as I am not still with him while I'm trying to start a new r/ship, why should you care??

I think it would show bad character for a man to bad-mouth his ex-girlfriend; just like it would reflect badly on me if I bad mouth my ex-boyfriend….with someone I would potently like to have a future with.   

it's funny....

I think you are too old to be playing games (and lying) like this. If your boyfriend of 7yrs, this 29 year old man, is not serious about your relationship and still (at his age) running around with women, leave him the hell alone. What exactly are you waiting for? For y'all to get married.....and trust me he will still continue to do this.  After 7yrs he is comfort (his element) in treating you like this and you ahve allowed it for this long, now you are tired of it and want to scoop down to his level...and play even. This is a long time coming...break it off.

Basic words:

Body- Ahu
Head- Isi/ishi
Hair- Ntutu isi/ishi
Face- Ihu
Eye- Anya
Cheek- Nti
Ear- Nti
Neck- Olu
Mouth- Onu
Lip- Egbibere onu
Chest- Obi
Bosom - Ara
Heart- Obi
Hand- Aka
Stomach/Bello- Afo
Waist- Ukwu
Thigh- Apata
Leg- Ukwu

People are actually teaching me....love it.

What I have learned thus far:
what? = gini?
What is ur name? = gini bu aha gi?
what is happening? = gini na-eme?
what do you want? = gini ka ichoro?
which = kedu nke
which one do you want = kedu nke ichoro
which one is good = kedu nke di mma
who = onye
who is that = onye bu ihe ahu
who is calling me = onye na-akpo m
who wants to go = onye choro iga
where = ebee
where are you going = ebee ka ina-aga
where do you live = ebee ka ibe
how = kedu
how are you = kedu ki i di
how do we do it = kedu ka anyi ga-esi me ya
how is it = kedu ka o di
how many = ole
how many is it = ole ka-o bu
how much did you buy it = o le ka izuru ya
how much do you have = ole ka inwere
can you = i nwere ike
can you do it = i nwere ike i me ya
can you find it for me = i nwere ike i chotaa ram ya
can you find it = i nwere ike i chotaa ya
when = olee mgbe
when are you going = olee mgbe ina-aga
when did you come = olee mgbe ibiara
why = maka gini
why did you do it = maka gini ka i jiri mee ya
whose = nke onye

It's actually hard pronouncing these words. And it taking me a little longer cause I can't read Ibo, I ask others how to say these.

 

I get this alot...they said I'm planning something or thinking something evil....LOL....

This is a stupid question. A better question would be something like:
You ever go out and you see a gorgeous man/woman; I mean someone so fine…....it’s sinful but then you see them with a busted, ugly woman/man….and you thinking to yourself WTF?? How in the hell did that come about….and you are so mad like how did you get that person…LOL…..tell me you have never seen something like this….LOL…..

This was a movie based on a true story...saw it on lifetime.
I would leave him after finding out; press charges.....but honestly I would not have had the baby.

He has been with her for 2yrs?? Is that how the r/ship started out?? If the r/ship (the whole 2yrs) was based on sex, than that's expected....he is not interested in her w/o the sex. I see you said recently, so he just started wanted more sex than usually, I think that's normal.......

I support a woman's right to choose.

Teeth.

When I was younger, I used to be so scared of men and sex it was not even funny. I saw what my elder sister was going throuh with men and I told myself I will never be in that situation. jump from men to men, letting them treat you any how. I kept my head in the books. High school was even worst....I was so scared of having rumors go around about me that I hardly had the type of social young people usually have. I didn't have sex until I was 22 yrs old b/c I was scared of being used and called a how (wh*re...etc). Then I met a man...I guess I was tired of being scared. I fell in love fast and hard. He treating so good in the beginning. I trusted him with everything and trust does not come easy for me. If you knew me, you would know exactly what I'm talking about. Anyway, we had sex....after a few weeks, he started ignoring me, treating me like crap, yelling at me cuz I didn't call him, not picking up the phone when I did. I stayed b/c I refuse to believe that a man that I love, that I made love to, that was my first.... only wanted sex. I truly believed he cared about. Before we had, I wanted to break up so my times, because I am a difficult person and I would start arguments over stupid things and I had never been in a r/ship so everything was all new to me, and the feeling I was having for him was so strange. I would miss him when I wasn't with him, we would be on the phone but I wouldn’t talk and then we’ll hang up and I would wonder what he doing now and I wanted to talk to him. I was so shy around him but I wanted to be with him all the time. I didn't want to believe that a man I felt this strongly for would want to hurt me.  Would anybody call me stupid for being with this man, chasing him around?? I was in love and that is what love make you do, put up with anything...... 

I don't thik you have ever been in love.....we (both men and women)put up with a lot of sh!t b/c we are in love.

True...but in the end the decision is mines. I would want my mother's opinion on the men I date but it is definitely up to me who I choose to be with.

Thank you; I was about to say that: genetically it's wrong.

I can marry someone 10yrs older but not 10yrs younger.....I'll go to jail for that.

SCORPIO WOMEN: Inquisitive, searching and experimental. Knows that eroticism consists of more than the physical act of lovemaking. While looking like a perfectly lady in public, you dress and behave like a wh*re in the bedroom. Control of the  is very important and will try anything to help your man maintain his potency. You never take no for an answer and when interested in someone, you will pursue him with determination and guile. Best sex mates: Gemini, Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces. Props you love: scented body oils, flavored lubricating gels and vibrators.

AIN"T THAT THE TRUTH........

Yes nice one. That what you call music.....

I'll make love to you by Boys II Men