Good observation.

Men do that because of the following reason:

1)  Some men are shy when it comes to initiating a relationship with women

2)  Ego:
     Some are so egocentric that they want to wait for you to make the move instead.

3)  Fear:
    Whether we like it or not the truth is that putting on pants does not neccessarily make one a man.

4)  Rejection:
     Fear of rejection contributes to them foot-dragging when it comes to speaking a lady up

5)  Self confident:
     Some men does not just have that and are not ready to work on themselves.

6)  Money:
     As funny as this might sound fact is that there men who feel that to get a particular lady their pocket  have to be full!

7)   Past experience:
      This can also affect some men's approve to a new relationship.

   Class:
      Shoes they say have sizes; some men just feel that some ladies are way out of the league and wouldnt go to them!

9)   Attitude of the lady involved can also discourage a guy from making the move.

10)  Appearance:
       Some ladies' appearance are very bash and this can be a turn off even when a guty likes you!


@poster DO YOU STILL WANT MORE POINTS??  [/size]

Nice Stuff Dude.

It is a common for people here to run down other people post but you will never see them submit post even if it is going to keep them alive!

Keep it up.

LITTLE MINDS WILL ALWAYS BE LITTLE!

LIFE MOST MOVE ON; ABI U GO RESIGN?

You should make sure you know the kind of person the person is before telling him/her as people can be very funny and takes advantage of others.

Outside this, there is nothing wrong.

The watchward is trust and dependability.

ALL CATS ARE GREY IN THE DARK

YOUR POINT BEEN?

What ever we make up our mind to do is very possible.

All that is required is the committment to carry it out and through.

Yes you can abstain from sex for a year and beyond if you want to but me I KNOW FIT EVEN FOR TWO DAYS!

YOU DONT SEEM TO UNDERSTAND WHAT I WAS SAYING:

THIS CHICK WAS VERY HOT AND CHASING MY PAL ALL OVER THE PLACE: VISITED HIM IN SCHOLL SEVERALLY: WAITED FOR HIM IF HE WAS WITH OTHER CHICKS AND WAS READY TO F*** EVEN OUTSIDE SHOULD HE SAY THE WORD!

I just feel that she just wanted to get him hooked and mess things up (cus this is what is going to happen if she continues this way!

The nuptial knot was tied 20th December, 2008.

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The nuptial knot was tied 20th December, 2009.

No kids yet.

segxwal history?

She used to be very hot and was always initiating sex and sometimes begging for it when he complained of fatigue or whatever.

This has been refrred to severally but her excuses are always (very) lame.

He is a christain and can not take a second wife!

How i wish you know this woman!

She got all the assets and being with her and not been heated up is VERY difficult!

He who feels it knows it brother!

Ko easy, RA RA!!

I was with a friend last night and what he told me really got me thinking! We (myself and him) really need your advice before things goes awry!

What? You may ask.

Here is the story:

He is married to his sweet heart of so many years and they are presently having sex problem!

She seems to detest sex since their engagement and subsequent marriage!

I asked if it had always been that way and he answered in the negative.
Before this time it (sex) was really an exciting and wonderful experience
as it was something they both looked forward to.

He confided in me that one of the reason(s) (apart) from love was
because he thought they were very compactable in bed as
she seemed to be on the same wavelength with him segxwally
and he saw this as good since he would not want to cheat when married
but all that had changed since he married her.

Severally he told me that he had had to go get his segxwal appetite
satisfied by some of his old chicks and this really makes him feel bad afterward.

He has tried discussing the issue with her severally but she feels that he complains unnecessary!

People a word for a troubled pal please.

WE DEY WAIT!

Thank you.

Why not let us have detailed info so as to know how to come in?

It is better that way.

Ah, younger women.

It has taken me a long time now to finally see
clearly that the appeal of younger women is not
just "slight".

I recently read somewhere that when men get
married for the SECOND time, they marry women an
AVERAGE of 10 years younger.

Something like 20% of men who marry for a
second time wind up marrying a woman that is over
20 YEARS YOUNGER.

I also recall reading somewhere that women
are universally attracted to men who are older
than them, and that the "average" relationship
contains a man that is four years older than the woman.

Interesting stuff wouldnt you say?

I guess what I am trying to say here is that
this pattern of older men dating and marrying
younger women is not going away anytime soon.

In fact, I personally believe that the more
"socially acceptable" it becomes, the MORE it is
going to happen.

For most of my adult life, I have dated women
that were either my own age, or very close.

But for some reason, right about when I
turned 30, I began sometimes dating women who
were younger than me.

At first it was a little bit strange.

I didn't feel like I had anything to talk
about with a woman who was five or ten years
younger than me.

But the more it happened, the more I realized
that younger women have a certain appeal that
goes far beyond just the "physical beauty".

Younger women just have a different VIBE.

If you meet the right younger woman, you will
find that she can bring an amazing energy, vibe,
and youthful atmosphere to your life.

After having the experience myself, talking
to other guys who have shared it, and reading
about it a lot, I can say that many guys have
the experience of FEELING YOUNGER and MORE
VITAL when dating a younger woman.

It can be a blast.

Now, I am not saying that it is a bad idea to
date women your own age, or women who are older
than you.

Not at all, in fact.

To be continued.

call 911 or better still call me on: 0806 922 0002

AT LEAS HE GOT YOUR ATTENTION!

MISTAKE Number 3: Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission

In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), we guys are always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or "permission".

Another HORRIBLE idea.

Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them... EVER.

Do not get me wrong here.

You do not have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.
But if you think that treating a woman well means
"always getting her approval and permission for things", think again.

You will never succeed by looking for approval.
Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.

Doubt me?

Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her...

MISTAKE Number2: Trying To “Convince Her To Like You"

What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like...
but she is just not interested?

Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.

Well, I have news for you... Y
OU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!

Never, ever, EVER.

You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with "logic and reasoning".

Think about it.

If a woman does not "feel it" for you,
how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her?

But we all do it.

When a woman just is not interested,
we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.

Bad idea. One that will never work.

Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women—And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes...

MISTAKE Number1: Being Too Much Of A “Nice Guy”

Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to "nice" guys?

Of course you have.

Just like me, I am sure you have had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"...
but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.

What is going on here? It is actually very simple...

Women do not base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is.
They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.

And guess what?

Being nice does not make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.

And being NICE does not make a woman CHOOSE you.

I realize that this does not make a lot of logical sense,
and it is hard to ACCEPT... but GET OVER IT.

Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it,
you will NEVER have the success with women that you want.