Well, it's allowed!

why would some people just keep raising tribalistic topic?

Yoruba teenage gal get pregnat easily because they are very fertile ok?

They also get pregnant beacuse they fear God and would not want to abort, unlike some other tribes?

They dont commit murder beacuse they know the value of the seed they are carrying in the future.

Remember Yoruba generally tends to get married very early, unlike some tribe that would have to wait till eternity to get married and may have aborted like 10 pregnancies

Yoruba teenage gals get pregnant early beause they dont allow one mistake mark them for life, they still move on with their life after.

Getting pregnant is even an achievement in life.

SO DEAL WITH!

@paloma,

Interesting!

This is amazing ! na wa o!

strange things are happening under the phase of the earth o! It is well with you

Well, am still of the firm beleive that Romance/Luv and money works together!

Its only when the relationship is based totally on money that it will not work, there is no way you will be dating a person that you will not spend money no matter how little the money is.

 you need money to buy gift

you need money to go out on a date
you need money to go to eatery and even if you aint going anywhere you need money to prepare food at home

But when there is luv/romance without money, the relationship is like a plant without all the nutrient, so the plant can die of deprivation.

everybody needs money to survive in this world

so it now depends on whether the priority in the relationship is money or the luv

Sorry if am not being explicit, I only mean to ask whether there can ever be luv without money

Money here, can be gifts, cash etc

I got into a arguement on wheather true love can actually exist without money and everybody was just like it can exit but for me, I feel there just have to be a monetary value attched to it, to make it work. well I might be wrong anyway

Thank you sir/Ma!
but must you comment?

how visible?

It depend on the kind of mentality/orientation one have, some people can deal with it by accepting a bisegxwal person while others cant just stand it.
I think the best bet is just to let such partner go and sort him/herself out

This is so true!

I luv this article, Good job, so true and so funny

It happens for sure!

we all have different motive for getting married,it might be cos of children status, opportunity,desperation, pressure, age, luv or greed.

The couple again have never really co habited together for a long period it is always a on and of thing, vacation and holidays
they dont get to live together as husband and wife with kids, soo it is possible they dont even know each others xter completely.
they have been strangers for long.

perhaps she wanted to use the husband to get a Visa abroad or perhaps the husband too
is not totally innocent, perhaps they are just seeing themselves completely now that they are cohabiting.

the basic ingredient for the marriage to  work is understanding, alot of patience, affection, tolerance, luv and God.

the husband should just call the wife and settle it, they should address the problem by recalling the gud times.

gud luck

This is sheeer madness, must she marry a dead man to show she truly luved him?
she needs her head examined thi sis no longer love but obssesion.


so what is she trying to proof? why didnt she make the  journey with the man?

fooolish/mad gal

 means the samething in different sentence

get ur facts right, world population still shows that guys are more than gals
so dont get it twisted.
why not just simply say man is polygamous in nature not because gals are more.

well, longterm relationship is often like that but you have to really know what you want in a relationship and marriage.
all this while you were the one calling him, yet you didi not complain to him, how do you expect him to change in marriage?
i bet you he would still continue like that in marriage, what you couldnt change incourtship, how do you intend to change it in marraige without strain?

i think you should sit him down one on one,so you will both know and agree and so that there wont be springing of surprise in ur marriage.

gudd luck in your marraige and future

she doesnt really sound like a gud wife material.

however you can make do with the one by yourside in your above picture lol

Then why bother to introduce such person when it was suppose to be a fling?

or

Myopic topic based on self convinced and blind ignorance

every tribe has a fallacy about them? does that make the fallacy true e.g when they say igbos can kill their mum for money rituals dos that make it true?so if i come up with topic with this heading about igbos, would pple not be appalled?

why look for trouble or display ignorance of fact not within ur possesion?

if truly they are dirty dont they have a better side?perhaps much better of than other tribes.

is there any human being that doesnt have a negative side?

well like they say the truth is a bitter pill which people dont want to swallow but can give others huh

There is absolutely nothing wrong in it

you knew the kind of person she is before you married her, perhaps she is the friedly type
the fact that she even does it in your presence should free ur mind afterall is just talking

common dont be insecure, and if you are still in doubt try and talk to her about it

nothing bad in it

 Re: Dating!
« posted : Yesterday at 08:41:25 PM »  

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Save your breath Guys ,. your responses aint "actually" solicited!

wow! am almost perplexed with laughter here,..  i can only assume what hilarous moments all respondents must have had.    
I guess we are all just used to shortsleeved comments,. and not epistles like mine.

Anyway the jist of the story for the lackadaisicals is a twofold question:

1.What goes on in the Mind of a Nigerian lady immediately after a smalltalk?
...What does a Nigerian girl understand about Dating? And lastly,..
...How is dating carried on in a very Nigerian fashion?

2.Is double dating wrong?


I wanna believe the details to understanding these questions aint that core in mind to many,.. though i sincerely believe many, if not all respondents have gone through the Epistle.  

Have fun!  




well i have gone through the long and the short epistle but am going to respond to the short epistle which raise the questions and lesser scenerio

what goes on in the mind of a gal after small talk?  well even the devil does not know the mind of a man so no one but the owner know what is running through the mind of another.

But i can say that it depends on the kind of small talk, and the circumstances surrounding your meeting, if you meet at a party what would expect the gal to think? if it were to be in school or an academic environment then what a gal is thinking after small talk is obvious.

well i dont think you should worry about what a gal is thinking much cos gals too wonder what guys think about.

the question is what do you really want from a gal?

you dont just chat with a gal on a daily basis and expect her to still be non commitical and  carefree especially if she is the emotional type, or the clingy type.

Dating does not really have a unanimous definition to me cos it definitely varies from individual even inthe same country it varies among parties. some actually date just for the fun of it, while some people dont even date at all.

i have seen cases of people who just met and know they are right for each other and just marry. you dont learn issues like this in school.
 you have to know what you really want in a gal and in a relationship and have it at the back of you mind that no gal whatsover is perfect and without flaws. you can meet your drean gal anywhere in Nigeria or abroad once the connection is there


double dating is allowed when the relationship is heading nowhere BUT i personally find it apalling when sex is involve in double dating,it makes the gal look so cheap and none wiser. A gal will always have admirers even married women have admirers too but there should be a boundary.

Gudluck in ur search

Hell no! finace all?  no way!

why is he a man?except if the lady is forcing him to marry.
common marraige is a lifetime commitment why would she finace all, let the man own up and fulfil his part
what about his family. the guy might even resent the lady in the future if she finaces all

the lady should help but definitely not carry all the responsibilities, It takes two to tango