@Sophie, i stand corectd, bt i tink u misundrstnd or rather misrpresnt d word "Rltnshp". Eva heard of the word "2 bcums 1"? Until 1 is rdy 2 let go of ur points raisd abov, xcept point 4, den am sory dear, he/she will kip getin in/out of rltnships, cos:
1) Wen in a rltnshp, der's notin personal or "private" usin ur word, btwn u n ur spouse. Aftral, a clear conscience fears no acusatn.
2) If u cn't accommodate each others frnds, den u ain't n any rltnship. Trust me, if ur partner askd u stay off a frnd, dat frnd ain't healthy not jxt 4 d rltnshp, bt 4 u as a person.
3) Sory, ur spouse cums 1st, irrespectiv of fmly/frndz, cos dat my dear, is d bginin of a new chaptr n ur lyf, xcpt if u'r mstkn FLINGS 4 rltnshp.
4) Finaly, who else cn abuse u if nt ur spouse??? Datz pat of d ingredients dat spices up a rltnshp. It ain't all rosy dear. D ability 4 u 2 fyt, mkup n 4giv, mks d rltnshp strongr. Bt i dn't support physical/bodily abuse sha, cos i go jail d person.
Lyk i said, i stand correctd.
well said