so much jus to knw...after dat wat next?

Posted: at 11-09-2009 07:35 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I just noticed that most of the forumites dont like the above topic... maybe because its hard for some of them to xplain or rather they feel its not worth talking about, but they say learning is a continious process and and someone can enrich from your suggestions, opinions and wealth of experiences about this word LOVE. On a personal note, some of us misunderstand lust for love, maybe because LUST is deceptive and pretends to be LOVE. But when you meet your true love, someone that is meant for you, something in the inside of you will tell you that he or she is the one. He/She might be saying I LOVE U AND I WILL DIE FOR YOU for as many times as possible, that too might be all lies. You have to pay attention to the heart of that person whenever both of you are discussing and monitor his/her reaction towards everything you do or say, you will get to know more about his heart. Remember, you didnt tell us how long your friend have been dating with this guy. Also note, there are different kinds of guys with different lifestyles, so orientation, background and environmental factors may contribute to their attitudes and perception towards life. This is my little contribution for now... For more details email me at    [email protected]

professor of LOVE u really try:D

Posted: at 11-09-2009 08:45 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

How can you know if a guy loves you?

Ask him...

Posted: at 11-09-2009 08:54 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

you want to know whether the guy loves you???...you ask him!! If the answer isn't a straight up "Yes" it's a No. Don't try to read signs! Guys are very simple and don't work by signs...in my experience anyways.

Posted: at 11-09-2009 09:06 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

if he care's about u.secondly if he is not in a hurry to take u to his bed most inportant one he should care abot what u do for a living and lastly when he show's up often.

Posted: at 11-09-2009 09:26 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

Very simple question............

1..once a man's heart is made up, it can't be changed easily.. so if he truly loves you, you'll tell from his discussions with you and his expressions.. he will always want to take the relationship to the next level

2. He who findeth a wife findeth a good thing and obtains favour from the lord... If you meet someone that truly loves and wants to settle with you.. he wil be eager to introduce you to his parent and family immediately... once a guy is giving excuses, beware and flee if possible

3. His discussions will be about your future together

4.  Sex will not be his priority.. this is where most women make mistakes.. women feel they have to satisfy men segxwally for love to grow..... sex only brings emotional attraction and bondage...  that's why it's always hard to let go even if he doesn't love you anymore.

5.. Just watch out..if he doesn't talk about you meeting his family within a month, then he's not convinced about you..


thanks

Posted: at 11-09-2009 10:02 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

nice talk

Posted: at 11-09-2009 10:25 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

if u wanna know pretend to be dead

Posted: at 11-09-2009 11:33 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

These isn't really about me,but the question is that a friend of mine has been dating a guy for some months now,she asked mi if it was possible to know if the guy loved her n aw will you know?

Sex-starve him. U'll know!

 

What?

That thing..

Which is it u dont understand? Da sex or da starve?

You can't starve me you know that..

Cos u know u have lots of concubines outside abi? I cant even dare it!

Dead!!

Pls make sure u dont come back to life. I beg of u!

Na so you hate me reach?

Posted: at 12-09-2009 08:26 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

if you've been doing the calling then stop for a while to see the way he'll respond to the situation.

Dont think it'll work!

why not?

Posted: at 12-09-2009 11:32 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

if u wanna know pretend to be dead

and pass their go hell

Posted: at 12-09-2009 11:49 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

HE WILL WAKE UP FROM THE BED IF I WISH TO EAT PIZZA AND GO BUY FOR ME EVEN IF WE GET SOUP DEY FREEZE...:P:P

Posted: at 12-09-2009 09:10 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

umm.....................

Posted: at 12-09-2009 10:25 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

AND BRING COFE IN THE BED FOR ME AND MASSAGE ME ANYTIME I WISH AND...I THINK MORE

Posted: at 12-09-2009 10:31 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

Is dat so?

Posted: at 12-09-2009 11:23 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

i wld tell u to pray to God and find out if hes the rite man 4 ur unless ur fwend will jst waste r life like the ladies in Reloaded movie Go Watch It ..........lol

Posted: at 12-09-2009 11:44 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

Posted: at 13-09-2009 12:35 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

watching.......

Posted: at 13-09-2009 02:03 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

true talk...

Posted: at 13-09-2009 09:27 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

passing

Posted: at 14-09-2009 11:15 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie

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