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Posted: at 16-05-2010 05:08 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

it's a two way thing

there are some honesty that can hurt a man even unintentionally so be honest but knw when to draw the line

Well said...

Posted: at 16-05-2010 05:13 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

depends on the guy as well... there are guys who wanna know the number of ex she had before, guys who wuld have nightmare if they knew 

Posted: at 16-05-2010 05:30 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

hmmmmm!

Posted: at 16-05-2010 05:35 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

u hv 2 b honest, no matter wat. tell her d truth, were u hv wrong her, ofcourse she will let go or forgv if she truely luvs u, dan leting her find out by herself. i thnk it will b worst den. i belive truthfulness keeps relationship moving.

Posted: at 17-05-2010 07:48 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

heariiiiiiiii

Posted: at 17-05-2010 07:52 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

keep some secrets dat yu know wont hurt him later...

How long can U keep a secret. The only secrets that can be kept for very long are those only U are involved in. I doubt any man would fret over anything U did alone, unless of course U killed someone.

Posted: at 17-05-2010 07:55 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

[How honest u gotta be in a relationship?Do u have to tell ur spouse everything or u can still have secrets ?]

How honest u gotta be in a relationship?
Do u have to tell ur spouse everything or u can still have secrets ?

I'd rather we both came clean and settled on outstanding stuff then get ahead and keep it clean doing so. There is nothing hidden under the sun and the past always comes back to haunt one day. Knowing this I feel it's best to have exposed it before it shows up, that way years of building trust won't be thrown away by something that happened possibly even before U met.

Posted: at 17-05-2010 08:00 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

[How honest u gotta be in a relationship?Do u have to tell ur spouse everything or u can still have secrets ?]

How honest u gotta be in a relationship?
Do u have to tell ur spouse everything or u can still have secrets ?

Only Dishonest people keep Secrets from People they're Married to

Posted: at 17-05-2010 10:16 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

[How honest u gotta be in a relationship?Do u have to tell ur spouse everything or u can still have secrets ?]

How honest u gotta be in a relationship?
Do u have to tell ur spouse everything or u can still have secrets ?

I'd rather we both came clean and settled on outstanding stuff then get ahead and keep it clean doing so. There is nothing hidden under the sun and the past always comes back to haunt one day. Knowing this I feel it's best to have exposed it before it shows up, that way years of building trust won't be thrown away by something that happened possibly even before U met.

true talk...wuld be stupid to lose what u have over some 'mistakes' u made in the past and not being honest abt it
But then u shuld also know what kinda person ur dating with, if she wuld care abt all those small things or not

Posted: at 18-05-2010 08:51 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

why dig up irrelevant histories of the past that u cant change just to spoil the present & kill the future.

Most def' not my style.peace

Posted: at 18-05-2010 09:05 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

why dig up irrelevant histories of the past that u cant change just to spoil the present & kill the future.

Most def' not my style.peace

is up to u what u feel like telling her...if is like a divorce or sometin, i think is better to tell that...cuz she will find out anyway

Posted: at 18-05-2010 09:30 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

why dig up irrelevant histories of the past that u cant change just to spoil the present & kill the future.

Most def' not my style.peace

is up to u what u feel like telling her...if is like a divorce or sometin, i think is better to tell that...cuz she will find out anyway

Yep.

Posted: at 18-05-2010 09:38 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

ofcourse

Posted: at 18-05-2010 09:40 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

[How honest u gotta be in a relationship?Do u have to tell ur spouse everything or u can still have secrets ?]

How honest u gotta be in a relationship?
Do u have to tell ur spouse everything or u can still have secrets ?

Only Dishonest people keep Secrets from People they're Married to

Simple. Accurately put.

Posted: at 18-05-2010 09:42 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

[How honest u gotta be in a relationship?Do u have to tell ur spouse everything or u can still have secrets ?]

How honest u gotta be in a relationship?
Do u have to tell ur spouse everything or u can still have secrets ?

Of course.. U said my spouse, right ? My spouse is already like me, my half.. that person deserve to know everything. I mean every single thing, if both of us love each other.

Posted: at 18-05-2010 11:54 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

no deception tell it all

Posted: at 18-05-2010 04:04 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

no deception tell it all

as if u told urs

Posted: at 18-05-2010 04:17 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

[How honest u gotta be in a relationship?Do u have to tell ur spouse everything or u can still have secrets ?]

How honest u gotta be in a relationship?
Do u have to tell ur spouse everything or u can still have secrets ?

Married no secret......bt dating ya keep many to Ur sole self !

Posted: at 18-05-2010 04:44 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

[How honest u gotta be in a relationship?Do u have to tell ur spouse everything or u can still have secrets ?]

How honest u gotta be in a relationship?
Do u have to tell ur spouse everything or u can still have secrets ?

Married no secret......bt dating ya keep many to Ur sole self !

simple..........

Posted: at 19-05-2010 04:16 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

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