As a lady, you are a 'core' Christian, you believe wearing trouser is wrong but your husband/fiance insists that you must wear it. How are you going to get over this amicably knowing that the Bible admonishes you to be submissive to your husband and also knowing that God expects you to obey His laws (as you understand it).
As the man, would you see your wife's/fiancee's resistance to this as stubbornness? If she refuses to obey this particular command, would your ego be hurt?
Generally, whose word is the final here?
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 18-08-2010 01:13 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
PreetyInstinct at 18-08-2010 01:15 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Trouser matter?who wears d pants in d house shey?
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!
Posted: at 18-08-2010 01:15 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
As a lady, you are a 'core' Christian, you believe wearing trouser is wrong but your husband/fiance insists that you must wear it. How are you going to get over this amicably knowing that the Bible admonishes you to be submissive to your husband and also knowing that God expects you to obey His laws (as you understand it).
As the man, would you see your wife's/fiancee's resistance to this as stubbornness? If she refuses to obey this particular command, would your ego be hurt?
Generally, whose word is the final here?
1. God does not expect anyone to obey his voice as we UNDERSTAND (translate) but as His Spirit gives us inspiration to discern.
2. If U read Ur bible carefully God expects us to submit to the authorities set above us. He expects us to obey as a service to Him. If we cannot obey those authorities we can see with our eyes, how on earth will we submit to God who we can choose to not believe exists since we cannot see Him?
3. My ego would not be hurt. I believe telling the woman I love and am/will be entitled to give pleasures to and to draw pleasures from the things I find attractive should be a welcome development with her. I'm making things easier for the both of us. Should she choose to just be stubborn and not see reason then her resulting options would not be in her favor or for our good.
Posted: at 18-08-2010 01:30 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
Funny thing is a girl/woman wearing trousers is easier to bed than one wearing a skirt.
you get it all wrong... you think those who wear trousers are loose? it does not follow that way my friend; except it is in the idea that the ones who wear trousers are more exposed and would consent to reasonable ideas, whereas the skirt wearing ones may be the indoctrinated ones who use the canopy of religion to justify their incivility
Posted: at 18-08-2010 01:36 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Funny thing is a girl/woman wearing trousers is easier to bed than one wearing a skirt.
you get it all wrong... you think those who wear trousers are loose? it does not follow that way my friend; except it is in the idea that the ones who wear trousers are more exposed and would consent to reasonable ideas, whereas the skirt wearing ones may be the indoctrinated ones who use the canopy of religion to justify their incivility
No be wetin I talk o. Ur putting words in Ur mouth and calling them mine. Why U no go just ask?
Posted: at 18-08-2010 01:39 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
he shoulda known b4 now that the girl is a no trouser type she shoulda known b4 now that the man is a go trouser type
True. but shey U know say people dey dey very manipulative sometimes. The chic would swear heaven and earth that she would wear for him... She myt even try it out sometimes but at the back of her mind she's thinking "the day I get what I want, all this "pretense is over." He too myt think same, letting her wear or not wear expecting to IMPOSE rules on her she wasnt expecting cos he was pretending and didnt reveal it to her before they got married.
Human's are not transparent. Hardly ever sef, even with the one's they should be.
Posted: at 18-08-2010 01:45 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
As a lady, you are a 'core' Christian, you believe wearing trouser is wrong but your husband/fiance insists that you must wear it. How are you going to get over this amicably knowing that the Bible admonishes you to be submissive to your husband and also knowing that God expects you to obey His laws (as you understand it).
As the man, would you see your wife's/fiancee's resistance to this as stubbornness? If she refuses to obey this particular command, would your ego be hurt?
Generally, whose word is the final here?
And who say God's law forbids wearing trouser!, Please I will appreciate if u could tell me more about this God's law that forbids women from wearing trouser!
Loving, humble and humorous to sane & reasonable people
Posted: at 18-08-2010 01:51 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac