Who Has the Final Word?

Date: 18-08-2010 1:13 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Obiajunwa
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- at 18-08-2010 01:13 PM (13 years ago)
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As a lady, you are a 'core' Christian, you believe wearing trouser is wrong but your husband/fiance insists that you must wear it.  How are you going to get over this amicably knowing that the Bible admonishes you to be submissive to your husband and also knowing that God expects you to obey His laws (as you understand it).

As the man, would you see your wife's/fiancee's resistance to this as stubbornness? If she refuses to obey this particular command, would your ego be hurt?

Generally, whose word is the final here? Cool


Posted: at 18-08-2010 01:13 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
- PreetyInstinct at 18-08-2010 01:15 PM (13 years ago)
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Trouser matter?who wears d pants in d house shey?

Posted: at 18-08-2010 01:15 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 18-08-2010 01:20 PM (13 years ago)
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If my husband like to c me in trousers, no problem i can do tht...

I am living with him, loving and respecting him, so why not??

Posted: at 18-08-2010 01:20 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bittersweet at 18-08-2010 01:24 PM (13 years ago)
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Still exist young women who are not wearing trousers, nowadays?  Shocked

Posted: at 18-08-2010 01:24 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 18-08-2010 01:30 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 18-08-2010 01:13 PM
As a lady, you are a 'core' Christian, you believe wearing trouser is wrong but your husband/fiance insists that you must wear it.  How are you going to get over this amicably knowing that the Bible admonishes you to be submissive to your husband and also knowing that God expects you to obey His laws (as you understand it).

As the man, would you see your wife's/fiancee's resistance to this as stubbornness? If she refuses to obey this particular command, would your ego be hurt?

Generally, whose word is the final here? Cool

1. God does not expect anyone to obey his voice as we UNDERSTAND (translate) but as His Spirit gives us inspiration to discern.

2. If U read Ur bible carefully God expects us to submit to the authorities set above us. He expects us to obey as a service to Him. If we cannot obey those authorities we can see with our eyes, how on earth will we submit to God who we can choose to not believe exists since we cannot see Him?

3. My ego would not be hurt. I believe telling the woman I love and am/will be entitled to give pleasures to and to draw pleasures from the things I find attractive should be a welcome development with her. I'm making things easier for the both of us. Should she choose to just be stubborn and not see reason then her resulting options would not be in her favor or for our good.
Posted: at 18-08-2010 01:30 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 18-08-2010 01:31 PM (13 years ago)
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Funny thing is a girl/woman wearing trousers is easier to bed than one wearing a skirt.
Posted: at 18-08-2010 01:31 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bhl72 at 18-08-2010 01:31 PM (13 years ago)
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whoever said wearing trousers is wrong? ha! you guys are explaining Deut 22:5 out of context. Pls ask the sponsor to check up Bible commentaries...

2ndly, because it has to do with her husband, it is the rule that a woman has to submit in ALL things...
Posted: at 18-08-2010 01:31 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 18-08-2010 01:33 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bhl72 on 18-08-2010 01:31 PM
whoever said wearing trousers is wrong? ha! you guys are explaining Deut 22:5 out of context. Pls ask the sponsor to check up Bible commentaries...

2ndly, because it has to do with her husband, it is the rule that a woman has to submit in ALL things...

Posted: at 18-08-2010 01:33 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 18-08-2010 01:34 PM (13 years ago)
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of course not all tins, only when u feel comfortable with it !
Posted: at 18-08-2010 01:34 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bhl72 at 18-08-2010 01:36 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 18-08-2010 01:31 PM
Funny thing is a girl/woman wearing trousers is easier to bed than one wearing a skirt.

you get it all wrong... you think those who wear trousers are loose? it does not follow that way my friend; except it is in the idea that the ones who wear trousers are more exposed and would consent to reasonable ideas, whereas the skirt wearing ones may be the indoctrinated ones who use the canopy of religion to justify their incivility
Posted: at 18-08-2010 01:36 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bhl72 at 18-08-2010 01:38 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-08-2010 01:34 PM
of course not all tins, only when u feel comfortable with it !

well that depends on what standard you have invoked; and what its threshold is
Posted: at 18-08-2010 01:38 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 18-08-2010 01:39 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bhl72 on 18-08-2010 01:38 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-08-2010 01:34 PM
of course not all tins, only when u feel comfortable with it !

well that depends on what standard you have invoked; and what its threshold is
Everybody got different principals, different view, different way of living...
Posted: at 18-08-2010 01:39 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onchedu at 18-08-2010 01:39 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bhl72 on 18-08-2010 01:36 PM
Quote from: onchedu on 18-08-2010 01:31 PM
Funny thing is a girl/woman wearing trousers is easier to bed than one wearing a skirt.

you get it all wrong... you think those who wear trousers are loose? it does not follow that way my friend; except it is in the idea that the ones who wear trousers are more exposed and would consent to reasonable ideas, whereas the skirt wearing ones may be the indoctrinated ones who use the canopy of religion to justify their incivility

No be wetin I talk o. Ur putting words in Ur mouth and calling them mine. Why U no go just ask?
Posted: at 18-08-2010 01:39 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- wallas at 18-08-2010 01:40 PM (13 years ago)
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he shoulda known b4 now that the girl is a no trouser type
she shoulda known b4 now that the man is a go trouser type
Posted: at 18-08-2010 01:40 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 18-08-2010 01:42 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: wallas on 18-08-2010 01:40 PM
he shoulda known b4 now that the girl is a no trouser type
she shoulda known b4 now that the man is a go trouser type


In what century are u living, Wallas?Huh?

Posted: at 18-08-2010 01:42 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 18-08-2010 01:44 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 18-08-2010 01:24 PM
Still exist young women who are not wearing trousers, nowadays?  Shocked

Yea, there are still.........

Posted: at 18-08-2010 01:44 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 18-08-2010 01:45 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: wallas on 18-08-2010 01:40 PM
he shoulda known b4 now that the girl is a no trouser type
she shoulda known b4 now that the man is a go trouser type

True. but shey U know say people dey dey very manipulative sometimes. The chic would swear heaven and earth that she would wear for him... She myt even try it out sometimes but at the back of her mind she's thinking "the day I get what I want, all this "pretense is over." He too myt think same, letting her wear or not wear expecting to IMPOSE rules on her she wasnt expecting cos he was pretending and didnt reveal it to her before they got married.

Human's are not transparent. Hardly ever sef, even with the one's they should be.
Posted: at 18-08-2010 01:45 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 18-08-2010 01:46 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 18-08-2010 01:44 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 18-08-2010 01:24 PM
Still exist young women who are not wearing trousers, nowadays?  Shocked

Yea, there are still.........

I'm surprised!
Trousers are definitely more comfortable!

Posted: at 18-08-2010 01:46 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 18-08-2010 01:47 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bhl72 on 18-08-2010 01:31 PM
whoever said wearing trousers is wrong? ha! you guys are explaining Deut 22:5 out of context. Pls ask the sponsor to check up Bible commentaries...

2ndly, because it has to do with her husband, it is the rule that a woman has to submit in ALL things...

Please, could you explain that portion better...........

And mind you, more than one passage of the Bible came into this post.......I dey wait Grin

Posted: at 18-08-2010 01:47 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- humblej at 18-08-2010 01:51 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 18-08-2010 01:13 PM
As a lady, you are a 'core' Christian, you believe wearing trouser is wrong but your husband/fiance insists that you must wear it.  How are you going to get over this amicably knowing that the Bible admonishes you to be submissive to your husband and also knowing that God expects you to obey His laws (as you understand it).

As the man, would you see your wife's/fiancee's resistance to this as stubbornness? If she refuses to obey this particular command, would your ego be hurt?

Generally, whose word is the final here? Cool
And who say God's law forbids wearing trouser!, Please I will appreciate if u could tell me more about this God's law that forbids women from wearing trouser!

Posted: at 18-08-2010 01:51 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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