Why in 9ja, wife's money is hers while husband's money is theirs? (Page 6)

Date: 24-04-2012 8:00 am (12 years ago) | Author: Groove Rocker
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- verah at 24-04-2012 04:52 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Thomax on 24-04-2012 11:51 AM
and did i mention tht men shud be asking their wives for money ni? ths is simple English na. why u girls mind dey scatter like this? alws on the defensive but if a lady start a topic talking shit abt guys, no guys comes out on the defensive like ths. na waoo for 9ja babes oo.
if we no defend ourselves who mak we defend nah bros? besides it d man duty to spend nd spend nd it d wife duty to satisfy nd satisfy............  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin men r meant 2 spend  women r meant to collect... gaskia

Posted: at 24-04-2012 04:52 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- AareOnakakanfo at 24-04-2012 04:55 PM (12 years ago)
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Men should be prepared to provide for their family and the women to support - simples.
We shouldn't make life and especially marriage overtly complicated.

Posted: at 24-04-2012 04:55 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- verah at 24-04-2012 04:55 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on 24-04-2012 12:39 PM
The story has change ooo, some men citeria to marry now is your fat account and the type of car you drive. may God step in oooo. o ka umu nwoke ndi naija.
lady T u dey mind dem..... mak woman begin support them wit moni so d moni go begin enter their head dem go carry am go dey giv another toothpik leg girl outside... Grin Grin Grin Grin lailai man must spend spend spend nd women must collect collect collect till thy kingdom com na so he b notin fit change am...........  Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley but d woman can support if only she is willing..

Posted: at 24-04-2012 04:55 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Treasure2 at 24-04-2012 05:00 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: verah on 24-04-2012 04:55 PM
lady T u dey mind dem..... mak woman begin support them wit moni so d moni go begin enter their head dem go carry am go dey giv another toothpik leg girl outside... Grin Grin Grin Grin lailai man must spend spend spend nd women must collect collect collect till thy kingdom com na so he b notin fit change am...........  Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley but d woman can support if only she is willing..
Not if she is willing, there are little little stuff woman does not need man to remind her. But understanding is basic.
Posted: at 24-04-2012 05:00 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- AareOnakakanfo at 24-04-2012 05:04 PM (12 years ago)
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If what I'm reading in the various posts by some of our ladies are true, then I'm not suprised that they are finding it difficult to get guys to marry them.
No wonder, the number of single ladies are high.

Posted: at 24-04-2012 05:04 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- HOPEA23 at 24-04-2012 05:07 PM (12 years ago)
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What's wrong with if a man spending his money on his woman?
Is because of her u went out there to hustle

Posted: at 24-04-2012 05:07 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 24-04-2012 05:08 PM (12 years ago)
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Poster you most chop my money
I go care because of get am plenty

Posted: at 24-04-2012 05:08 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- interpo77 at 24-04-2012 05:27 PM (12 years ago)
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WE NIGERIAN HUSBANDS HAS SUFFERED ALOT,OUR WIVES RE HOPELESS AND SHOWS NO LOVE ON US,THEY RE HELPLESS AND VERY NEGATIVE, THEY SEIZE THEIR MONIES FOR THEIR USELESS PRETENCIES,AND FEED ON OUR WITH EVERY ALACRITY, WELL I ASK GOD FOR MORE MONEY SO  I CAN NEVER CARE FOR HERS
Posted: at 24-04-2012 05:27 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Neglito at 24-04-2012 07:16 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on 24-04-2012 10:03 AM
@Poster, na wa, why you dey talk this na. Woman money na for maintenace na why man money na to spend,  Grin
What are you maintaining?Huh? ode
Posted: at 24-04-2012 07:16 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mizcollins1 at 24-04-2012 07:41 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Thomax on 24-04-2012 08:00 AM
There is a serious issue in Nigeria for many years where married couples are suppose to be partners but nooooooooo! Instead, a wife working & making money on her own, ties her money to herself while she believes her husband's money belongs to her. Even cases where the wife is making money more than her husband she still expects her husband to feed & pay all the bills in the house including her own bills.

Some wives will even wait till their husbands get back from travels before collecting money for feeding the children while the ones they made on their own are pocketed. Situations where some wives buy properties or cars in their own names while their husbands buy properties with their names like Mr Jude & Mrs Princess Okere for property title documents but same can't be said of most 9ja women. The best u will get frm most 9ja women is borrowing which alws leads to fight & insults if the husband failed to return it on time. Grin Grin Grin

Now my question is - is this fair to we guys or husbands in this society? Why will a woman pocket her own interest funds while she spends the token her hubby makes claiming her money is hers while his money is theirs? Wht the hell is the meaning of this? Smells like a day light scamming.... Angry Angry

  • Guys, is this fair enough? Ur wife spending frm ur money while she keeps hers without even letting u smell it?
  • Ladies, can your money be shared btw u & ur husband's equally like men do their wives (note I said husband nt boy friend)?
  • Ladies again Grin, if u are making money more than ur hubby, will u be kind enuf to relieve him of som major burdens in home expenses without collecting it back claiming tht u only borrowed him e.g. paying house rent without asking back even if he's nt tht broke?

I believe marriage suppose to be a partnering thing to show love & support not a choking life decision.... Grin Grin
me personally i do think it's unfair of women to pocket their money to themselve's when rent n such needs to be paid.... for example my mum n dad  both work but dad pays the rent n dat,but when an unexpected thing happens and dad needs money mum always gives it to him without being re paid, and to me its how its suposse to be.. because its how a marriage life should be....if a woman works i dont  see the point of not even buying food for her own kids cuz hubby is out of town or work!! thats just plain stupidity
Posted: at 24-04-2012 07:41 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mizcollins1 at 24-04-2012 07:44 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: AareOnakakanfo on 24-04-2012 05:04 PM
If what I'm reading in the various posts by some of our ladies are true, then I'm not suprised that they are finding it difficult to get guys to marry them.
No wonder, the number of single ladies are high.

ma guy make you talk am again for ppl who don have ears make them  hear am!!!
Posted: at 24-04-2012 07:44 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- engrthomas at 25-04-2012 03:52 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: wilat on 24-04-2012 10:37 AM
Mthcew,na poverty dey disturb u,go beg ur wife make she give you money no come here dey complain for us.

I sure say your phone, credit, pant, dress, shoe, hair, food and water when u dey drink... na different men buy am for you... It's quite funny that it's only Naija girls that have such mentality. It's such a shame how Naija girls go just believe say dem no fit use their both hands work but expect the boyfriend/hubby to provide for all their needs. Continue ur Money 4 Hand... Back 4 Ground bizness. SHAME!!!
Posted: at 25-04-2012 03:52 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- malvin2525 at 25-04-2012 05:54 AM (12 years ago)
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 Huh? Roll Eyes Huh? Roll Eyes Huh? Roll Eyes Huh? Roll Eyes Huh? Roll Eyes
Posted: at 25-04-2012 05:54 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- princejosh at 25-04-2012 07:15 AM (12 years ago)
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some women keeps showing us how good they were brought up.
guys i still don't understand why we re still wasting our time on women like this.
they can never listen and they can never learn, to even the one who say that their earning is for making up'
what kind of make up will make that her face look like a wife material?
some women will never grow up, don't forget pig is always a pig.
but i still respect the ones who re well brought up, well mannered women like my mother, i still respect her till death.
Posted: at 25-04-2012 07:15 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- Solidstonez at 25-04-2012 08:25 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: ROYAlPRINCE77 on 24-04-2012 04:45 PM
solidstonez say something and stop that ur hmmmmmmmmmm na woman matter we de talk today,
the matter pass me ohhhh, i no want talk watin i go receive slap for my dear................................

Posted: at 25-04-2012 08:25 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kpelebesexy at 25-04-2012 08:31 AM (12 years ago)
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women with their fish brain for there mind them wise die......hisssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
Posted: at 25-04-2012 08:31 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- dickman2 at 25-04-2012 08:43 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on 24-04-2012 10:03 AM
@Poster, na wa, why you dey talk this na. Woman money na for maintenace na why man money na to spend,  Grin
story..
Posted: at 25-04-2012 08:43 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dickman2 at 25-04-2012 08:45 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: wilat on 24-04-2012 10:37 AM
Mthcew,na poverty dey disturb u,go beg ur wife make she give you money no come here dey complain for us.
Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss..hello sweetie,,whatsup my angel.. Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss..i see u ..
Posted: at 25-04-2012 08:45 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dickman2 at 25-04-2012 08:48 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: jumie88 on 24-04-2012 10:49 AM
Abi ohh my dear..na so e suppose b b4 nah Wink Wink Grin Grin Kiss Kiss afterall na bcoz of us dem dey work... Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Grin Grin Tongue
see u ,,if them no come get money owner go cut off their dick,,abi..na the new style ,,
Posted: at 25-04-2012 08:48 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dickman2 at 25-04-2012 08:48 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: jumie88 on 24-04-2012 10:49 AM
Abi ohh my dear..na so e suppose b b4 nah Wink Wink Grin Grin Kiss Kiss afterall na bcoz of us dem dey work... Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Grin Grin Tongue
see u ,,if them no come get money owner go cut off their dick,,abi..na the new style ,,
Posted: at 25-04-2012 08:48 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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