epitome_of_b at 17-02-2009 05:24 PM (16 years ago)
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Am a girl of 20years i live in Hong Kong ,i need your advice on something, i want to Marie but did not know whom to get married to ,i have a guy am going out with now i have been with him for 1year and now ,he wants to Marie me,my family want me to Marie him because his the person that brought me to Hong Kong,but they did not know him as much as i now him,the his character is good here ,but i don't know if that is because he don't have much money now like before,there is another guy from living here that is asking me to Marie him ,one guy that is living in Nigeria still asking me to come back and lets wed,
Please i don't know what to do ,my guy as of now don't have any thing ,am the person feeding him for now but that is not my problem i know that in future things will change ,but my problem is that the work his doing here have no future,and he had nothing in Nigeria and secondly he don't know how to make love i mean in bed but his careering in other aspect,and i don't want to Merrie out of Marcie,maybe because he brought me here then i will make mistake in marriage,the other two guys are rich but that is not the issuer the issuer here is who is my husband amongst them.
Another thing is that ever since we started going out things have not been moving on well is only the small amount of money that i use to make at the end of month ,we use it in paying house rent,is it that we are not meant to be together or is it temptation? do i go ahead and Marie one of the other two or do i Marie him.please tell me something as soon as possible before i make mistake .
i prefer u get married to the guy that brought u from darkness to light. What i mean is that, he took u from africa and sent u abroad, That was to proof his love for u. And if he can't satiusfy u on be the way u want, u teach him if u know better. No one on earth is old to learn. If realy, he still show u the love and care, then don't let him Go. Just pray that God should makes things better in future
Posted: at 17-02-2009 06:57 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
princemech at 17-02-2009 08:10 PM (16 years ago) (m)
Quote from: epitome_of_b on 17-02-2009 05:24 PM
Am a girl of 20years i live in Hong Kong ,i need your advice on something, i want to Marie but did not know whom to get married to ,i have a guy am going out with now i have been with him for 1year and now ,he wants to Marie me,my family want me to Marie him because his the person that brought me to Hong Kong,but they did not know him as much as i now him,the his character is good here ,but i don't know if that is because he don't have much money now like before,there is another guy from living here that is asking me to Marie him ,one guy that is living in Nigeria still asking me to come back and lets wed,
Please i don't know what to do ,my guy as of now don't have any thing ,am the person feeding him for now but that is not my problem i know that in future things will change ,but my problem is that the work his doing here have no future,and he had nothing in Nigeria and secondly he don't know how to make love i mean in bed but his careering in other aspect,and i don't want to Merrie out of Marcie,maybe because he brought me here then i will make mistake in marriage,the other two guys are rich but that is not the issuer the issuer here is who is my husband amongst them.
Another thing is that ever since we started going out things have not been moving on well is only the small amount of money that i use to make at the end of month ,we use it in paying house rent,is it that we are not meant to be together or is it temptation? do i go ahead and Marie one of the other two or do i Marie him.please tell me something as soon as possible before i make mistake .
i said it b 4.....naija gals where una keep una love,guy una d see statements, if u realy sure u want to get married to naija gal...i beg una with God,make una find money well well ooooooooooo b 4 wetin wan happen to this guy happen to u......guy hope una d feel me ooooooo,i don talk my own ooo :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
Posted: at 17-02-2009 08:10 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
vivian07 at 17-02-2009 08:25 PM (16 years ago) (f)
poster, u are the reason guys hate to take their loved once with them, u re an ingrate if u start complaining u re feeding him cos things went bad for him. but when he was ok u where enjoying him. pls don't break his heart.
Posted: at 17-02-2009 08:25 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
just pray to God to help you and make the right decission, but at the same time you dont have to lave the person that brought you out from africa because that will be breaking of heart
Posted: at 17-02-2009 11:09 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
akjasper at 17-02-2009 11:31 PM (16 years ago) (m)
Quote from: epitome_of_b on 17-02-2009 05:24 PM
Am a girl of 20years i live in Hong Kong ,i need your advice on something, i want to Marie but did not know whom to get married to ,i have a guy am going out with now i have been with him for 1year and now ,he wants to Marie me,my family want me to Marie him because his the person that brought me to Hong Kong,but they did not know him as much as i now him,the his character is good here ,but i don't know if that is because he don't have much money now like before,there is another guy from living here that is asking me to Marie him ,one guy that is living in Nigeria still asking me to come back and lets wed,
Please i don't know what to do ,my guy as of now don't have any thing ,am the person feeding him for now but that is not my problem i know that in future things will change ,but my problem is that the work his doing here have no future,and he had nothing in Nigeria and secondly he don't know how to make love i mean in bed but his careering in other aspect,and i don't want to Merrie out of Marcie,maybe because he brought me here then i will make mistake in marriage,the other two guys are rich but that is not the issuer the issuer here is who is my husband amongst them.
Another thing is that ever since we started going out things have not been moving on well is only the small amount of money that i use to make at the end of month ,we use it in paying house rent,is it that we are not meant to be together or is it temptation? do i go ahead and Marie one of the other two or do i Marie him.please tell me something as soon as possible before i make mistake .
Well dnt rush into marriage now ...or u jst wanna drop Ur guy 'cos he is dwn finiancially or 'Cos he can't give u d satisfaction u needed?? all i can tell you is just to pray abt dis 'Cos is an everlasting thing....good luck.
Posted: at 17-02-2009 11:31 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
chrissiebee at 17-02-2009 11:33 PM (16 years ago) (f)
sorry! 2 long, dont feel like reading!!!
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Posted: at 17-02-2009 11:33 PM (16 years ago) | Hero