Falling in love may feel like a bed of roses , but if you find that your love isn’t reciprocated equally, you may end up hurt or feeling insecure about the relationship status.
Understanding and dealing with insecurity in a relationship isn’t easy, especially if your partner doesn’t understand you or what you’re going through.
And at times, the confusion in intimacy levels between two lovers can cause more pain and frustration that even a break up.
an insecure relationship right now? Really, why do you feel insecure in your relationship?
One of the best ways to understand relationship insecurities is to understand the root cause of the problem.
You’re insecure because you’re afraid of losing your lover (maybe to someone else). But why do you feel that way?
Do you feel insecure in the relationship because a lot of people are attracted to your lover? Is it because your partner spends a lot of time out with their own friends and doesn’t call you? Or is it because your partner never really makes you feel special and appreciated.
Once you’ve understand the cause of your relationship insecurities, speak to your partner about it. You don’t have to tell your partner that you’re feeling insecure, that may just strain the relationship further. Just mention that you don’t feel loved at times and explain a few examples when you did feel insecure.
Don’t sound frustrated or sad, just say it matter-of-factly. If your partner does love you, they’d try to reassure you and make you feel better .
But before you voice your insecurities, be certain that it’s something your partner can reasonably change. It’s alright to ask your boyfriend to pay more attention to you when he’s with his friends or while talking to another girl. It’s just not alright to ask him to stop talking to girls or his friends.
GIVE MEANING TO LIFE,NOT WAIT LIFE TO GIVE MEANING,IS LIKE A SAILING USE ANY WIND TO ANY DIRECTION
Posted: at 9-05-2012 06:02 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming |
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