How can I forgive this man who married me just to get parmanent stay. We had a child together plus one I had earlier, and now he has gone back to Nigeria to marry a benin girl as he is also a benin. Acccording to the girl, they have been dating since ten years ago. And we're together for four years, I started to notice that he send money to this particular name every month. When I asked him, he said she is my nice, but later found out that whiles we're still married here and was planning to go home and marry the girl without telling me.
People can be wicked in this life.
happy75
Posted: at 21-02-2009 06:21 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
chrissiebee at 21-02-2009 06:31 PM (15 years ago) (f)
sorry ehn!!
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Posted: at 21-02-2009 06:31 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
How can I forgive this man who married me just to get parmanent stay. We had a child together plus one I had earlier, and now he has gone back to Nigeria to marry a benin girl as he is also a benin. Acccording to the girl, they have been dating since ten years ago. And we're together for four years, I started to notice that he send money to this particular name every month. When I asked him, he said she is my nice, but later found out that whiles we're still married here and was planning to go home and marry the girl without telling me.
People can be wicked in this life.
happy75
sorriee o
2.0.
Posted: at 21-02-2009 06:45 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
daysolar at 21-02-2009 07:53 PM (15 years ago) (f)
mmm... u know u can report to the immigration that he married u for papers without ur consent... guys like that should be taught a big lesson... u deserve better.. deal with him.. u've got the power, and if not, let it be. Sorry..
Posted: at 21-02-2009 07:53 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
mmm... u know u can report to the immigration that he married u for papers without ur consent... guys like that should be taught a big lesson... u deserve better.. deal with him.. u've got the power, and if not, let it be. Sorry..
How could he have married her w/o her consent?? Immigration can't do sh!t cux she can't prove to 'em that....his sole purpose of marrying her was for pappers. How are we even sure that's why he married her?? It could be that things didn't work between them and she just wants to blame it on anything/him.
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Posted: at 21-02-2009 08:57 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
mmm... u know u can report to the immigration that he married u for papers without ur consent... guys like that should be taught a big lesson... u deserve better.. deal with him.. u've got the power, and if not, let it be. Sorry..
How could he have married her w/o her consent?? Immigration can't do sh!t cux she can't prove to 'em that....his sole purpose of marrying her was for pappers. How are we even sure that's why he married her?? It could be that things didn't work between them and she just wants to blame it on anything/him.
Possibly
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Posted: at 21-02-2009 09:05 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
ceejay58 at 22-02-2009 12:51 AM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: happy75 on 21-02-2009 06:21 PM
How can I forgive this man who married me just to get parmanent stay. We had a child together plus one I had earlier, and now he has gone back to Nigeria to marry a benin girl as he is also a benin. Acccording to the girl, they have been dating since ten years ago. And we're together for four years, I started to notice that he send money to this particular name every month. When I asked him, he said she is my nice, but later found out that whiles we're still married here and was planning to go home and marry the girl without telling me.
People can be wicked in this life.
happy75
sorry dear, anyway that is life for you.....
Posted: at 22-02-2009 12:51 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
ogunfunmi at 22-02-2009 09:38 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Kennee on 21-02-2009 09:05 PM
Quote from: welli on 21-02-2009 08:57 PM
Quote from: daysolar on 21-02-2009 07:53 PM
mmm... u know u can report to the immigration that he married u for papers without ur consent... guys like that should be taught a big lesson... u deserve better.. deal with him.. u've got the power, and if not, let it be. Sorry..
How could he have married her w/o her consent?? Immigration can't do sh!t cux she can't prove to 'em that....his sole purpose of marrying her was for pappers. How are we even sure that's why he married her?? It could be that things didn't work between them and she just wants to blame it on anything/him.
kennee fit do am
Possibly
Posted: at 22-02-2009 09:38 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
How can I forgive this man who married me just to get parmanent stay. We had a child together plus one I had earlier, and now he has gone back to Nigeria to marry a benin girl as he is also a benin. Acccording to the girl, they have been dating since ten years ago. And we're together for four years, I started to notice that he send money to this particular name every month. When I asked him, he said she is my nice, but later found out that whiles we're still married here and was planning to go home and marry the girl without telling me.
People can be wicked in this life.
happy75
wow...dats so bad....u cant report it...ull get yurself in trouble...it takes 2 to tango......just divorce him....get custody of ur baby...n if he gives u a hard time abt the kid....im sure there r wayz to give him hell.....sorri...dats just bad
Posted: at 22-02-2009 09:48 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
Reporting him to the immigration is wasting my time b'cos nothing is going to come out of it. He has already gotten the stay and they can't take it back. The marriage didn't work out b'cos his one leg was in Nigeria and one was in Sweden, he hardly tell me things. The issue is that I didn't notice on time, if the marriage didn't work and he find another girl now to marry, then that's a different issue, but he has been dating this girl, sending her money, calling and others whiles he was with me. So all these years, he kept promising her am coming for you, just give me a little time. This little time was to get the stay. But I have left everything to God, who sees in secret and knows everything to judge for me.
Posted: at 22-02-2009 11:15 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming