watch out for men like this

Date: 21-02-2009 6:21 pm (15 years ago) | Author:
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- at 21-02-2009 06:21 PM (15 years ago)
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How can I forgive this man who married me just to get parmanent stay. We had a child together plus one I had earlier, and now he has gone back to Nigeria to marry a benin girl as he is also a benin. Acccording to the girl, they have been dating since ten years ago. And we're together for four years, I started to notice that he send money to this particular name every month. When I asked him, he said she is my nice, but later found out that whiles we're still married here and was planning to go home and marry the girl without telling me.

People can be wicked in this life.

happy75

Posted: at 21-02-2009 06:21 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
- Kennee at 21-02-2009 06:25 PM (15 years ago)
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Very Sorry Dear, but yu're not the first Victim of such, but Sorry tho

Posted: at 21-02-2009 06:25 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- chrissiebee at 21-02-2009 06:31 PM (15 years ago)
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sorry ehn!!

Posted: at 21-02-2009 06:31 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- welli at 21-02-2009 06:34 PM (15 years ago)
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Naija Men again!!
Una cup go soon full. Grin


Posted: at 21-02-2009 06:34 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Toks-E at 21-02-2009 06:45 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: happy75 on 21-02-2009 06:21 PM
How can I forgive this man who married me just to get parmanent stay. We had a child together plus one I had earlier, and now he has gone back to Nigeria to marry a benin girl as he is also a benin. Acccording to the girl, they have been dating since ten years ago. And we're together for four years, I started to notice that he send money to this particular name every month. When I asked him, he said she is my nice, but later found out that whiles we're still married here and was planning to go home and marry the girl without telling me.

People can be wicked in this life.

happy75

sorriee o

Posted: at 21-02-2009 06:45 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- daysolar at 21-02-2009 07:53 PM (15 years ago)
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mmm... u know u can report to the immigration that he married u for papers without ur consent... guys like that should be taught a big lesson...
u deserve better.. deal with him.. u've got the power, and if not, let it be. Sorry..
Posted: at 21-02-2009 07:53 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- cjluis at 21-02-2009 08:08 PM (15 years ago)
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So sorry for it jarre ............jst bear it and carry on wit ur life!!!
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- welli at 21-02-2009 08:57 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: daysolar on 21-02-2009 07:53 PM
mmm... u know u can report to the immigration that he married u for papers without ur consent... guys like that should be taught a big lesson...
u deserve better.. deal with him.. u've got the power, and if not, let it be. Sorry..
How could he have married her w/o her consent??
Immigration can't do sh!t cux she can't prove to 'em that....his sole purpose of marrying her was for pappers.
How are we even sure that's why he married her??
It could be that things didn't work between them and she just wants to blame it on anything/him.

Posted: at 21-02-2009 08:57 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Kennee at 21-02-2009 09:05 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: welli on 21-02-2009 08:57 PM
Quote from: daysolar on 21-02-2009 07:53 PM
mmm... u know u can report to the immigration that he married u for papers without ur consent... guys like that should be taught a big lesson...
u deserve better.. deal with him.. u've got the power, and if not, let it be. Sorry..
How could he have married her w/o her consent??
Immigration can't do sh!t cux she can't prove to 'em that....his sole purpose of marrying her was for pappers.
How are we even sure that's why he married her??
It could be that things didn't work between them and she just wants to blame it on anything/him.

Possibly

Posted: at 21-02-2009 09:05 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Pires07 at 21-02-2009 09:22 PM (15 years ago)
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ouh. t00 painful. take hrt

Posted: at 21-02-2009 09:22 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- vivian07 at 21-02-2009 09:56 PM (15 years ago)
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just tell it to God in prayers. he has the solution and u don't know wat he has in stuck for u that he allowed all dis to happen.
Posted: at 21-02-2009 09:56 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- Oceandrive at 21-02-2009 10:02 PM (15 years ago)
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Life...

Posted: at 21-02-2009 10:02 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- vivian07 at 21-02-2009 10:07 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: Oceandrive on 21-02-2009 10:02 PM
Life...
is a teacher.
Posted: at 21-02-2009 10:07 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- princesser2love at 21-02-2009 10:42 PM (15 years ago)
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SORRY LIFE IS NOT A LONG LANE WITHOUT A BEND, JUST TAKE HEART LET ME REMIND U , THAT REPORTING HIM TO IMIGRATION OFFICER WILL PUT U IN BIG TROUBLE
Posted: at 21-02-2009 10:42 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- welli at 21-02-2009 10:44 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: princesser2love on 21-02-2009 10:42 PM
THAT REPORTING HIM TO IMIGRATION OFFICER WILL PUT U IN BIG TROUBLE
Why and how??

Posted: at 21-02-2009 10:44 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sa-fire at 21-02-2009 10:45 PM (15 years ago)
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@poster... sorry.. i feel for u.

Posted: at 21-02-2009 10:45 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ceejay58 at 22-02-2009 12:51 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: happy75 on 21-02-2009 06:21 PM
How can I forgive this man who married me just to get parmanent stay. We had a child together plus one I had earlier, and now he has gone back to Nigeria to marry a benin girl as he is also a benin. Acccording to the girl, they have been dating since ten years ago. And we're together for four years, I started to notice that he send money to this particular name every month. When I asked him, he said she is my nice, but later found out that whiles we're still married here and was planning to go home and marry the girl without telling me.

People can be wicked in this life.

happy75

sorry dear, anyway that is life for you.....
Posted: at 22-02-2009 12:51 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- ogunfunmi at 22-02-2009 09:38 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on 21-02-2009 09:05 PM
Quote from: welli on 21-02-2009 08:57 PM
Quote from: daysolar on 21-02-2009 07:53 PM
mmm... u know u can report to the immigration that he married u for papers without ur consent... guys like that should be taught a big lesson...
u deserve better.. deal with him.. u've got the power, and if not, let it be. Sorry..
How could he have married her w/o her consent??
Immigration can't do sh!t cux she can't prove to 'em that....his sole purpose of marrying her was for pappers.
How are we even sure that's why he married her??
It could be that things didn't work between them and she just wants to blame it on anything/him.
kennee fit do am

Possibly
Posted: at 22-02-2009 09:38 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- exhale at 22-02-2009 09:48 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: happy75 on 21-02-2009 06:21 PM
How can I forgive this man who married me just to get parmanent stay. We had a child together plus one I had earlier, and now he has gone back to Nigeria to marry a benin girl as he is also a benin. Acccording to the girl, they have been dating since ten years ago. And we're together for four years, I started to notice that he send money to this particular name every month. When I asked him, he said she is my nice, but later found out that whiles we're still married here and was planning to go home and marry the girl without telling me.

People can be wicked in this life.

happy75
wow...dats  so bad....u cant report it...ull  get yurself in trouble...it  takes 2 to tango......just  divorce him....get custody of ur baby...n if he gives u a hard time abt the kid....im sure there r wayz to give him hell.....sorri...dats just bad
Posted: at 22-02-2009 09:48 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- happy75 at 22-02-2009 11:15 PM (15 years ago)
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Reporting him to the immigration is wasting my time b'cos nothing is going to come out of it. He has already gotten the stay and they can't take it back. The marriage didn't work out b'cos his one leg was in Nigeria and one was in Sweden, he hardly tell me things. The issue is that I didn't notice on time, if the marriage didn't work and he find another girl now to marry, then that's a different issue, but he has been dating this girl, sending her money, calling and others whiles he was with me. So all these years, he kept promising her am coming for you, just give me  a little time. This little time was to get the stay. But I have left everything to God, who sees in secret and knows everything to judge for me.
Posted: at 22-02-2009 11:15 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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