How can I forgive this man who married me just to get parmanent stay. We had a child together plus one I had earlier, and now he has gone back to Nigeria to marry a benin girl as he is also a benin. Acccording to the girl, they have been dating since ten years ago. And we're together for four years, I started to notice that he send money to this particular name every month. When I asked him, he said she is my nice, but later found out that whiles we're still married here and was planning to go home and marry the girl without telling me. People can be wicked in this life.
happy75
sorry u happened to b d victim.. i'm sure never meant to hurt u.. it's just dat..a man gonna do wot a man gonna do.. it's all abt survival...forgive him. see yeye old man giivng advice!!! lmao!!!! gud one tho..so cos a man's gasta do what a man gasta do now....we women should suffer?!
<a href=" http://tinypic.com" target="_blank"><img src=" http://i41.tinypic.com/2ezmli0.jpg" border="0" alt="Image and video hosting by TinyPic">[/url]STILL A CERTIFIED V-SQUADER!! Take it or leave it!  A wise man told me don't argue with fools,Cause people from a distance, can't see who is who Posted: at 23-02-2009 09:48 PM (16 years ago) | Hero | |
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Kennee at 23-02-2009 09:54 PM (16 years ago) (m) hisssssssssssssssssssssssssssss.
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE Posted: at 23-02-2009 09:54 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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raskydammy at 23-02-2009 10:03 PM (16 years ago) (m) thanks GOD and @poster thank you too...just take hrt sha, i will be sending you private e-mail to console u Posted: at 23-02-2009 10:03 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Abby at 23-02-2009 10:04 PM (16 years ago) (f) " a man gonna do wot a man gonna do... it's all abt survival"...  ... sounds like u'll do the same... if it happens to your mother, sister or friend, its still going to be about survival, right? , joker, get real... i heard of this dude who has 3 kids n a wife in Nigeria, came to the uk to marry a woman, n was supporting his family in Nigeria with the womans money... n yes ofcos that too is about survival... what happened to working for your money and the days when the men used to be men. its a shame that people think like you ... i believe in karma, n i hope he gets whats coming... Posted: at 23-02-2009 10:04 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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raskydammy at 23-02-2009 10:09 PM (16 years ago) (m) " a man gonna do wot a man gonna do... it's all abt survival"...  ... sounds like u'll do the same... if it happens to your mother, sister or friend, its still going to be about survival, right? , joker, get real... i heard of this dude who has 3 kids n a wife in Nigeria, came to the uk to marry a woman, n was supporting his family in Nigeria with the womans money... n yes ofcos that too is about survival... what happened to working for your money and the days when the men used to be men. its a shame that people think like you ... i believe in karma, n i hope he gets whats coming... stories...better start writing some story Posted: at 23-02-2009 10:09 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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kayroid at 23-02-2009 10:14 PM (16 years ago) (m) So sad... Posted: at 23-02-2009 10:14 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Abby at 23-02-2009 10:24 PM (16 years ago) (f) @ raskydammy err... i'm sure u were not compelled to read it, if it's a story to go beat your head against the wall ... Posted: at 23-02-2009 10:24 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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survival of the smartest...... he's a hustla babe,he did what he had to do to get what he had to get.
YOU BE THE KING,I'LL WEAR THE CROWN...DEAL? Posted: at 23-02-2009 10:30 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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raskydammy at 23-02-2009 10:32 PM (16 years ago) (m) @ raskydammy err... i'm sure u were not compelled to read it, if it's a story to go beat your head against the wall ...  hummm....to whom it may concern Posted: at 23-02-2009 10:32 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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ceejay58 at 24-02-2009 12:46 AM (16 years ago) (m) hissssssssssssssssssssss Posted: at 24-02-2009 12:46 AM (16 years ago) | Hero | |
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Resi at 24-02-2009 01:07 PM (16 years ago) (f) I just want to give a piece of advice to men,my cousin sister had same experience.She did nt let go believe it or not she placed a curse on the man in a river,with sand in her hands and she was fully naked,she uttered some bitter words and that followed the man. The wife cud nt bear him a child,he also fell ill (urinating & excreating in his body) he went far and near to seek for help but was told to go back to the first wife to appologised.He came and he was forgiven but died that nite. We should be careful how will hurt fellow human,for there is God up there that fight for people. @ poster I felt for you but do allow God fight for you,take very good care of the child.
I Believe... True Friendship continues to grow... even over... the longest distance...( I need my son as much as I need my breath.) Posted: at 24-02-2009 01:07 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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SAmyrocko at 24-02-2009 03:44 PM (16 years ago) (m) wetin na?
Life is one big road with lots of signs, so when you are riding through th Posted: at 24-02-2009 03:44 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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t-prinx at 24-02-2009 04:02 PM (16 years ago) (m) I just want to give a piece of advice to men,my cousin sister had same experience.She did nt let go believe it or not she placed a curse on the man in a river,with sand in her hands and she was fully naked,she uttered some bitter words and that followed the man. The wife cud nt bear him a child,he also fell ill (urinating & excreating in his body) he went far and near to seek for help but was told to go back to the first wife to appologised.He came and he was forgiven but died that nite. We should be careful how will hurt fellow human,for there is God up there that fight for people.
@ poster I felt for you but do allow God fight for you,take very good care of the child.
that 1 too much now,those guys ar hustlas na and they all ave some1 back home b4 they travel so u wan them nt amrry the 1 at home? Posted: at 24-02-2009 04:02 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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bilol at 26-02-2009 01:29 PM (16 years ago) (f) poster i really feel for u ooooooo Posted: at 26-02-2009 01:29 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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How can I forgive this man who married me just to get parmanent stay. We had a child together plus one I had earlier, and now he has gone back to Nigeria to marry a benin girl as he is also a benin. Acccording to the girl, they have been dating since ten years ago. And we're together for four years, I started to notice that he send money to this particular name every month. When I asked him, he said she is my nice, but later found out that whiles we're still married here and was planning to go home and marry the girl without telling me.
People can be wicked in this life.
happy75
well all i can say is sorry.. shit happens. Good thing you know.. The solution will come within you... and be prayerful OK! Posted: at 28-02-2009 05:02 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Rify at 28-02-2009 05:39 AM (16 years ago) (f) Shit Happens Get over it and move on
I ROLL WITH THE BEST SO FU*K THE REST... Posted: at 28-02-2009 05:39 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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go with you there Riffy... Posted: at 28-02-2009 07:04 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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SAmyrocko at 28-02-2009 08:18 AM (16 years ago) (m) Life goes on.
Life is one big road with lots of signs, so when you are riding through th Posted: at 28-02-2009 08:18 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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diplomatik at 9-03-2009 02:00 AM (16 years ago) (f) How can I forgive this man who married me just to get parmanent stay. We had a child together plus one I had earlier, and now he has gone back to Nigeria to marry a benin girl as he is also a benin. Acccording to the girl, they have been dating since ten years ago. And we're together for four years, I started to notice that he send money to this particular name every month. When I asked him, he said she is my nice, but later found out that whiles we're still married here and was planning to go home and marry the girl without telling me.
People can be wicked in this life.
happy75
sorry ooooooooo.........i dey feel for you
u've seen me right?  i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either  , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool  Posted: at 9-03-2009 02:00 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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d_man at 9-03-2009 02:44 AM (16 years ago) (m) @poster...''Life aint fair'' and watever card it deals u.play it the best way can stop looking @ wat u aint gat and start looking @ wat u do ve..and live ur life.. Be strong and smarter next time..God will see u thru
Be yourself Posted: at 9-03-2009 02:44 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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