Six Ways to End a Relationship Maturely

Date: 09-06-2012 11:46 pm (11 years ago) | Author: psalmmy
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Ending a relationship is never easy, even when you’ve truly had enough and you’re ready for freedom. Break up with others as you would like to be broken up with. Other than that, here are 6 of our best break-up methods.



1. Be honest

Whether he ends up believing you or not, being honest with whomever you’re breaking up with is the best way to go. Tell him why you need to move on and answer any questions he may throw at you as honestly as you can. Think about the times you were dumped with no reason. How did you feel? It probably frustrated you wondering why, when things appeared to be going so well, he decided to end it. Be fair and be honest with him.

2. Pick the right time

Some poor choices include at a party or any other social gathering, in the car or doing a mundane yet domestic task together such as grocery shopping. Chances are, he’ll be caught off guard no matter when you break the bad news, but if you do it in the frozen food section, he may have a much stronger reaction that if you do it at a café or in your neighborhood park. There is never going to be a perfect time to break up with someone, but try to have as much control over the time as you can, rather than blurting it out over brunch with friends.

3. Do it in a public place

This minimizes the chances for chaos. If you’re in a restaurant and there are people around, he will be less likely to fly off the handle and cause a scene. If you’re alone and he freaks out, you might be more likely to cave and call the whole thing off. Being in a public place may give you the confidence you need to follow through. Plus, when it’s over you can just walk away, rather than trying to get him to leave you place.

4. Do it in person

Do not be that person who ends a relationship electronically. Breaking up with someone via text, email or even over the phone is totally disrespectful. Even if you can’t wait to be rid of him, at least have the courage to look him in the eye as you dump him.



5. Make sure you are absolutely ready to do it

Not being totally sure of your feelings when you go to end a relationship can mess with your heart and his. If you’re not completely certain that it’s the right thing to do, you’ll confuse him and make him feel like he still has a chance, or worse, you’ll lose him when you still have feelings for him. Be totally ready to cut the ties or risk more heartache than necessary.

6. Take the high road

Chances are if he doesn’t see it coming, he won’t be happy with being dumped. He will curse at you, call you every name in the book, and make you feel like hauling off and punching him in the face. Restrain yourself. You’re leaving anyway, so just take a deep breath, nod politely and then walk away. You won’t gain anything by goading him on or giving him the satisfaction of knowing he upset you.

Posted: at 9-06-2012 11:46 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
- Shaunie at 10-06-2012 01:09 AM (11 years ago)
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How many girls had break up with u in past,you're talking from experience
Posted: at 10-06-2012 01:09 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- tels at 10-06-2012 01:30 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Shaunie on 10-06-2012 01:09 AM
How many girls had break up with u in past,you're talking from experience
it dont have to be from experience........... Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Posted: at 10-06-2012 01:30 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- tels at 10-06-2012 01:36 AM (11 years ago)
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i would agree with all five,but number six would be very immature thing to do with someone ur trying to break up with,that would defeat the purpose....... Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue
Posted: at 10-06-2012 01:36 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- dickman2 at 10-06-2012 01:47 AM (11 years ago)
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ok...
Posted: at 10-06-2012 01:47 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kevdevirux at 10-06-2012 01:58 AM (11 years ago)
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This was posted by a freaky Bitch....
why always use "He" "Him" why not use "Her" "She"


A BITCH... that's what defines u. Angry Angry Angry Angry
And for that am Publicly dumping ur Bitchy Ass coz I have had enough already... Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 10-06-2012 01:58 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- tels at 10-06-2012 02:20 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: dejiroony on  9-06-2012 11:46 PM
Ending a relationship is never easy, even when you’ve truly had enough and you’re ready for freedom. Break up with others as you would like to be broken up with. Other than that, here are 6 of our best break-up methods.



1. Be honest

Whether he ends up believing you or not, being honest with whomever you’re breaking up with is the best way to go. Tell him why you need to move on and answer any questions he may throw at you as honestly as you can. Think about the times you were dumped with no reason. How did you feel? It probably frustrated you wondering why, when things appeared to be going so well, he decided to end it. Be fair and be honest with him.

2. Pick the right time

Some poor choices include at a party or any other social gathering, in the car or doing a mundane yet domestic task together such as grocery shopping. Chances are, he’ll be caught off guard no matter when you break the bad news, but if you do it in the frozen food section, he may have a much stronger reaction that if you do it at a café or in your neighborhood park. There is never going to be a perfect time to break up with someone, but try to have as much control over the time as you can, rather than blurting it out over brunch with friends.

3. Do it in a public place

This minimizes the chances for chaos. If you’re in a restaurant and there are people around, he will be less likely to fly off the handle and cause a scene. If you’re alone and he freaks out, you might be more likely to cave and call the whole thing off. Being in a public place may give you the confidence you need to follow through. Plus, when it’s over you can just walk away, rather than trying to get him to leave you place.

4. Do it in person

Do not be that person who ends a relationship electronically. Breaking up with someone via text, email or even over the phone is totally disrespectful. Even if you can’t wait to be rid of him, at least have the courage to look him in the eye as you dump him.



5. Make sure you are absolutely ready to do it

Not being totally sure of your feelings when you go to end a relationship can mess with your heart and his. If you’re not completely certain that it’s the right thing to do, you’ll confuse him and make him feel like he still has a chance, or worse, you’ll lose him when you still have feelings for him. Be totally ready to cut the ties or risk more heartache than necessary.

6. Take the high road

Chances are if he doesn’t see it coming, he won’t be happy with being dumped. He will curse at you, call you every name in the book, and make you feel like hauling off and punching him in the face. Restrain yourself. You’re leaving anyway, so just take a deep breath, nod politely and then walk away. You won’t gain anything by goading him on or giving him the satisfaction of knowing he upset you.
pls,if ur going to do a story about relationships,pls include men about how to break up with a woman,becos most of them break up with the woman with no explain either Angry
Posted: at 10-06-2012 02:20 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- tels at 10-06-2012 02:27 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: kevdevirux on 10-06-2012 01:58 AM
This was posted by a freaky Bitch....
why always use "He" "Him" why not use "Her" "She"


A BITCH... that's what defines u. Angry Angry Angry Angry
And for that am Publicly dumping ur Bitchy Ass coz I have had enough already... Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
yep, that WOULD sound like a TOTAL BITCH!!!!!!!! Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
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- zicooo at 10-06-2012 02:34 AM (11 years ago)
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poster i know u must be  a heart break
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- Nakpoi at 10-06-2012 03:12 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: kevdevirux on 10-06-2012 01:58 AM
This was posted by a freaky Bitch....
why always use "He" "Him" why not use "Her" "She"

The poster is a male:- Watin conine bitch that bitch this for inside this man matar, na wa for U ooooooooooooo


A BITCH... that's what defines u. Angry Angry Angry Angry
And for that am Publicly dumping ur Bitchy Ass coz I have had enough already... Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 10-06-2012 03:12 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- jeromchis at 10-06-2012 03:24 AM (11 years ago)
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My beloved brethren in naijapals,please i want to use this medium to ask for a favor regarding to the situation of our nation-please forgive me if i have wronged you  Cheesy Grin we all born this way-we never choose where to be born either black,white, Asia etc what really matters is how did you live your life,how did you impact good to the earth you found yourself inn....

The prayer request  for the Afflicted in Nigeria :   Psalm 91
King James Version (KJV)

91 He that dwelleth in the secret place of the most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty.

2 I will say of the Lord, He is my refuge and my fortress: my God; in him will I trust.

3 Surely he shall deliver thee from the snare of the fowler, and from the noisome pestilence.

4 He shall cover thee with his feathers, and under his wings shalt thou trust: his truth shall be thy shield and buckler.

5 Thou shalt not be afraid for the terror by night; nor for the arrow that flieth by day;

6 Nor for the pestilence that walketh in darkness; nor for the destruction that wasteth at noonday.

7 A thousand shall fall at thy side, and ten thousand at thy right hand; but it shall not come nigh thee.

8 Only with thine eyes shalt thou behold and see the reward of the wicked.

9 Because thou hast made the Lord, which is my refuge, even the most High, thy habitation;

10 There shall no evil befall thee, neither shall any plague come nigh thy dwelling.

11 For he shall give his angels charge over thee, to keep thee in all thy ways.

12 They shall bear thee up in their hands, lest thou dash thy foot against a stone.

13 Thou shalt tread upon the lion and adder: the young lion and the dragon shalt thou trample under feet.

14 Because he hath set his love upon me, therefore will I deliver him: I will set him on high, because he hath known my name.

15 He shall call upon me, and I will answer him: I will be with him in trouble; I will deliver him, and honour him.

16 With long life will I satisfy him, and shew him my salvation.  please lets pray for God's mercy,no matter  what you believe in,please Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry   
Posted: at 10-06-2012 03:24 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- jeromchis at 10-06-2012 04:11 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: dickman2 on 10-06-2012 01:47 AM
ok...

   Thank you dear,a small contributions of interest in prayer counts and can turn our situation around for good-the only way one can be forgiven is by doing good things today no matter how your sins might look-lets make Nigeria a paradise,a dwelling place to live  Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry       
Posted: at 10-06-2012 04:11 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- aso4life1 at 10-06-2012 04:54 AM (11 years ago)
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this guy is talking from experience

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- kokofreak at 10-06-2012 05:08 AM (11 years ago)
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nonsense
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- malvin2525 at 10-06-2012 05:32 AM (11 years ago)
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 Undecided
Posted: at 10-06-2012 05:32 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 10-06-2012 07:22 AM (11 years ago)
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Why d hell wud i break up in a public place  Huh? Huh?
Posted: at 10-06-2012 07:22 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 10-06-2012 07:36 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: chisparlis on 10-06-2012 07:34 AM
this poster is a dumb fool, instead of you to give us tricks on how to scope girls and fcuk the hell out of their p**sy and you are talking about dumping, who us putting interest in a relationship of nowadays, i take any body who is taking relationship serious as a fool, because at the end the relationship won't last. Lets play for fun. 

Why so full of hatred (srr dats how u sound to me).....
Posted: at 10-06-2012 07:36 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 10-06-2012 07:43 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: chisparlis on 10-06-2012 07:41 AM
No this relationship of a thing is not working, that is the truth.

Hmmm and what of those who are married for 40yrs? I think its possible
to find somebody u feel comfortable enuf with to stay. If u say u dont believe in love, then i can agree
to som extend  Smiley
Posted: at 10-06-2012 07:43 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- BendelArmedRobb at 10-06-2012 07:49 AM (11 years ago)
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Mr painter kelly hansome don turn to PAINTER 4 Owerri IMO state .Kelechukwu clap 4 ur self I SAY NO BE UNA FAULF YOU ARE JUST jobless, nonsense But do you yeah,and keep missing YAKUBU.......walk down the road and go hug TRANSFORMER...go boil stone ,its'll cure your sickness , MAKE UNA COME HELP ME SEE WHICH KIND STRONG HEAD PIKIN UNA BE HIA KPOMO UNA NO CHOP,FISH UNA NO CHOP,GOAT UNA CHOP    UNA SAY UNA WAN BEEF..........una too much!!! coffee wey I dey drink for hia comot for my nose as I read all una comment.    JOBLESS PEOPLE
Posted: at 10-06-2012 07:49 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 10-06-2012 07:51 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: BendelArmedRobb on 10-06-2012 07:49 AM
Mr painter kelly hansome don turn to PAINTER 4 Owerri IMO state .Kelechukwu clap 4 ur self I SAY NO BE UNA FAULF YOU ARE JUST jobless, nonsense But do you yeah,and keep missing YAKUBU.......walk down the road and go hug TRANSFORMER...go boil stone ,its'll cure your sickness , MAKE UNA COME HELP ME SEE WHICH KIND STRONG HEAD PIKIN UNA BE HIA KPOMO UNA NO CHOP,FISH UNA NO CHOP,GOAT UNA CHOP    UNA SAY UNA WAN BEEF..........una too much!!! coffee wey I dey drink for hia comot for my nose as I read all una comment.    JOBLESS PEOPLE

U are very annoying  Angry
Posted: at 10-06-2012 07:51 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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