THIS WOMAN NEEDS HELP: I’m Pregnant But He Can’t Afford A Church Wedding (Page 4)

if u mama make u do church wedding.make she pay for una now..dnt blieve in dis story bt posta get busy

Posted: at 20-06-2012 02:47 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie

why would you need help now after being pregnant,

Is church union a must? would you still call that holy matrimony? I no many greedy so call man of God will be happy to join two of you, but would the union be holy? remember you are carrying a child.

I think you should forget the church jibe, not really condemning it, its financial standing am considering.

Tell him (your Guy) to come see your parents and perform traditional rights as required by them. and for your protection if you so desire, head to the court.

It is still acceptable in the sight of God, don't be afraid you will not be offending HIM more than you have done,

Remember to pray for forgiveness!

Posted: at 20-06-2012 03:40 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie

My dear the day you will be officially married will be the day ur parents will hand u over to ur husband, not the day of ur weeding, so all u need to start with is to let him see ur parents first, but thats only if he really wana be ur husband instead of fiance,,, the issue of spending money on white weeding deepending on how u planned it, even if u and ur husband will be the only one at alter with the rev. father,,, no yawaaa, all u need that day is for the Priest to bless ur marriage... Simple

Posted: at 20-06-2012 03:49 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie

u re just one month pregnant ok, nobody will notice ur tommy upto 5 months, so just go ona nd plan ur wedding, u can do also low key church wedding,, ur family and ur hubbys family, it is very simple and cost low, just do the churchwedding and the traditional wedding the same day, take one arrow to kill two birds,,
 wish u the best of luck

Posted: at 20-06-2012 04:21 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

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Posted: at 20-06-2012 04:41 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

When he was banging you, you don't know he cannot afford a Church wedding?.

Posted: at 20-06-2012 04:49 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie

na by force..

Posted: at 20-06-2012 05:59 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Must you wed in the Church. Simply sign registry if it is necessary!

Posted: at 20-06-2012 07:33 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming

I`m even wondering what job she does with a 1st degree that earn her that amount as set-off payment in Nigeria. However, that`s not an issue. The story sounds silly coming fron a supposed graduate. It sounds like those things our fore fathers did tens of centuries ago.
The only advice I have for you is to use your education; your supposed trained brain to think independently like a modern girl

Posted: at 20-06-2012 07:57 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

They can`t afford white wedding and you`r advicing them of unneccessary investment into long term poverty?

Posted: at 20-06-2012 08:04 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac